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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend misses her friends and family but I don't want her to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3634 days ago

17 January 2015 (M) age 41-50 - I've been with my gf for four years and i love her alot. I'm 31 and she's 26 I met her when she came to my city to see her dad and she decided to stay to be with me which is what i wanted too. We have a difficult relationship - she misses her friends and her hometown. She hasnt ... (201 words)

Should I talk to him about putting off sex until he feels he can trust me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a rut in my relationship. Long story short I cheated, There was no physical cheating. I was texting my manager and deleting the messages..they were not in any way inappropriate but I knew the fact bothered my fiancee so instead of nipping the issue in the bud I ... (309 words)

My Cousin Has Fallen For A Former Player, But I'm Not Convinced He's Changed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - My cousin is gay, and he happens to have fallen head over heels for a gay older guy (who's 29 and my cousin's 22). There is apparently mutual interest. The older guy is one of those people who is nice but very flirty. I've met him before and he made me feel v. uncomfortable... (319 words)

Great opportunity if we move, but it would take me away from family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) age 36-40 - What would you do? My husband has the opportunity to make an extra 35 grand. However, to do this we'd need to move across the country and away from my extended family. Our money situation is good at the moment. He makes 70 grand. But we still owe a ton in student loans... (418 words)

She's completely undermined my sexual confidence with her comments about her ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

17 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me apologize in advance for another penis post . LOL I can relate to the commentS I have read about being rejected and worrying my penis is inadequate. I am average but thick. 6" long and 6" around and she still tries to make me feel good about myself... But sh... (531 words)

Words that hurt and mind games in response

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I admit I'm not the nicest human being in this world. I have hurt my fiancé with words I said. But he's been playing mind games with me. We've not been the best of terms since 28 dec. I tried to talk to him via text he said to me he wanted space. It's been 3 weeks that this ... (193 words)

Is being 22 and a virgin off putting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22 and have never had a boyfriend, i've never had sex. I have given a blow job before to a guy i thought really liked me, apart from that nobody seems to be interested in me? Is being 22 and a virgin off putting? A turn off? ... (52 words)

I said I loved him and he broke it off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a libra woman was with a cancer man.. and ended my relationship with a cancer man. Our relationship was very healthy sex, communication, etc... He broke it off because I told him I love him...but yet he said he was happy with me and I didn't do nothing wro... (412 words)

I take an abnormally long time getting over relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, So, I am getting over a bad break-up that happened 7 months ago. The thing is, I general take a long time letting go of a relationship. Abnormally long I would say, we are talking several years. I have been to therapy over this issue and of course it all re... (211 words)

Am I wrong for wanting my nineteen yr.old son to move out and get his own apartment?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I have a three bedroom apt.my mom,son and I live there its roomy for us .But my son has a problem with helping with house hold chores.He works and goes to school but in between time he doesn't take trash out wash dishes or anything to contribute to the house.He ... (109 words)

How can I stop my sister's relationships from interfering with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Now, I may know absolutely nothing about relationships, but I have been brought to one striking question. In what way, shape, or form is the point of a relationship when all I ever hear from them is arguing and yelling every single day. Over the phone, every day she is argui... (445 words)

Is there a way for the kids to be in our lives despite his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and for the past year and a half his ex has been a complete nightmare. He has 2 children with her 7 and 3. The 7 year old has Autism. The first incident was when we met. She insisted on meeting me before I met the kids which ... (451 words)

Permanently rejected from the military, what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 27 and I have failed at everything I’ve tried. 20, tried to move out from home, couldn’t because my mom got very ill and needed care dad couldn’t provide because he had to work to keep our heads above water. Then dad lost his job too and got a heart attack on top of all ... (488 words)

Should I suggest we move in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are in a sort of a long distance relationship. He lives with his parents, but also keeps a flat in the city where his university is. Lucky for me, I'm living in the middle, so when he goes home or back, he spends some time with me. It's 2-3x a month for 2-5 ... (407 words)

Is this puberty or am I gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - I am 14 years old and attend an all-male Catholic highschool. I have been having sexual feelings for some of the boys in my class which I find attractive. I imagine scenarios with them and I wish to at least ^^^ with them or see their junk. I'm not open but I've told my best ... (106 words)

I don't trust him with this other woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3635 days ago

17 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I want my prevent my husband from working for a female tennent. My husband is the repairs manager for a local housing authority. One of the female tennents has needed ALOT of repairs done to her home and my husband has visited her for every repair. Even though he is only ... (160 words)