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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I need to give up wanting to be physically attractive to him? He notices other women but seems to not notice me in the same way anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) age 51-59 - I really would appreciate some advice from the aunts and uncles here. They say that much of women's libido comes from feeling desired and I would definitely agree. I am a woman into mid 40s and have always taken care of myself and enjoyed doing so. I also have a healthy ... (302 words)

Would a man stay with a woman for nearly 4 years if he didn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - If your were scared of commitment, would you be with someone for nearly four years. but not live with her. Get close and then pull away again and then repeat. Despite illness on both sides, the rows maybe a couple days of calming down but he never wants to let her go. Wo... (183 words)

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always warns be about boys and says to... (86 words)

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

30 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / great times together. We ... (407 words)

Will I get hurt? He has troubles with his ex and he gets angry sometimes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a year ago and we have been dating since. We get on so well, and have become best friends. When we met he had just had a major surgery and was recently divorced. Since getting to know him he has had such a hard two years. He has expressed many sides, sometimes... (268 words)

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has not spoken to her since and... (241 words)

How do I back off in a LDR? How can I encourage him to chase me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the female, 23, and lately boyfriend, 21, has been acting distant. We've been together for a year. He would text me good morning beautiful and all those things but for the past couple of weeks or so, they are nonexistent. Whenever we text his replies are always short... (338 words)

Should I agree that it's OK? My Girlfriend wants to wear transparent clothing that will allow her breasts to be seen to others in public.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

30 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I let my girlfriend to go braless in public? Will it be okay to allow her? she wants to wear very short dresses, and dresses that allow her breasts to be seen through the fabric and be transparent and be viewable in public. She says she wants to show that her body is ... (63 words)

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3609 days ago

30 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could last longer.The conversa... (605 words)

Should I feel so betrayed? He lied by omission about visiting a Lap Dancing Bar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has totally betrayed my trust, and all he can say is he hasn't actually cheated on me, all he did was go to a lap dancing club but he lied about where he was going so he might have well cheated on me. He went with a group of friends for one of their birthdays.... (386 words)

My mom has cancelled plans to come see me but expects my husband and I to travel to see her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living abroad, half way across the world for 5 years now. I only have my mum pretty much left family wise, and we get along great, even if it is mostly on skype (i have been back twice, she's been to my new country once). Recently we have been discussing her coming t... (351 words)

Boyfriend has went no contact should I pay for his car insurance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - For a while now I've thought may bf of 4th has been seeing somebody else, he wworks away and I don't really see him anymore, we spoke on the phone or via txt most days,anyway 2weeks ago was the last I spoke to hihim, we spoke about him coming bk hear to live etc,I txt him that ... (216 words)

Why guys act so weird around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3613 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this one guy, hes an athlete and yeah which girl doesnt like athlete guys right? To me he is so wweirddd like seriously, he would stare at me in the physic class or any other subject in the classroom and I noticed it each time he would turn around his head, sometimes it ... (272 words)

All the signs are there to say he is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is the kinda guy that is usually so nice and understanding and not the typical asshole, even when we're super bad and he knows im upset he tries to make everything better. Takes his blame and even some of mine.. and just complete perfect, so thoughtful and so ... (698 words)

How can I get the number of my crush without too much trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3614 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a woman that I have a crush on who I worked with temporarily before I had to leave job. I wanted to get her number while I was there but someone was always around and other coworkers were beginning to notice that we liked each other. I have strong feelings for her and ... (147 words)

Fwb does he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

30 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - What started as a casual NSA fwb has turned into a year long relationship so far. This guy I've been seeing and I have the strongest sexual chemistry ever, we spend a ton of time together talking and hanging out, we talk through email almost everyday, and it's like we make each ... (221 words)