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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Mom got drunk and talked nasty when she met my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months. We meet on a trip I did to Cuba. My sister and mom went to Cuba recently it was my mom first time meeting him. My sis already meet him. My mom really embarrassed me. She got drunk like always and she was talking crap to my b/f ... (114 words)

Should I tell her that I've never had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

11 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been on a few dates with a woman and we seem to be really clicking. I'm thinking we'll have sex sometime soon. There is one thing gnawing at me though. Should I tell her I'm a virgin? The thing is I'm 35 years old and suffered from self-esteem problems when younger and ... (103 words)

Tit for tat in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone tell me whats going on? Met this wonderful guy, weve been on 7 dates and for the previous three hes stayed over at my place, shared a bed and just kissed, he only tried it on once but i was on my period. He came over for dinner last night, he got the ingredients ... (303 words)

He says I leave him stressed and sad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Of late my boyfriend have been complaining that i am a bitter person and i carry so much negativity around him that i do not make him happy anymore.He says that when i see him i leave him stressed and sad.What should i do to change that i do not want to lose him,... (54 words)

Ex boyfriend wants to take me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My ex boyfriend and I dated for one year, we never had any fights and truly loved each other. Before we started dating I told him that for our relationship to work, he ll need to convert to my religion. He promised he d try to learn more and told me that converting should n... (329 words)

He's always ditching family things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my bf for five years, broke up three times within that time...he's 14 years older and now, we're trying again. My little sister (10) is the most important person in my life, he knows this. Lately, he's complained we never spend time etc so I spent the night, we had ... (170 words)

My ex vs. my LDR -- can you love two people at once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my LDR for eight months. I love him and our sex life is amazing. We have lots in common and always have fun together. Sometimes though, I feel like he hasn't got much time for me. We don't get to see each other that often and I'd just like to... (297 words)

Just found out my long term boyfriend texts a woman from work... and also gives her a lift to work in the morning! should I be ok with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. He is very loyal and sensitive... In fact I have never known him to really text other women, even though he is a very friendly person. He is very trustworthy, I honestly don't think he would cheat on me and he always puts our ... (358 words)

How do I get over this irrational fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me with this irrational workplace fear!? I have accrued a lot of vacation time at work (3-5wks) and my boss says I must take it in the next 6-7 months,(I have no choice in the matter, pressure is being out on her from management to get her staff to take le... (498 words)

What should I do as I can't stop thinking about my love affair !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this probably a really silly situation but I really don't know what to do.... So I've liked this guy for around 4 years every time I used to see him out when I had a drink I used to say things to him I.e I like you, I fancy you etc but things never really progressed as I ... (403 words)

What should I do when my parents say judgmental, vulgar things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - The differences between me and my parents are unbearable and I find myself avoiding them. My parents are in their early 70s and I am 42. I was divorced nearly 3 years ago and have not found a new partner yet but am taking my time to meet a good man. I see my parents every ... (284 words)

Follow up to previous post: How should I act when he comes home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all. Following my previous post where basically my bf of three months went to india- sister's wedding and his cousin's wedding. Also his parents live there. Even though he had said not to msg as his sisters will be near him etc, i found it hard and i got really sad i ... (217 words)

My girlfriend doesn't accept help and doesn't progress in life. How should I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 January 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I been in a relationship for two years and I'm really struggling. We never used to have problems until now I'm getting fed up because of decisions she's made. She had teeth pain over a year ago, I took her to dentist, she missed the next appointment. We lived together for ... (343 words)

How do I become less obsessive about checking for messages from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My SO is currently traveling for work and due to this we're communicating via email. We've both promised to write to each other at least once a day. We don't have a fixed time to write so I find myself checking my email every ten minutes to see if he's written. Any ideas on how ... (67 words)

I still love this guy, my sexual partner and father of my children. But has my declaration about marriage driven him away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age - I have three children. The first two are in their early 20's and left home. My youngest is 11 and from a relationship with a man I have know for over 30 years. He is a great father to the children, but about 2 years ago I decided to stop all intimacy as I wanted more of a... (230 words)

Will I always regret not sleeping with someone else if we do marry?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I was brought up in quite a religious family and was taught not to have sex before marriage. While all my friends were having a varied sex life during uni I was with another guy who had similar values. We broke up and I have now been with my current boyfriend for 5 ... (129 words)

Do you think I might have hurt his feelings? I think of his as my FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a "relationship" with this guy named X. We must be FWB's because we've agreed that we aren't calling each other bf/gf. My question could be complicated for some, mostly because I don't know how to ask it. But I was wondering if someone... (245 words)

The paternity test has confirmed that she is 100% his daughter. But he's been avoiding me. What is my next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with someone then we broke up so I started seeing a new guy. The relationship really didn't turn into anything longer or what I wanted and so the first guy and I got back together. The first guy pursued more than the second. Shortly after I found ou... (278 words)

Recently broke up. He has health issues. He's retreating more into his "man cave". Any suggestions on what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, my ex boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me for the second time. We were in an overly committed relationship. He has a couple of mental conditions on his hands that he hasn't dealt with before the start of our relationship that he has been trying to deal w... (251 words)