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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've had an amazing holiday opportunity but I have an emotional problem leaving home and my mum for any length of time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. I've been offered and amazing opportunity to go to New York for a week with family flights and accomodation paid for, and considering I don't earn much money I may never get this chance again so I really want to go. I have figured it out and I can afford to ... (412 words)

Can't orgasm with my current partner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 25 yrs old,and spent the first 3 years of my sex life with a man of "Well Above Average Size". the sex was great - I orgasmed most of the time. Over the last year, I have been living with a man who is "average" and have not been able to achieve orgasm at all. with him ... (68 words)

How can I trust him? Considering his online chats and explicit conversations with other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age - My husband has been chatting to women on a game site, what he has said to them is very explicit. I confronted him and he said he doesn't know why he has done it and it was only words, he said in a conversation that he was going to meet said women, x3 women that is on the same... (89 words)

I still feel there's something he is hiding. Was his reaction normal after my accusation of infidelity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Married for 14 yrs..we have 2 kids.. I love my husband and I want to grow old with him. He loves me too and he loves our kids and family. Yet he has cheated on me in the past with escorts.I forgave him but never forgot. Everything was going smooth..we had lot of progress i... (277 words)

Does it mean he does not love me if he says he'll not put up a fight if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - If you tell your boyfriend you will leave him and he does not put up a fight does this mean he does not truly LOVE you or care for you enough? My BF says he would not stop me if I decided to leave him as he is not a fighter and if leaving him is what I would want, then he wo... (150 words)

Hurt by snide comments. Been losing my cool lately over the slightest things. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I need some advice I have been losing my cool lately over the slightest things. I live with my boyfriend and his family at his parents home. his parents are alcoholics and argue and yell often and the house is almost always a mess. I am depressed and that is no... (141 words)

Why show he was really interested in person, and now, the silent treatment? Is he playing hard to get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I have known for a few months just recently let me know implicitly that he was very into me. He never said it verbally but it was all in the eyes, and the tons of questions he asked me. He gave me his business card and repeatedly asked me to call him and to come and see ... (160 words)

My fictional creation of the perfect hot man is consuming my thoughts. How can I see past this fantasy and find a real man who I find satisfying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 25-year old virgin woman who has not had the chance to be in a relationship for a variety of reasons. As in, I haven't liked anyone who liked me back, and vice versa. However, that has rarely been a problem for me, since I'm a person with a healthy sexual appetite ... (225 words)

My first love was an online facebook crush. But now, depressed, I'm having trouble forgetting him. How can I get over him and concentrate on my real life new boyfriend? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a 19 year old girl. I'm in a relationship with a guy for one year. I'm not able to forget my first love which was on facebook.that guy used to flirt with which i took seriously we were friends for three years . when i confronted him he said it was never a flirt. it wa... (185 words)

Met a great guy. Things going well. But will it all come to nothing if we do have sex? Will he get bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this great guy online, we’ve been on six dates, he kissed me on the third and came back to mine and stayed the night, nothing happened. The same happened of the fourth date again nothing happened. On date five we went to the cinema and he held my hand throughout the film... (323 words)

What can an average looking girl do to grab a guys attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering if there is anything that an average looking girl could do to grab a guys attention? Is there a (non-slutty) way she could dress? A specific perfume? Any behavior? Something she could say? Have you ever developed an attraction for a girl after hanging out... (95 words)

Why do players only want to chase and date a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have never really had experience of a 'player' before as my first couple of boyfriends were quite serious. However, my latest guy I was interested in, hung around me until I told him I didn't want to get too serious and be messed about (as I know he was after other women to... (182 words)

He is severely depressed and refuses to get help. Our relationship is unravelling. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do or say or cope. My long distance boyfriend of two years became severely depressed in December of 2013 due to not being able to find a job after graduating law school. He is now in business school in hopes to get a new lead, but is even more misera... (803 words)

Attracted to guys but afraid of anything sexual

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Single, never been in a relationship, never dated, no experience whatsoever. So why is my biggest stress worrying about sex? I don't know when it started, but since I can remember, I've always been extremely shy when it comes to sex and nudity. I hated changing in fron... (752 words)

Wouldn't he at least text me to see if I was home safely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I ran into each other at a friend's house after not seeing each other for a year and 3 months. It was not planned at all, it just happened. We reconnected immediately and now we are talking again. We spent almost every night together last week. The problem is ... (362 words)

Confused about an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

5 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys first time I ever used this site and I guess there is a lot to my question so I'll get down to it. So me and my ex girlfriend were together for 5 years and some change. We recently broke up a few months ago because of family issues mainly mine in that they dislik... (1591 words)

Do I really have to turn my back on my cousin to make my g/f happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

5 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, This may get complicated so please bear with me. My girlfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship and we have been for at least a year. She lives in the Philippines and I live in the US. We met more than a year ago, and started a relationship a f... (645 words)

She's blamed me for her sexting, flirting and flashing on webchat. Is this classed as cheating? Can I trust her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

5 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my fiancee for almost 4 years now and we are actively planning our wedding. she has confessed to me that she has been flirting with her ex on text, flirting with other guys on web chat and has also been flashing on webchat. she says this is because we dont ... (113 words)

How does one get a guy to realise what he's lost? I want him feel the pain he has caused me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - been friends with this guy for years but he's shown a lack of value and respect towards me, because everytime I send goodbye messages ... then a few days will pass and we will talk again. How do I get him to start taking me seriously? How to be not available give late re... (115 words)

We finally met after lots of online communication. But he's different. What can I do to feel better about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

5 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need more help. I used to talk to this guy a few years ago, through a dating site, but we never met yet we were really close. He once started making fun of me when we were talking and I didn't know why. So I stopped talking to him, and never contacted him again ... (237 words)