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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really love the new guy but how do I break up with the current guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm confused of what to do. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for almost a year now. I met a new guy recently through a male friend. This new guy has really been nice to me. He said he wants us to get into a relationship but I told him I have a boyfrien... (136 words)

Is marriage really as bad as it looks?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

24 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I've noticed that when married people talk about marriage, they rarely sound happy. It's usually described as hard work, a battle, or a series of ups and downs. It's a land of expanding waistlines, pointless arguments, sweatpants, crying babies, and boring or nonexistent sex ... (277 words)

How do I know if he still likes me or if I've lost a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - So my friend dared me to ask out my crush so I did and I know he already liked me, we went to the movies but we haven't spoken since and I think he might be thinking about getting back together with his ex. How do I know if he still likes me or if I've lost a friend?... (59 words)

Does it mean that I have low self-esteem because I'm more concerned about his feelings than my own?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very attractive, but I think I have low self esteem. This guy I like has rejected me several times. It started a few years back when he told me that he was separated, but wanted to pursue a friendship with me. Since, then we have dated off and on. But he seems to always ... (190 words)

Can I stay in this relationship even though I don't fancy him? Is there anything I can do to get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey cupids. Ive been with my bf for coming up 5 yrs. We have been living together for almost a yr. We both work a lot, he works a lot of night shifts while I work on a rotating shift pattern, days, nights and afternoons...because of our work we don't see each other muc... (192 words)

How do I combat my shyness and tell him that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Help i have fallen for my sister's White friend after dancing at family wedding. lets start form the beginning. I am a 20 year old Hindu girl and my sister and her friend are 23. recently we all got invited to my cousins wedding. at the reception I chose to sit alone a... (305 words)

How do I get this girl out my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (M)

age - I have been married to my wife for 11 years and I do love her we have a child together. The last 8 months I have had another women on mind 24.7. I met her through work well she's a client not a co-worker. The girl is beautiful and in her late 20s every time I see her I can't ... (176 words)

My best friend is dating someone horrible from my past! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey your answers in the past have helped me a lot so I'm here again with something new that I'd love your feedback on. When I was 15 I started dating a guy and he treated me badly over the 4 years we were seeing each other. He cheated on me with a lot of people. On one p... (805 words)

She had oral sex before we got married and I just found this out! Was she a virgin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

24 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 30 years old and been married for 9 years. I was a virgin when we got married and she told me she was the same. Till after 8 years of marriage and 3 kids later she tells me that she gave out 20 or 30 blowjobs to two guys before me and she said they were naked during those ... (104 words)

I'm rubbish at this dating game, so please help me understand if he wants to see me again or not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm rubbish at is dating game and need some advice please..... On Tuesday night I met a guy at a works leaving do. (Our company is huge and he works in a different office and have never seen him before) We were talking all night until the bar we were in closed. He then ... (454 words)

Am I overthinking this or does he still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello to everyone reading this, I would like some advice please, I am not sure if I am just over thinking this situation or if there really is a situation here that needs dealin with. My partner and I have been together for four years and we have a 2 year old, he also has a 10... (400 words)

Its a very delicate subject ......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my mother in law who likes to sit on my husbands lap for photos - not every time but just when she feels like it that is what she does. She just gets up off a chair and sits on their lap and this seems 'normal' to them but not to me. My father in law is ... (556 words)

Am I wasting my time trying to change him?`

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I work in a clinical setting and I like to be organised,clean and tidy. My boyfriend of a year is scruffy and doesn't make himself tidy or presentable to see me. He works on his car and house a lot. We talked and csne up with a compromise. In exchange of doing some jobs for me ... (330 words)

How can I appear more approachable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you make yourself appear more approachable? I hear all the time that sometimes people don't get dates because they seem unapproachable. But what necessarily gives off that impression? I've heard the whole spiel about smiling and making eye contact, but what if ... (300 words)

I need a break from him but we live together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I need space from my boyfriend, but we live together. We've been together over 4 years and moved in together almost a year ago. For the first time in a while, I worked some overtime over the past weekend and have had to work a little later than usual. This has caused me to be ... (256 words)

I'm pregnant and the father wants a termination.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

24 January 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Im pregnant. When I found out my instinct was to become a mother not to have an abortion. The father wants nothing to do with a baby right now because he wants to move and continue to find himself as he will be 25 in May. He’s called me selfish, arrogant, and childish and ... (170 words)

My sister in law is cheating because I showed her how to use the internet! How do I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 January 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me start out by saying a love my little nephews and brother to death and would do anything for them.I a very sensitive person and consistently asking people are they mad at me. I feel so bad and it's totally my fault that their mom is cheating on my brother,this has... (213 words)