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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you face the thought of your partner dying without being upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age - My partner will die unless he has an operation for his heart which he doesnt want to undergo.If i mention it he just dismisses it out of hand and as i know time is short i find it very stressful.It also feels rather like being permanently and abruptly dumped because unless ... (152 words)

Is it true that size doesn't matter? My family tells me this but my friend say elsewise

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Is it true that appearance doesn't matter? I am a plus sized black woman and I feel like men judge me by these factors. I got bullied often because of my race and for being big in high school and no men ever really showed interest in me. I am not really happy with how I... (130 words)

Its frustrating that my ex can't see his new girlfriend for what she is

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex blamed me for stirring up trouble and talking behind his back when his current girlfriend (who he chose over me) does just as much stirring and gossiping. It really frustrates me how he blames me for everything and not her. She even divulged some private informat... (147 words)

How do I respond to my ex's comments about our past sexual relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - I am single and in my 40's and in contact with an ex. We were talking about our very brief relationship from years ago and I said to him that I enjoyed our brief relationship all those years ago. He replied that we had fun and that we had some good s*x too (with a wink). ... (164 words)

How do I cope with being disowned by my mother because of who I married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help coping with basically being disowned by my mother. My mother doesn't speak to me anymore now since I married a man she didn't approve of. In my opinion her reasons for disapproval were very petty and she refuses to meet my husband or even speak to him. So... (272 words)

If you have a nasty partner, is it cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 September 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - If your partner is nasty and doesn't miss any chance to belittle, criticize,and hurt you, is it considered cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else? I feel it isn't. ... (36 words)

Should I just stop wasting my time with a guy who is so like my father? Neither my father nor my Bf have much patience.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating someone for the last 3 months, and he painfully reminds me my father. They have one thing in common, it's the way they conduct all the conversations. My father has no patience listening to something that he thinks is not important. For the past 2 years ... (368 words)

Why do some men turn really nasty when they dump you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some men turn really nasty when they dump you? I had a bad fall out with my ex. We had only been seeing each other a short time but after a few months we fell out over a misunderstanding and he dropped me - just like that - no warning, nothing. He has a very high opin... (226 words)

I found out my boyfriend lied and cheated. Do I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, So I have asked questions before on this board and it really helped. Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for about 4 years. Things are tough because we both work medical and emergency services which means our schedules are crazy. Last Decemb... (427 words)

Is it really hard to find real love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 September 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Friends! Thanks in advance for taking time and giving me your suggestions/advice. I am 31, Indian, 5'6" and recently divorced. I come from a rather conservative background. Didn't really date much outside my culture. I had a very bad relationship with my spouse and thing... (249 words)

I don't want my abusive parents in my life. How do I tell them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have parents who are very abusive and drug addicts and I have never understood why this has happened. Despite me continuously trying to help them they will not do the right thing. I am at my wits end. Yesterday my mother yelled at me and grabbed me by my throat in front ... (116 words)

My body is "flat" and I feel a woman should look more womanly

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 25 year old woman. I have very small A cup breasts and absolutely no butt. I have a very 'flat' appearance to my body. I hate to say that I'm somewhat insecure and quite unhappy with my body. I find myself comparing myself to curvy women with big breasts and big ... (112 words)

Is falling for/crushing on other people really inevitable in long term relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 20 year old girl. I have had a few past relationships, and have been in my current relationship for a year. My boyfriend is 23. Just to be clear before I start: When I talk about "crushes", I mean the whole "can't stop thinking about her", "want to date her" kind of ... (780 words)

I left my husband because he hangs around his uncle who is a drug user and drug dealer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) age 41-50 - My husband has a horrible uncle who is a cocaine addict and also selling the drug and other things like stealing etc..and going causing trouble with other drug dealers. I have had many an argument with my husband about him associating with him as his uncle even offered him ... (377 words)

My husband is loving towards me but has favourites of naked women and goes to chat sites and looks at porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

18 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My Question is, is it ok for your husband to seek out new sexy females as friends on social networks constantly and connecting with porn or other people he is attracted to by following or friending them, he knows it hurts me when he does this and has said he would stop but he ... (215 words)