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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Lately I have no desire for sex -- how do I get around this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) age 26-29 - Hey aunts and uncles. I'm 18 and in my first year of uni. My question is to do with sex... I don't like it! I lost my virginity last Summer, and it was good, great, fine. I have also had a one night stand since I have been at uni. Obviously this wasn't exactly ideal bu... (195 words)

She wasn't clear about the date but took my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3291 days ago

31 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, today a little problem came to me, about reading women´s behaviour or what they mean. Short story: I met her at work and we had a couple of small, funny conversations occasionally.... today, I grabbed all my confidence and asked her if she would like to sp... (197 words)

Guys and sex with some they don't like (or even despise) and the intimacy of that sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for a 24-26 year-old guy (who gets horny pretty frequently and easily) to get it up and have casual sex with someone he doesn't like, nor finds attractive, AND most importantly someone he finds extremely annoying? If he doesn't like the person, disappro... (157 words)

Husband's midlife crisis -- should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3580 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am scared and heart broken. Should I stay or go? I've been married 17 years to a man I love. I have issues of jealousy and separation anxiety and I don't know. My husband is a railroader and a union rep which requires traveling away from the home for a couple a d... (630 words)

I feel like I need to choose between my boyfriend and my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i am 21 years old, a junior in college. i have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now. my boyfriend is also in college, and is a senior. he also has a job and pays for his whatever he needs. in the beginning, we were still in high school, and we had lots of immature ... (703 words)

Why are single men generally more bitter than single women?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3576 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I find it bizarre. All my male acquaintances seem to be so bleak about their dating lives. I don't really understand why they are like this. I don't find that most long term single women display man-hating attributes. Yet, long term single men display so much bitterness,... (81 words)

His extreme jealousy is straining our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and everything between us is great apart from the fact whenever I am near another guy, he goes off on one and tells the guy to save anyway from me. It doesn't happen all the time, but in the past few months it has become more ... (347 words)

Why did he stand me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone thanks for reading I have been talking to this guy I met on pof for about 2 weeks now. And it has been going really well then on Thursday he asked me to meet him and I said yes and we both we excited talking about where we should meet wot we both like doing then ... (199 words)

Got drunk and think I messed it up with a nice guy I just met

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello and thanks in advance for your help :) So I was introduced to a guy through a mutual friend. We met for the first time 2 night ago. I wasn't sure if he was really interested or if he was doing it for our mutual friend you know? We hung out that night for a while-we see... (292 words)

How can I learn to not react? Should I continue to put up with his actions? My bf is neglecting me and pushing me for a reaction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't take being neglected anymore. My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We've hit a rough patch and things have been horrible. He ignores me knowing, full well, how I feel about it. Then I get mad and start bitching and he laughs at me. He won't even ask me a... (623 words)

I miss him. But we both left the business before we exchanged numbers. I feel so lost. How can I find him? please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

31 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to work in a well known food retail store in London but got the sack, last month, after many disciplinary hearings for being late. There was a guy (we'll call him 'John') who worked next door to me; I liked him the second he approached me - we just clicked and that has... (315 words)

Do I need to give up wanting to be physically attractive to him? He notices other women but seems to not notice me in the same way anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) age 51-59 - I really would appreciate some advice from the aunts and uncles here. They say that much of women's libido comes from feeling desired and I would definitely agree. I am a woman into mid 40s and have always taken care of myself and enjoyed doing so. I also have a healthy ... (302 words)

Would a man stay with a woman for nearly 4 years if he didn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - If your were scared of commitment, would you be with someone for nearly four years. but not live with her. Get close and then pull away again and then repeat. Despite illness on both sides, the rows maybe a couple days of calming down but he never wants to let her go. Wo... (183 words)

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always warns be about boys and says to... (86 words)

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / great times together. We ... (407 words)

Will I get hurt? He has troubles with his ex and he gets angry sometimes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a year ago and we have been dating since. We get on so well, and have become best friends. When we met he had just had a major surgery and was recently divorced. Since getting to know him he has had such a hard two years. He has expressed many sides, sometimes... (268 words)

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has not spoken to her since and... (241 words)

How do I back off in a LDR? How can I encourage him to chase me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the female, 23, and lately boyfriend, 21, has been acting distant. We've been together for a year. He would text me good morning beautiful and all those things but for the past couple of weeks or so, they are nonexistent. Whenever we text his replies are always short... (338 words)

