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writes:I know I might be just asking this out of annoyance, since this just recently happened, but I have a question regarding my friend bailing on me.So we're in college, and we decided to take a weight training class together. In this class, it's pretty much you have the machines and the weights, like a gym but smaller scale and the coach gives us free range; just wants us to work out. Only thing is, he'd really prefer if we had a partner, but it's not mandatory. Bottom line, we both decide to be partners.We both go look up some workouts to bring and do the day of class, and decide that I would do her workout. She agrees and it's basically just lifting free weights and a bit of cardio, not bad.Today, the day before we officially get to workout, I suggest, hey, let's do your workout one day, and mine the other? Sounds reasonable right?She suddenly bails on me and basically says that she isn't comfortable working out in a whole room of people and would rather work out alone for a while. That doesn't make sense to me and rather it sounds to me like she just doesn't want to be my partner? If so, why doesn't she just say it?She was okay with everything until I suggested we do some of my workouts? I'm not okay with this, and I know I sound immature, but I feel like she should've given me more of a heads up rather than waiting until the last minute.I'm okay with finding a new partner, or working out alone, but I just want to know if I'm being unreasonable for thinking she's being unfair?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 January 2015):
 She is being unfair. I'd just drop it and find a new partner.
And yes she should have given you a heads up, now you know, she is kind of a flake.
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