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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Advice please? should I contact him first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went on a date with a guy on Saturday night, it's now Monday evening and I still haven't heard anything- should I contact him first? Any advice appreciated Thank you... (38 words)

I don't have any additional time to give my Gf and I feel that she's eventually going to find someone who does have more time. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I'm a law student, which takes up a ton of my time. I also have a weekend bartending job to pay my bills, and a gf. So needless to say, I'm painfully busy and don't have a lot of free time. My Gf and I were together for 7 months up until m... (356 words)

Could his reaction, to me touching him, be regarded as him flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I like this guy and i met him 3 weeks ago in my college and he has 2 of the same lessons as me. We take the same bus home and i sit next to him. Today, i sat next to him and kept touching him and he was like stop touching me or i'll punch you. Obviously that was a joke and ... (86 words)

Should I try to understand where he is coming from? Returning to my religion is important to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiancé for 5years. Being financially stable is very important to him. This keeps him from wanting to wait to get married. We attempted to get married 2-3 years ago, but I didn't have any income cause my disability got cut off. So we called it off. We have... (98 words)

How do I stop obsessing over a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Agony Aunts. I've been talking to this guy online for the past couple of months. We get along great. Him and I message and call each other. I can tell he likes me. We live really far from each other. But talk on a daily basis. I've started to notice that I like him ... (91 words)

Parents won't let me go. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am having issues with my parents. I am 23 years old, chinese, female, and the youngest in my family, as well as my generation. I understand there is a degree of overprotectiveness, but ive had enough of it. I graduated from college (which i financed on my own with h... (505 words)

Have I done something wrong? I'm worried that I've blown it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been messaging this guy and we have a lot in common, I do like him but Saturday we finally got to what we work as and he spoke about a film I've never seen I've told him my current situation which is unemployed and my future situation which is building. I also said to ... (156 words)

I don't have a college degree, is this why I'm not being hired?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but I could use some advice. I was laid off from my job of 4 years almost a year ago and since then have had no luck finding a new job. I believe I have a great resume, I have put in applications both online and in person and have fo... (181 words)

Should it head towards 'more than friends with benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have dated this guy long ago when I was 17 and he was 19. We were together for 3 months. By nature he is very secretive! and so no one among our common friends knew about us. Someday he gets a girl to the same group and introduces her as his girlfriend. As this happened in my ... (367 words)

How do I make him feel comfortable with me in that department without being pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really need help. My husband and I broke up a few years ago. He now wants to give it a go at fixing things. He wants us to be a family. I've always wanted this and we have given it a go before but he changed his mind and left. Now he said he wants to fix things but wants ... (205 words)

I have developed this really bad phobia of marriage and relationships! Help me see reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I had a very bad experience of my first marriage of 1 week! I asked for divorce and am still a virgin, that's how bad my experience was. Anyways my problem is that now I can't seem to trust anyone! Everyone says that not everyone is like your previous husband and in-laws ... (183 words)

Why does he treat her better than he ever treated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday I was on Facebook and came across my ex's current girlfriend's profile on my 'people you may know' list. Both her and I are friends with my ex's cousins. I was curious and clicked on her profile to take a look. Two years ago, my ex and I met her online through ... (346 words)

What exactly are morals?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - What exactly are morals? I would define morals as standards set by society. Are morals flexible? I am very guarded about my sexual side. I have often read about people who give advice on this forum saying keeping your body till marriage is outdated. If it is so outdated, why do ... (108 words)

Monday through Friday, he's the man I fell for. But Friday to Sunday, I don't recognise him! How do I get through to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried about my boyfriend's drinking buy I have no idea how to get it through to him that he may have a problem. He is 13 years older, making him 37 and myself 24. We have been together for two years and although both families had an issue with the age gap, we have had... (445 words)

I know asking him to move for us to be together is a Big Ask. He wants me to move. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the past year. It's been going great but we have reached the point where we are both missing each other and seeing each other weekends is not enough. We are looking to move in together but have hit a p... (340 words)

Desires versus beliefs, what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

21 September 2015 (M)

age - I am in love with several different ladies. I want to make love to all of them. Yet I am a strict Christian, and have not acted on my desires, yet it is getting harder not to. What should I do.... (41 words)

I don't want my bipolar and depressed mother to live with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 50 year old mother who has bipolar and depression. For the last 4 years she has stopped working and has really not been herself. She is a completely different person from when I was a young girl. My mother has asked me if she can move in with me at my home so I ... (186 words)

I don't know what this guy is thinking or what game he might be playing, can anyone shed any light?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Agony Aunts/Uncles, I'm really confused about this guy I have been dating. We met a few months ago on a night out, my friend and his friend ended up getting it on that night and we went back to his friends too, but nothing happened between us bar kissing and talking unti... (351 words)

Please give me advice, guidance or reassurance about moving to marry him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3349 days ago

21 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years, 1 of which is long distance. I moved continent (not even country) and we've been trying to make it work ever since. We are very sure we want to get married soon because we love eachother and we have put our hear... (334 words)