Should I agree that it's OK? My Girlfriend wants to wear transparent clothing that will allow her breasts to be seen to others in public.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I let my girlfriend to go braless in public? Will it be okay to allow her? she wants to wear very short dresses, and dresses that allow her breasts to be seen through the fabric and be transparent and be viewable in public. She says she wants to show that her body is ... (63 words)

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could last longer.The conversa... (605 words)

Should I feel so betrayed? He lied by omission about visiting a Lap Dancing Bar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has totally betrayed my trust, and all he can say is he hasn't actually cheated on me, all he did was go to a lap dancing club but he lied about where he was going so he might have well cheated on me. He went with a group of friends for one of their birthdays.... (386 words)

My mom has cancelled plans to come see me but expects my husband and I to travel to see her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living abroad, half way across the world for 5 years now. I only have my mum pretty much left family wise, and we get along great, even if it is mostly on skype (i have been back twice, she's been to my new country once). Recently we have been discussing her coming t... (351 words)

Boyfriend has went no contact should I pay for his car insurance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - For a while now I've thought may bf of 4th has been seeing somebody else, he wworks away and I don't really see him anymore, we spoke on the phone or via txt most days,anyway 2weeks ago was the last I spoke to hihim, we spoke about him coming bk hear to live etc,I txt him that ... (216 words)

Why guys act so weird around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3582 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this one guy, hes an athlete and yeah which girl doesnt like athlete guys right? To me he is so wweirddd like seriously, he would stare at me in the physic class or any other subject in the classroom and I noticed it each time he would turn around his head, sometimes it ... (272 words)

All the signs are there to say he is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is the kinda guy that is usually so nice and understanding and not the typical asshole, even when we're super bad and he knows im upset he tries to make everything better. Takes his blame and even some of mine.. and just complete perfect, so thoughtful and so ... (698 words)

How can I get the number of my crush without too much trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a woman that I have a crush on who I worked with temporarily before I had to leave job. I wanted to get her number while I was there but someone was always around and other coworkers were beginning to notice that we liked each other. I have strong feelings for her and ... (147 words)

Fwb does he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - What started as a casual NSA fwb has turned into a year long relationship so far. This guy I've been seeing and I have the strongest sexual chemistry ever, we spend a ton of time together talking and hanging out, we talk through email almost everyday, and it's like we make each ... (221 words)

My ex managed to hurt me twice and I'm really having a hard time understanding why

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year me and my ex broke up, I had put undue stress on the relationship which was completely ruined and looking back, it was the right thing for it to be over. However, he just blocked me out of his life, one day he said he'd speak but then he never did. Never once said a ... (426 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want sex anymore, and I want it more than ever. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend works a lot, and is often very tired when he gets home from work. He used to want sex every time we spent time together, but since he has moved in with me, he has become apathetic. I am currently unemployed, and I know that is stressing him out, but I spend all day ... (166 words)

I've got the hots for my boyfriend's dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - From the moment I met my boyfriend's father, I have been very attracted to him. But recently when my boyfriend's parents dropped by our house to tell us they were seeing each other again after 10 years of being separated, I got really jealous for some reason. Since then, I have ... (147 words)

My mother-in-law ignores my children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help getting along with my mother in law. We been married for 5 years with 3 kids and till to this day my MIL ignored our children. When she calls she always asked about her son and maybe her grandkids later.....she always checked when we drive somewhere if he maded ... (384 words)

He's a great friend, but kind of a bad date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3365 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months. For various reasons, I thought he might eventually be ready for a real relationship but I finally came to my senses and realized that it will not happen. The last time I saw him (about two weeks ago) I kind of hinted t... (315 words)

How do I assure my girlfriend that I'm not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend constantly accuse me of cheating. It started a year ago, when we split for a few months. I dated another girl and she and I hung out often. I genuinely liked her, but never planned on settling down with her. Fast forward, my girlfriend and I put our differe... (255 words)

I'm uncomfortable with him getting me an expensive birthday present

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello! So tmr is my 16th birthday and well my bf wants to get me charms from pandora.. And well I told him it's really expensive that he doesn't need to get me like pandora stuff if he really wanna get me a pressie... And I told him to just come and celebrate my bday with me :) ... (125 words)

How do I handle my g/f going silent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks for reading I'm a bit on tender hooks today and need an outside opinion Been with my gf for a year - she's 21 and I'm the first guy she's slept with. We've had such a good time and all was great. Aside from when her nan died she went quiet for a few days and p... (265 words)

