New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2015, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (10), 2 (19), 3 (19), 4 (26), 5 (20), 6 (14), 7 (12), 8 (7), 9 (12), 10 (14),
11 (19), 12 (18), 13 (19), 14 (16), 15 (17), 16 (14), 17 (16), 18 (19), 19 (21), 20 (21),
21 (16), 22 (12), 23 (13), 24 (18), 25 (17), 26 (21), 27 (20), 28 (8), 29 (14), 30 (16),
31 (11),

Archived questions from: 3 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

(More questions from January, 2015)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Gf's friend likes me but the "like" is not mutual. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - So I'm boy 13 and my gf's friend likes me and I don't. She always follows me around and sends me notes and she is starting to break up in a relationship and now she braeking is up slowly, but I don't want to be like, "you should just stop being friends with her" because ... (99 words)

Is it time to cut him off? I have been there for my friend but he hasn't reciprocated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm looking for advice on my friends, I am a single mother and spends a lot of time just me and my daughter. I had lots of friends before I had my daughter but stopped seeing them as much as obviously my situation had changed, until just before Christmas my "best mate" of... (179 words)

What should I do? He told me he wanted to be friends for now, because he kissed someone else on NYE.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I need a bit of advice. I have been speaking to a guy for a while now and he treats me right and helps me and any moment he can, but the problem I have is he told me he wanted to be friends for now because he kissed someone on new years eve! I wasn't too bothered because... (154 words)

My girlfriend caught me lying, should I just break things of now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - About 3 weeks ago, my girlfriend caught me lying to her about a couple of stupid things. She's quite conservative and I lied about the things I did (which I don't think are a big deal) because I didn't want to upset her, although I do know that lying was wrong before anyone has ... (194 words)

Still a virgin - is it too late for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, So cards in the table, I'm a 28 year old virgin and very inexperienced (I.e have only ever kissed and had my breasts fondled). I'm not religious, or waiting for my soul mate it's just I've been very career focused so relationships/sex was never really in my lis... (117 words)

Does he like me as only a friend? Is it safe to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I could really do with your thoughts on if my friend likes me as more than a friend. So we met at a sport club about 2 and a half years ago (along with a girl who has become one of my best mates). The 3 of us, always used to always train together but lives got in the way a... (325 words)

How can I stop my ex-friend from telling this guy I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, I like my best friends twin brother, and she knows and is cool with it, but I really don't want him to know. my ex friend keeps threatning to tell him and he's also one of my best friends so I don't want him to know, as I don't want it to come between our friendship or ... (77 words)

Please help me to understand and come to terms with my situation

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

3 January 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - First, may I commend you on this site. I stumbled across it like everyone else here because I recently had a relationship end that I am struggling to come to terms with, and understand how things are as they are now. The other issue I have is that despite looking for ... (1579 words)

I feel trapped and stressed - I need words of wisdom.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3366 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I feel trapped and I am pretty sure I shouldn't be feeling this way. I am on a gap year and whilst travelling fell in love. This guy is so genuine and has fallen for me completely. I also fell for him but I don't think as hard... past relationships that didn't work out ... (334 words)

Do most guys in their 20's prefer "trashy" women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I like said to us last night that he prefers women who are "trashy". When we asked him what he meant by "trashy" he said those who are more sexually forward/experienced and are liberal about things like doing drugs, as they're more "open minded" and "fun." It also c... (160 words)

I am attracted to my fiance's older, married cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My fiancee is ten years older than me and i love him very much. The age gap has never come in the way so i don't want anyone to mention it. His cousin is 8 years older. I was with my fiancee two years until i met this guy and my fiancee had me warned that his cousin is a fli... (286 words)

I don't mean to sound like a dragon, but what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My little girl has the most brilliant step dad. He loves her, teaches her and does everything and anything he can to support us both. Yet, I still find myself screaming with anger at how her biological dad treats her when he can spend all his time with his girlfriend and her ... (562 words)

How do I tell my friend about how he acted towards me and my partner drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - On Wednesday my boyfriend and I thread new years eve party. In total we invite 6 people and of which people were still relatively sober at midnight except from one of my male friends *James. unknown to us, *James had drank a full small bottle of jack Daniels, had some... (402 words)

I texted her "thanks for ruining my relationship" and she just lolled!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf of a year broke up with me due to my friendship with a girl. On hindsight I was more emotionally invested in her than my gf and I do regret my actions. A few days back I texted her (out of anger) "thanks for ruining my relationship". (When really it was both our faults ... (77 words)

The more she drinks the more obnoxious she becomes, should I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this lady at a social function. She was the life of the party funny witty and outgoing. She seriously could be a professional comic. We have hung out about 7X since our meeting. These hang outs have been scattered over 3-4 years. Casual Friends. The problem is at our ... (172 words)

Would it be okay for me to ask my boyfriend which of his female friends he has slept with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend still has a lot of female friends from high school. He is now 33. Some of them are ex gfs and others are girls he just hooked up with once or twice. They are all friends on FB and continue to see each others in groups or separately as he still lives in his ... (150 words)

Could his online message have been meant for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone a few months ago. He is very attracted to me (and I to him), and I recently went out of my way to do something nice for him to thank him for something he did. We are just friends and neither of us has said anything...yet. I am still in a relationship (not a very ... (166 words)

He says he will support my decision, but I feel he is pushing for an abortion.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy over the summer while we were both vacationing. We kept in touch and he has visited me since then every other weekend and sometimes those in between. Although he lives in the next state over we keep in contact daily have great conversation and love to have fun. I ... (208 words)

I may have made the wrong decision, how can I feel better about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3610 days ago

3 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to talk to this guy a few years ago, through this dating site, but we never met yet we were really close. He once started making fun of me when we were talking and I didn't know why. So I stopped talking to him, and never contacted him again for 3 years. Until last yea... (227 words)