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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He lied to me and then tells me that he did that because he doesn't want me to get upset!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband lied to me. But came to me to tell me he lied but the way he did it makes me mad and the more I think about it the madder i get. He starts out by saying "I want to tell you something but I don't want you to get mad at me". Then he proceeds to tell me the truth about ... (172 words)

Why would my young chatty, sweet coworker turn on me and complain to my senior about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

20 September 2015 (M) age - Hi, I really can't understand this girl. I met her through my work and we seemed to get in and chat away even about things that didn't link to the work I was doing for her. She's young, attractive and always chatty and sweet. Recently she changed to me out the blue a... (188 words)

I'm wondering if it's too early to invite him to upcoming holiday, like Thanksgiving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I've been with my boyfriend for two months and already, I very much care for him! He's met my close friends and little sister and brother. Made great impressions! Anyway, with upcoming holidays I'm wondering if it's too early to invite him to Thanksgiving for example?... (130 words)

Should I confront a cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Whilst I was browsing on a free online dating site I came across my friend whos girlfriend is eight months pregnant. What shall I do. I've known my friend since school, at school I had a crush on him and decades later I asked him out, which he declined as he met this new wome... (235 words)

Should I assume he likes me? What should I do the next time I catch him starring and smiling at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, What should I do the next time I catch him starring and smiling at me? I started a phd program in a new school a few weeks ago, and in the department almost everyday a lot of the grad students and some prof's gather for coffee or tea and interact with each ot... (566 words)

How can I get my husband to recognise that I cannot handle his 90 year old mother living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age - my husband thinks it is perfectly ok to have his 90 year old mother living with us it has been like this for our entire life together 14 years. Seven years married. I really cant do it any more how can I make him see sense i'm ready to leave... (52 words)

How can I get over this extremely painful breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

- My and ex and I split up in March and ive taken it badly. We split because we argued a lot and he had money problems. Ive been in turmoil ever since. Ive blocked him from facebook and changed my number and tried to move on with my life. He started dating just 2 weeks after we ... (383 words)

Should I try to re-connect with this guy? I did enjoy talking to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids, I met a guy this year in august at a friends friend birthday party. I just came out of a relationship almost a month before. I was standing by the water enjoying the cool breeze when a guy walked up to me. He's not really my type physically and doesn't know how... (358 words)

Should I contact my ex to talk things over? Or wait until he contacts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupids, my ex boyfriend is so engrossed with my life. I have told him every single thing about me. He knows my family history. I have given him so much information about me that he can use to destroy me. It doesn't really bother me I did all that(it's genetic) b... (418 words)

I've lost the passion for activities I used to love. Also considering losing my virginity before marriage. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - At what age is self discovery complete?. I thought I knew what I wanted in life completely at 18, but right now, my decisions seem to be fluctuating. I wanted to keep my body, my virginity for my husband but right now if I am okay with whom I am dating I might lose it. My... (127 words)

How do I manage the huge crush I have on my cousin, who I have never met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh where the heck to begin? Ok, so this is kind of messed up. I'll go back to the beginning so you get all the facts. About 3 years ago, I reconnected with a cousin that I didn't know existed. He didn't know we existed. So, in 3 years we have talked almost constantly, almo... (220 words)

What are my options while my husband treats me with such contempt, by telling me ''if you don't like it, move out''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age - Hi, my husband and I have been married for 35yr's. The problem is if I ask him to flush the toilet,or rinse the sink after he brushes teeth he tells me if I don't like it move out. Always telling how to drive,we are both retired and disabled and he leaves me all the chores. He ... (83 words)

Why do guys give the promiscuous flirty girls so much attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around with them and is always flirti... (157 words)

Should my Gf and I wait until we are married before we have sex? Don't want any unplanned pregnancy or any STD

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

20 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im a 22yr old guy, looking for answers whether should I wait until marriage to have sex. Well, my 21yr old girlfriend and I are together for 3yrs already. We always maintained a platonic relationship until recently, where we had become more intimate and things for me st... (308 words)

I need some dating advice and some clues to help me decipher body language. Can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys and girls I am a female aspie (mildly autistic). I am hoping to get some dating advice here. Here's the thing, there's this cute guy at work, I totally have a crush on him. But having Aspergers, I am pretty bad at deciphering body language. I am also totally clueless ... (134 words)

He's told me that I'm cute during the many times we chatted online. But was he just more interested in sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

20 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so im so confused about a guy that I've been talking to. We talked everyday for a week mostly snspchatting and messaging. We hung out last Friday and he was super nice, we talked about really deep stuff. And then we hugged for like 10 minutes he kept staring ... (288 words)

Is she seeing other guys? Hate the uncertainty. Could I have competition?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

20 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - For the first time ever I feel I might have made a connection with someone I met online, but I can't help but think she's seeing other guys whilst she's texting/chatting with me. I noticed she's registered on multiple dating sites as well. Does not exactly inspire confiden... (97 words)