Husband wants oral sex 2-3 times a week but sex only once a month?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for for 3 years together for 13. I've been haveing this issue with him for 2 1/2 years. He wants oral sex about 2-3x per week, but no sex. We have sex once every 6months only if I intiate it. I have spoken to him about it multiple times and nothing changes. ... (203 words)

How can I tell him it doesn't have to be all or nothing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my friend of 6 months decided to be more than friends. he wants to push himself to be a better person and enjoy opportunities he gets in life, he decided we should actually become physical now as he felt ready , but suddenly hes got cold feet and reverting back to how he ... (122 words)

Should I tell this man how I feel knowing he may not return the feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, ive been seeing this guy on and off for a couple of years now we haven't made it official its pretty much been like a booty call, So i never really thought of us as anything else, til like 3 months ago.. i started to grow feelings for him. We Started spending more time ... (236 words)

Do all romatic relationships end in breakup eventually? If we lived long enough could we tolerate our partner for eighty years? What happens over time that causes the breakup? Is it inevitable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - After two long-term relationship failed, im beginning to wonder am I at all the cause. Im lesbian for starters, and I connect really well with females. Obviously somewhere I lost connection. My first relationship was 3 years... it ended bc my ex told me she wanted to be with me ... (306 words)

My friend bailed out on me, is it wrong that I am annoyed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I might be just asking this out of annoyance, since this just recently happened, but I have a question regarding my friend bailing on me. So we're in college, and we decided to take a weight training class together. In this class, it's pretty much you have the machine... (307 words)

All my friends have said to ditch him but I'm genuinely in love with him. I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

29 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there's this boy. We started off as friends, but one night we got very drunk and slept together. We carried on sleeping together every time we got drunk. But then we started doing more, so he'd ask me if i wanted to go for lunch or to the cinema or the beach, or even ... (384 words)

He seemed really interested in me, and then vanished off the far of the earth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there :) I met a guy about 2 months ago and we really hit it off. At first he was super keen and was constantly texting..ten over Xmas/ new year he went home to his parents and I hardly heard from him. As soon as he was back we started to speak again and he seemed keen to ... (243 words)

My boyfriend doesn't support my passion for competing in beauty pageants!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - So my BF has recently told me that competing in beauty pageants is a complete waste of my time. That I need to focus on career and becoming a wife and having more kids. I'm 30 and recently auditioned for a pageant and got in. It's coming up in a few months so I'm spending time ... (254 words)

How can I stop making my current boyfriend pay for the sins of my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - [MOD NOTE - OP's title] My last boyfriend cheated on me and broke my heart. I never want to go through that kind of pain ever again. Because of this, I am having a very hard time trusting my current boyfriend. My boyfriend has done nothing to make me think he is cheating.... (185 words)

How will I deal with culture shock if I move from the Usa to England?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have known each other for years (5+) and been dating for 2 of those years. For a while we have told each other that we seem right together and cannot imagine the future without each other. A month or so ago he began slipping in questions in conversations li... (443 words)

I'm an underpaid nanny. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've worked for this family for a bit over a year now. I'm honestly starting to feel like I'm underpaid compared to other Nannies. I m a certified nanny with CPR/ First Aid training. Hence I get paid 300 a week with no taxes taken out (7.50 an hour), but now I see that the cons ... (164 words)

I'm wondering if I feel enough for her for it to become a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been seeing this woman for a few months now. Maybe a dozen or so times in all, variety of dates - long short, just us and a couple with friends across 4 months. We're not a couple yet, nor had the 'talk', but we may well be that in all but name. Its clear we do li... (440 words)

Am I in the wrong with this about a guy I was seeing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I were kind of seeing each other for about 3 months. He introduced me to his family and friends. He would ask to see me most weekends and invite me to events. I remember this one time we were out, and I was talking to another guy and he asked who it was, in a ... (381 words)

We haven't had sex since our baby was born 6 months ago! Is my husband getting sex somewhere else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have not had sex since our 2nd child was born... Almost 6 months ago! Once we were in the clear 6 weeks after I gave birth I was ready. He said he wanted to make sure I was healed before we try. Funny how he didn't seem to be so worried after our first child so ... (125 words)

How do I fight to keep this woman in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

27 January 2015 (M)

age - She was married to her second husband for 18 years. She loved him deeply. She is a sensitive woman whom loves with all her heart. During their union, she had a rare liver disease and underwent 2 liver transplants. The first was rejected. Afterwards, he was later diagnosed with ... (499 words)