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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex has become a no go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with my boyf a year and a half. Everything is great. I love him dearly we live together after recently buying out first home and plan to get married next year. Our only issue ... Sex! For approx the first year of our relationship we had sex all the time! Probably 9/10 ti... (253 words)

My gf is a liar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

26 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf lied about talking to her ex. I'm going to try to be as factual and unbiased as possible about this, and not include any of our history. For ease of explanation let's just pretend I'm psychic. Last night (Sunday), we're laying in bed and out of nowhere, I ask about ... (723 words)

He is never on time, the compliments have stopped. Is he losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3616 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for 6 months. Everything was going smoothly, we both agreed to take things slow as we both have difficulty opening up to new people. He always complimented me, he was always punctual. Lately this has changed along with a few other things. He is al... (276 words)

Could he like me, or do you think it is something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so to begin with I better explain my situation. I have anxiety disorder, and it is mainly social anxiety and this means that sometimes I just can't do something. Like I just physically can not do it. I'm not meant to force myself to do anything as it can lead to me... (449 words)

I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone offer some well needed advice please? I've been with my fiancé for 10 years - I got with him when I was 20 and he was 29. We are getting married in August. I do love him otherwise I wouldn't be with him but I keep getting doubts as to wether I'm doing t... (296 words)

Should I be worried? He brought up an ex of his and mentioned that she's a porn star now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were talking last night and he brings up a friend of his that is female (and also his ex)that she said that she is a porn star now (which I think might be a fib I don't know and I don't plan on finding out). He tells me that she also said to him that if ... (263 words)

I met the perfect Christian guy, but he's gay and has a boyfriend! How do I get over him and stay strong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a Christian girl and I met this Christian guy through a mutual friend at a party last Halloween. He was really nice and as I got to know him I totally fell for him, he was very respecting of women and he does things like help poor people. We get on well too and do things ... (232 words)

He's too independent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I´ve got this boyfriend for almost 4 years..we love each other, but I´m starting to feel we are different, event when I thought we are the same.. We fight in the recent time almost every day and I´m tired of it, he´s tired of it, we just don´t know how to continue... (307 words)

Is my 61-year-old husband fooling around inside the health club? Or am I just paranoid?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My 61 year-old-husband has a health club membership to use the sauna/shower/steam room. He does not go there to exercise. He is there a few times a week to shower after work before coming home. Is there cause for me to be concerned?? Is it possible he is fooling around... (374 words)

How do you get your confidence back after being in a bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out with my friends last night and ended up taking some guy home. I've never really liked one night stands and I don't know what I was thinking doing it. I'm feeling pretty bad about myself and kind of like a slut. But on top of that I haven't been separated from m... (340 words)

My boyfriend is not passionate or sexual

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend of 43 but he has an incredibly low sex drive. He says he just doesn't think about it much. He's definitely not gay or sexually frustrated or confused. He doesn't like lingerie or porn and is not visual with women and doesn't even notice a hottie on tv. ... (178 words)

My boyfriend of one year, is addicted to skype sex chat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for lil over one year, we spent alot of time to gether, went on trips, had a very fun snd relaxed relationship. Im 28 years old and he just turned 27. He had girl friends before me but never had sexual relationship. He was a virgin and we had sex ... (242 words)

I want to ask my girlfriend to marry me but I'm afraid it will scare her away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

26 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - It's a long story so be patient with me. I met C when she was 17 and I was 25. I had no idea how old she was because she moved in the same friendship circles I did. We went on a few dates and there was this spark. I fell for her instantly. She was witty and girly and clever. ... (316 words)

How can I be the partner she deserves, when my mind is still filled with thoughts of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I came out of a tumultuous 2-year relationship only a handful of months ago. I loved her so incredibly much, but we were constantly breaking up and getting back together (never once was it my decision to split) over petty, insignificant fights, and it was killing me. It happe... (537 words)

I am starting to dislike and distrust men. How can I move forward after so many disappointments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm afraid I'm starting to dislike men and I really don't want to. Can someone help me to work out how to get over these feelings please because I don't want to be that woman? Basically, I split up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 6 months ago. Things had been going downh... (1473 words)

Is my friend too busy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who I have known for approximately 5 years and every time we get together it's always a good time and we have a lot of laughs. We had drifted apart for about a year and it was mainly over her trying to talk to someone I was dating.. Also, whenever I wanted to ... (228 words)

I want my grandparents story preserved, but I don't want to upset Nan!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Soon, it will be 10 months since my grandad passed away. On and off, for about a year before that, I started to document (in story form) as much of their relationship as my nan could remember - my grandad had a memory block, so he couldn't have told me anything and my nan has ... (339 words)

I am so frustrated, all I am to him is somebody for dinner conversation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is significantly older than me. We have been dating for a year or so. He does not want to make love at all. He has an excuse for every time of day. No he does not have ED. When we first got together there was constant affection. Now he will start to touch me but out of ... (113 words)

My boyfriend doesn't understand that clinginess turns me off!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so, I've been having doubts about my current relationship. We met on a dating website 5 months ago, and started dating 3 days after we met... In all honesty, I only accepted going out with him because we had sex, and I then felt obligated to. (I know that's a stupid ... (495 words)

Is he interested or just being nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3617 days ago

26 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this cute guy in one of my swimming classes. I think im starting to like him, but I dont know if he likes me or is just being nice. On the day of the midterm, i forgot a pencil, and let me borrow his pen for the midterm. That proves nothing, but its the first thing i ... (154 words)

I'm confused by my assistant. Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

26 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Is she enjoying my company? Just wants my attention or liking the attention? Or am I being too available and too nice? I own a business and I have an assistant who has worked with me for almost 3 years. We only work together when we have a gig. During this time she has ... (308 words)