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22-25,
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writes:Hello! So tmr is my 16th birthday and well my bf wants to get me charms from pandora.. And well I told him it's really expensive that he doesn't need to get me like pandora stuff if he really wanna get me a pressie... And I told him to just come and celebrate my bday with me :) But he said that it was alright and its worth it to buy me like a charm or two. But for some reason, I feel bad cuz it's really expensive! Like honestly pandora is expensive in my country... So yeahhhh... What should I do? Hahah I know it's a strange question but still... I can't help but feel a little bad cuz it costs a lot XD Reply to this Question
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reader, Midnight Shadow  +, writes (30 January 2015):
 Assuming he's your age, I also don't think it's wise because, when being realistic, teen relationships are fun and should be enjoyed (safely), but they don't usually last - so, buying an expensive gift(s) when your near future together is very unpredictable, is a little.... silly?
Don't get me wrong; it's a lovely gesture, but you could say that you really wouldn't enjoy it as much as spending time with him and you'd hate to feel guilty about it?
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