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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to do things right, this time, with this intriguing girl, and not mess things up. What do I need to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - So, today we were in English class and we discussed as an excersie the new Maze Runner film. A couple of classes ago she had asked me a lot of questions (i'm the only boy at the classroom) and we seem kinda have the same interests. We talked about who had read the books an... (219 words)

How can I get past the regret of never being able to be with him? Am I allowed to pursue a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear all, For many years now I work together with someone in a local cultural institute. While I was young, about 15, he was 21 and I guess our age gap was considered too big, by ourselves and by others. I had a crush on him for years and he had 'many different feel... (467 words)

I need advice for my daughter who is living in a filthy one bedroom apartment with 4 children and one big dog! Her husband is never home because he's at his church!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Desperate I need an advise for my daughter who is married with four children, my daughter and her husband works five days a week. They been living in a one bedroom apartment and one big dog since my first grandchild was born 6 1/2 years ago, they been living there every ti... (300 words)

Is this his anger speaking or should I break it off with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So , I ve been talking to and hanging with this guy I like for a year and some ... He's never really asked to be my boyfriend or make it official. I have but he didn't give me a direct Yes. Anyways, He says he likes me, he said he loved me once or twice and I feel the same way. ... (408 words)

Is it normal to still be so angry and hurt? Why can't I forget?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Well nearly a year after the split I'm still angry and hurt that my friend went off with my ex behind my back. I have tried to do all the things I should do - like no contact and blocking off social media - but it still hurts and I still hate and think of the girl who... (174 words)

How do I show my boyfriend my way is the best option? I want to clear my debts before we live together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. no 'attacking' please . ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have discussed future plans what we both want i already have a teen son and my boyf has no kids . at the beginning i was all up for having another baby but ive been looking at thing... (352 words)

Should I have a baby with him? He's married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 38 year old lady who has been in an unhappy long distance relationship in another city(away from home) for 7years with no assurance from my man that he will marry me any time soon. At the beginning of this year i met a guy same age as me who was interested in me and i ma... (248 words)

He cheated. Now he's devastated I'm leaving. Do I give him another chance or give up ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I just spent the last few months getting my 25 year-old live-in boyfriend of nine years to confess that he cheated sometime last year. We'd had a great relationship other than this. I knew that he'd attempted to cheat at least twice before that (he says... (474 words)

Fiance wants to leave for a 3-month internship. How do I tell her I can't do a 3 month LDR ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiancé is planning on leaving for a 3-month internship next summer. We are both almost 25 years old, I am a real-estate developer and she is working towards her PhD in computer science. We have been living together now for several months, and we practically never go more ... (380 words)

It's not a crush. He intrigues me. Am I over-thinking this or does anyone understand what's happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all. I have recently started a college course that is male dominated with 23 boys to 3 girls (me being one of them) I've noticed that a couple of boys keep looking at me when I look up and then turn so it isn't obvious. There's one guy that if he's near me I can feel him ... (133 words)

LD Crush. Should I consider this guy as a friend and nothing else? Age differences and difference cultures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years back I used to work with a nice guy. We always got along great and I don't know if the feeling was mutual or not, but I was always attracted to him. At the time he was married (and I knew who is wife was, talked to her on several occasions, etc) and I had a BF... so ... (406 words)

Is it his ex he wants or me? He does treat me well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my partner for over a year now hes lovely with me treats me is nice to me compliments me..and we are moving in togerher the only thing is he has a nasty ex...who has stopped him seeing his daughter....I recently found browser history saying hed been looking at ... (89 words)

My now ex Bf goes missing in action, but is furious if I don't pick up the phone. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My Now ex boyfriend of 2 and a half years gets really annoyed with me if I don't answer my phone or text back or call back quickly. He always said "keep me updated". He made it clear how he feels and I honor this request as best I can. He has had some insecurity issues so I did ... (512 words)

He talks about getting me pregnant, but is it just all talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,(long story) im 23 and my guy is 19 yrs older. He uses the pull-out method. A few times he's came inside me. He askes about when im gonna have his baby. He says i hope you're ready to have a baby. But sometimes he says you better not get pregnant. And randomly ask what i w... (116 words)

Is it a lost cause to be looking for a man who, within a relationship, does not lust after other women ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

23 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm growing increasingly tired of men thinking they can lust after other women with no consequences. Like us ladies don't notice or we are just supposed to accept it as "men being men". Are there any men out there who genuinely disagree with looking at porn at least while they ... (114 words)