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writes:Me and my friend of 6 months decided to be more than friends. he wants to push himself to be a better person and enjoy opportunities he gets in life, he decided we should actually become physical now as he felt ready , but suddenly hes got cold feet and reverting back to how he was = not doing anything and not making the most out of life and now said hes not ready to be physical. ive said we can still see each other and if something happens we go with the flow but he seems to think it has to be all or nothing. how can i show him or tell him it doesnt have to be like that ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Pureflame  +, writes (29 January 2015):
Sorry, but I don't think you really can convince him. I think al you can do is give him time. And tell him you are around. That's probably all you can do. If you try to convince him, you might just end up scaring him more. Just give it time and see how it goes.
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