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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell my family what my fiance's ex is like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello.. Just need opinions on a predicament I have. I am getting married to a wonderful man this year, he has 2 kids from a previous relationship who I love to bits. The problem is his ex, she is a nasty piece of work, my fiancé had to go to court to see the kids as she ... (236 words)

Lack of conversation with my girlfriend makes me wonder if its time to leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for a year now, but the lack of conversation between us is starting to make me consider whether or not to take the relationship any further. To add to this a girl at my works party, but who I don't work directly with, gave me her number and told ... (253 words)

3 messages in 3 days..is he blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi For the past week I have been texting this guy I really like. He was the one that sought me out. He asks me to meet him I say ye and we will sort a day to meet cos we both hav busy jobs. We stayed up till 3 talking on Tuesday night Wednesday morning getting to know ... (127 words)

Motorcycle Picture on Facebook ask to be removed caused a breakup

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 20 months. Both of us are twice married. Her second relationship was very, very bad. It hurts her badly to think of it. It damaged her emotionally and if she could, she has said it was the worse mistake she ever made. One day, I saw a ... (269 words)

How do you stop yourself from missing someone that you shouldnt be missing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just split up with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do with myself. Since I was 16 I've always had a boyfriend, it's only been a few days and I feel lonely and bored and I miss him. I know I sound pathetic needing to have somebody in my life all the time but I can't ... (248 words)

I feel like I might be doing something wrong but I'm not sure. I need perspective.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Two weekends ago my buddy and I were out at bar having drinks, we are both police officers and were off duty at he time, when we decided to leave we took a short cut around back and saw two guys trying get a very drunk young girl in their car she was asking for her friends. We ... (403 words)

Should I spend all my money to move out (and become broke), or wait for my dad to give me money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to thank everyone here that adviced me in the past. I was previously anonema but forgot my password so I had to create a new account. Your words really made me take a different approach towards handling certain situations in my life. I have finished university now and ... (412 words)

My girlfriend won't let go of her old FWBs and it's very hurtful. Do I need to let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship with this girl, its been almost 6 years together, she's lied to me about serious stuff like old " f and @k buddies" she so claims them to be.. Which are dudes.. Our relationship there's no sex I'm lucky if I get any twice a year, it puts a lot of stress on ... (171 words)

Am I pestering him? Do I need to be more considerate? I am scared of losing him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I'm abit confused; It's regarding a LDR (which yes, we live far apart, and yes we have met each other a handful of times - I would happily move down to him or vice versa but finding work is the tricky thing, we both work full time and have cars and bills to pay - I ... (359 words)

How do I let my boyfriend know that I like it when he looks and dresses a certain way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a guy I am not physically attracted to. We were friends for years but lost touch. Eventually we got back in touch recently and he asked me out. I said yes because he is a great guy-sweet, kind, caring, warm etc. I actually can not say bad things about him. So I ... (291 words)

I want him to realize what he lost and change for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - [OP's original title] I and my ex were together 5.5 years. We had some problems in december cause he get a new job so he wanted to hang out more with his coworkers including admins(girls).last saturday, first time after a month saw each other and we gave each other clothes ... (265 words)

I told him no contact and I blocked him, but he got mad. Should I unblock him to send him one last message?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I started No Contact on Sunday so that I could start healing from my ex (of 10 months). Before cutting him off, I sent a one liner email saying "I wish you the best." Then blocked him on Facebook and erased him from my messenger contact list. Shortly following this, he called ... (106 words)

He told me that I am exciting but we have nothing in common. Do you think that's potential for a future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy I met online for almost three months. During these period we have had ups and downs, but enjoy each other’s company. We just spend a three day weekend together out of town and although we had a small discussion, overall we had a great time. However, he ... (135 words)