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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I confront my friend about his potential feelings towards me? And his actions while drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past 3 years I've been in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend who i've known for six years. I have a friend, lets call him *A* (to keep anonymity) who actually shares the same friend group that both my partner and I have. I've known *A* for the same am... (762 words)

I can't help thinking the worst. Is his past browsing history a sign that he's becoming a man I no longer feel I know?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I would really appreciate some help I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is becoming someone I don't know. I love him so much and couldn't really imagine life without him but I keep finding little things that make me feel unwanted; I found on his youtube history the othe... (139 words)

Is there a reason that this man and I keep crossing paths?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - OK has this ever happend to anyone? A man who works in my area is everywhere I go! Honestly every single time I leave my house I bump into him. OK he works in this area write it off, but the other week I was staying with my mum over Christmas miles away from my own area and ... (118 words)

I don't like the idea of masturbating and have never had an orgasm - help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now but I still haven't orgasmed during sex (at least I don't think I have...) He is my first boyfriend and before being with him I was a virgin. After speaking to most of my girlfriends, they all go on about 'how can I expect to ... (144 words)

I'm a big man with a small penis. Will women laugh at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this sounds a bit cliche but it has been troubling me for a long time and I need honest answers. I'm 21 , 6'3" tall, 190 pounds, athletic and I easily attract girls but I have problem that has been worrying me for a long time, I fit in the stereotype of a man with a big ... (189 words)

She wants more than friendship, was I right to ask him to remove her from facebook?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dated this woman before me, they ended things about a year ago (he says they just dated, and were not in a relationship). In summer, when he first got to know me, she came around asking him to try things again with her, and he told her he wasn't interested. Then a ... (294 words)

Gf's x is school bully and still Likes her and hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 January 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi I'm a boy 13 and yesterday me and my gf went to the movies and she wanted to see the movie but her ex got in a fight with me becouse I axedantly numbed in to him becouse some litle kid pushed me and so he said "I am going to kill you if I ever see you again" then he punched ... (124 words)

How do I get over him when there is so much history?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - o I'm 16 and have been dating this guy for a while. Two weeks before our two year anniversary, I got a call off a friend dating she caught him with another girl. I cried for hours and he begged for me back. On the next day he told me he didn't know why he did it and that it ... (455 words)

Should we have a discussion about being exclusive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 5 months ago and we got on very well and kept seeing each other. In the early days we went on dates regularly and things were going well for us. We are going away on holiday together in a few weeks and I have no reason to think that we aren't seeing each other ... (254 words)

We've been dating for 2 years and I've never met his friends or family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I have two issues I need help with. The first one is my boyfriend or whatever you wanna call him we broke up in June but then worked through it and he moved back in. But we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend. We do everything boyfriend and girlfriend do but we're ... (318 words)

Do I have a lot to learn or is he trying to take advantage of me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So my boyfriend is 7 years older than me and we have been dating for under a year. This is the first time I have dated an older guy. We don't live together and we are only together a few nights out of the week after we both get off for work at night around ten. We stay ... (354 words)

Airbrushed fron Family History and not sure how to proceed from here

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (M)

age - First thank you to whoever hosts this site and to the many responders with their wisdom. Not sure what advice you can give but any would be appreciated. Will try to be brief. Since I was about 5 years old I always felt different and never really fitted in. My parents did their ... (658 words)

My b/f is unemployed and we had a fight over me spending money. How do I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) age 30-35 - i'll try to make this short: my boyfriend and I have been together for little over a year. Everything's perfect. However, he's broke and unemployed and that means I take the financial burden. We both live with our parents, as we're in our 20s, "just starting out". When I was... (486 words)

Should I Have A Huge 21st Birthday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm turning 21 soon but I'd rather just go out for dinner with my friends than throw a massive house party or go out clubbing (I usually go out clubbing) Do most people have a huge 21st? I did a big 18th but obviously in this country I've been able to drink for 3 years anyw... (59 words)

I found out my boyfriend is cheating, how do I handle it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months has been acting strange he used to reply to my messages within an hour at the most but usually straight away but now he keeps coming up with stupid reasons like his phone needs charging I can charge my phone and still reply to messages so I don't see ... (104 words)

Am I coping out if I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Hi all, So I've been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years and we live together. When I first knew him he was smoking but he quit because he knew I didn't like it. He said he always wanted to quit. So he hasn't smoked the whole time we have been together. Anyway the other night ... (214 words)

Why could I barely feel this man during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. When i had sex, man on top, i could barely feel his penis. I am not loose down there as when i insert a finger inside my vagina, i can orgasm and feel my vaginal walls. I never had this pblm with my other partners. I also need deep and fast penetration. He said that he ... (105 words)

Would it be awful if I finally confirmed the break up over the phone? Or should I go round?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I'd like some advice please. My boyfriend and I have been having problems for a few months now due to the fact he is a compulsive liar and was talking to other girls inappropriately. I went round to see him yesterday with the intention of trying to work things out, but ... (271 words)

I need your opinions so I can move on quickly.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, i'll try to make it short, but it may get longer ,so i apologise in advance. please do read till the end. the story goes like this: i met this girl 5 years ago in a social network. after 2 years, we became friends in facebook. i started liking her, and i told ... (504 words)

My boyfriend wont cope if they take his licence!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. He recently got a speeding ticket for going 89 in an 50. (I know, that's crazy, but he's a teenage boy, aren't they all? Lol) he has a court date set (which I believe is febuary 11) and Is scared they are going to take away his license. ... (210 words)

Lesbian cousins on a blood vow... halp!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) age 22-25 - So im a lesbian and i happen to be in love with my lesbian cousin. Our relationship is going fine, and neither of our parents are homophobic, but we're wondering how they will react to incest. where i live incest has certain rules: sisters or direct relations? Nope. Cousins or ... (139 words)

My ex girlfriend's new guy snooped on her facebook and found our hookup messages.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - SOOOOOO here's the thing. Roughly 6 months ago my gf and I broke up. we had been together for 3 years and best friends for years before. We had just been fighting for a few months because the struggles of life (bills school etc) had gotten to us. During this time we had both ... (240 words)

Sex questions from a newby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a few sex related questions. I am 18 and recently started having sex with my boyfriend. Before him I was a virgin. I had read plenty and knew what I was doing but I realize everyone is different but I cant tell if you boy friend is just different or if I am doing ... (230 words)

He says he loves me and wants the relationship to move forward, but I feel like that's just asking for trouble!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a man for about 6 months. I really enjoy his company. He is funny and very understanding. And very passionate. But over the 6 months certain things have been bothering me and Im wondering if I should really be In this relationship or maybe I ... (453 words)

Why do I feel sick with doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - Recently i reported an employee for theft, it really sucked. I reported them jst before my holidays and i spoke to a manager and said they should keep an eye on so n so. After my holidays the management confirmed my suspicions but needed more proof. I told them what i thought ... (190 words)

My daughter insists that I go to psychologist. But should I? I've lost all enthusiasm about making new friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3608 days ago

4 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in my early 40s and I have to admit that I am losing my enthusiasm toward people more and more. I don't hate anyone , it's just I have no interested making new friends or holding conversations. No enthusiasm, no interest, just blank., I don't know if it's a sign of de... (212 words)