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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Are their behaviors suspect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This married guy is commenting more and more. And liking more and more of a female acquaintance's ingram profile. He likes other female profile pics. But with this female, they are basically having back n forth conversation about each other's photo and making jokes (thst lok ... (111 words)

Should I send him the present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I've been seeing this guy on and off for a just over a year. I let myself fall for him, knowing he was self medicating, and things are just getting worse for him. I'm just so annoyed with myself at the moment, as recently again, we got together. Even though we had g... (298 words)

Stay renting where I am? Or move in with him? Do I pay him rent when he's the one buying the apartment?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend plans to buy an apartment, and asked me if I would like to move in with him when he's bought one. I have suggested we rent together instead, but he's very keen on buying his own place and not rent. He can not afford a big place, so it will be small, with a fair ... (386 words)

Went on a date with my online friend, but received mixed messages. Did I offend him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Your views would be welcome. Thanks. I went on an online date on saturday night. I had been talking on the phone to this guy for over a week. He was polite, and interesting. Anyway, we hit it off on the date, but after about 30 minutes he had put his arm round me... (447 words)

I feel like my father's verbal punching bag. So how can I get through this? Still saving to leave home.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and I'm stuck in a situation where I've been emotionally abused by my dad for a few years now, even though it's not that he wants me out of the house, he just uses me as a verbal punching bag every other day. It just comes naturally to him to always blame me, to fin... (320 words)

Advice please. Has anyone ever stayed in a long term relationship due to the SEX being out of this world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you do when you and your boyfriend have this crazy, intense, over the top physical, sexual chemistry that neither of you has ever experienced with anyone else? And it seems to sometimes take on a life of its own? I find it gets in the way of the relationship som... (447 words)

Confused and torn between loyalty to some long term friends versus the rest in my friend group. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I am really confused and not sure what to do. In my friendship group at school, there is 7 of us. Two of my friends are obsessed with these celebrtites. Anyway, it is obvious my other friends are getting angry with them constantly talking about it, and whenever my two frie... (199 words)

He's moved in and we're in love. But after what I found on his phone - could he be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age - Hi I have been seeing this guy for10 months he has moved into my home and is sweet and I'm so in love. I found porn on his phone which I don't mind but now I have found this site called f^^k buddy Could he be cheating? I work, he doesn't.... (55 words)

Why is my Bf's best friend so possesive towards my Bf? Why is he so moved to be so divisive?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's best mate is very possessive over him and it seems to be negatively affecting our relationship. What should I do? I'd be happy to have him around all the time because I know him and my boyfriend are very close but he's not very nice to me. He's constantly makin... (353 words)

How can I discover the truth? Is he not interested, or is he just having time-out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just started dating someone new. Before meeting, we were in touch for 10 days quite intensively by text/ SMS. Couldn't meet up sooner as he was away. Then we met up and had a nice first date as far as I was aware (we were intimate, yes almost certainly too fast but t... (230 words)

Have the tingling of I new outbreak. Could I have infected him due to oral sex we had last night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I woke up this morning with the familiar tingling pulse of a cold sore. I've always gotten cold sores but much less frequently as an adult. My boyfriend has never ever had one. Any way my predicament is that I performed oral sex on my boyfriend last night. I did not have a... (115 words)

I unfriended his new Gf. Should I call him and question why my ex suddenly blocked me? We were on speaking terms.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupids, I was coping ok after finishing with a guy I had a quick fling with and we remained friends on Facebook for a bit. However, I unfriended his current partner for obvious reasons and now he has blocked ME!! - and I can't cope!! I was able to move on knowing we we... (101 words)

How does this happen? Normally cautious. So why did I open up to her, trust her, and share things with her soon after meeting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I was wondering that sometimes we just click with people and regardless of how less we know them and how less we spent time with them, we start to share the secrets we never want anyone in the world to know. It's not that you are careless but it seemed like the right th... (192 words)

Is this normal or would people assume he is sleeping with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that i'm involved with who has been friends with this girl for a few years (has known her longer than i) that is apparently visiting and staying at his place (she lives in another state). They have worked at events across the country in the past and I never ... (270 words)

I'm fed up with letting the past year haunt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Can I firstly say thanks to everyone who reads this questions and reply. Please don't judge me as I'm finding it hard hence why I'm asking for advice. Il try to cut it short. Me and my boyfriend started dating when I was only 16. Five years later everybody ... (1039 words)

He reeled me in and reeled me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts and uncles I met this guy last year, we became friends and then i began to like him more than a friend. A few months later we kissed and we ended up sleeping together in the same bed but it went no further than that. He withdrew and i didn't see him agai... (667 words)

What can I do about my insecurities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, just would like some advice about the situatuon im in basicly me and my bf have been together 3 years and becausr of my insecurities I feel like im ruining the relationship a little as I dont feel goid enough. I no alot of people have body issues byt this is really ... (144 words)

My jealousy and paranoia will ruin the relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. Maybe I am just crazy but here is my dilemma.... My boyfriend works with all women and his clients are all women. How do I ever get over my insecurity of these women? I know he wants me and needs me. And he isn't looking for anyone else. He keeps telling... (275 words)