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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

For the grown folks, what advice would you give to your adult child who is about to move out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I just graduated from nursing school and I'm 18 years old and I got a job as a licensed practical nurse, it's feels great and I make a decent pay check :) but I'm thinking about moving out of my former guardians home because I'm not happy being there because I ... (177 words)

I'm having an ongoing fight with my boyfriend. Was his comment about calling okay? How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all..so my boyfriend and I had a fight 5 days ago-well not really a fight, so here's what happened: wie just made up from another fight and sunday he cooked dinner for me. He told me that he's still looking for a job and just can't find anything (there are plenty of jobs, ... (324 words)

He was rough during sex and I bled from it. How do I bring this up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and we slept together but he was quite rough and I bled, I know why I bled, it's because I only lost my virginity a few months ago and I've only had sex twice since. He doesn't know this and assumed I was just coming on my period, how do I tell him the truth? I'm ... (80 words)

How can I defend myself against this worker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. I apologise for the length of this problem. OKAY so I am quite an easy going person. I respond to banter, even the odd jokey name calling and can take a joke as well as the next person. But I am also very shy, sensitive and sometimes a little bad tempered.... (728 words)

1st pregnancy and I'm a little nervous! How will I know if water breaks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all agony aunts just a question. I am on my 1st pregnancy and so a little clueless about things. im only 28 weeks pregnant but a scan 2 days ago shown that my lil baby was already lying with her head downwards as if she was preparing to be born ... hopefully she's ... (203 words)

Oral sex with no protection..should I worry about disease?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

30 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in the habit of frequenting sex workers on a weekly basis. Now, I typically use condoms where penetrative sex is concerned but there have been occasions where I've received unprotected oral sex. I've done some research and apparently, it's extremely rare for anyone to ... (91 words)

How many marriages start with the girl twisting the guys arm?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering in general how many marriages start with the girl twisting the guys arm?! I just heard two stories of girls I know. One moved out of her apartment and refused to move back in until her boyfriend proposed... Which he did after three weeks! The other involved a ... (425 words)

Is porn getting in the way of our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is 22 and I am 24. He watches porn A LOT. As in, a few times a day. I know that most men look at porn, but is this like normal? Our sex life is ok but I feel it sometimes comes to a point where he prefers watching porn over having sex. (He, himself has actually said so ... (208 words)

What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

30 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as much possible anyway. Eventua... (221 words)

Help, my dreams are making me paranoid!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, aunts and uncles, Just a quick question, lately I've been dreaming about my boyfriend cheating he's never cheated, but my dreams are making me think he is, I've had some wheres married and my best friend new I have children with him and.he's with another women just reall... (68 words)

Break up? Try the LDR? Be realistic about the partying? Give up my dream of having children? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34yrs old woman and in a relationship with a 23yr old man. Yes, yes... I know. When we met, I look around 23 and he looks around 25...until of course we found out each other's real age a few dates after! I thought it could be a bit of fun but it somehow led to a rela... (574 words)

How much does porn influence a mans expectations of how a woman should look naked?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

30 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok please help aunts and uncles .... I'm single and ready to date again after a lengthy marriage. I have met a few guys but one really nice one and I'm pretty sure things will become physical soon I'm just a little worried thought as I know he has been single ( with some rela... (221 words)

I feel like he just wants to go around and sleep around and then I'm just stuck here waiting for him to be done. How do I move on with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend recently broke up. Maybe about 1 week ago. Our relationship has been very difficult, we dated for a little over a year. (14 months) our biggest issue was trust. I have caught him texting other girls throughout the relationship. My bf is 20 years old but ... (381 words)

Should I be selfish for once or be the good girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have this problem... I have this friend I've known for two years now and we always kind of liked each other. He's much older than I am and is in a relationship. Because we were such good friends, I know his girlfriend really well now too. But since a few days there i... (147 words)

How to tell if she's only dating you for the money?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - There are some things worrying me about my girlfriend. At first, things were great and I never really had to spend much. Lately, the more I shell out, the more she expects it and doesn't really say thank you. I take her out all the time, we go on dates, see movies. I get he... (258 words)

How to encourage my significant other to take care of her skin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel bad saying this but... Sometimes, when I am really close to my girlfriend's face, I feel unattracted to her. Well, I find her attractive at a closer than conversational level. But I tend to analyze every detail, line, and freckle on her face when she wants to gaze in... (363 words)

I don't know how to feel about my ex now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I had my first bf when i was26. He's three years younger than me. We spent four years together and planned to have a family before he dumped me. Its been a year since we broke up. I'm trying to move on. I'm doing okay now, but I know I'm not over him yet. Sometimes I hate him, ... (158 words)

My co-worker doesn't invite me along when she goes out with our colleagues, should I confront her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have an office friend, we know each other for almost 7 months. She is nice person, but i found one annoying thing about her which kind of hurts me as well. We used to go out for lunch few times, sometimes she leaves me and goes with other collegues and never b... (145 words)

Married now and sex life has bombed, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age - Been married a month, living together 6 months and dating 3 years prior to that. Fabulous sex life until now. It's like as soon as we were married he wasn't interested. There are no worries now except for his job but they're the same worries as before, nothing new. Is thi... (167 words)

My husband's chasing another woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 6 years and it's been great but in the past 4 months he has got really close to a female at our workplace, he then asked me to be friends with her which I was ok with because she seemed nice, however I noticed my husband behaves differently ... (197 words)

Is the girl in my class jealous of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a girl in my class who is annoying me. Whenever I'm happy she tries to make me down. And she always tries to call me fat, stupid and ugly and imperfect. Whenever a guy compliments and flirts with me, she acts like she is not listening. And she is just jealous of how my ... (117 words)

I'm having trouble accepting newly found step-siblings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My father had two daughters outside of his marriage 23 yrs ago. Although I knew about it, I prayed it was not true because it will crush me. I grew up looking up to this man as responsible. My whole life seems to be shattered now because of this. No trust for men if my dad can ... (204 words)

Wondering about long-term relationships and living together or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I know on here people often mention about relationships being a fairytale, but that isn't true, obviously. However, I found out that some couples in longterm relationships don't live together, not just for financial reasons - personal space etc. so I doubt the other realit... (184 words)

His self-harming has led to him cutting me off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , would love some advice . I was dating a guy for several months and as I got into the relationship I realised the guy had some mental health issues that included self - harming . I tried to be patient and loving as he was finalising his divorce , then as we became m... (124 words)

I'm fine with being polygamous but he just likes to cheat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we got engaged in November. We started off very casually because we don't live in the same city - I happened to be visiting his town on a business trip, I met him, we hooked up, kind of thought it was ... (734 words)

I had sex with my best friend, but she is married to somebody else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Sorry, this is a bit of a long one. My best friend is female, we've been friends for about 10 years and she's married. The past couple of years, she's sank into depression. This is due in part to her husband never being there due to work and when he is 'home' he'... (486 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to trust living with me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

29 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together for almost a year and a half and lived together for 10mo. We've been having a lot of arguments and most of the time it is him misunderstanding something and having short tempers. His divorce finalized last December and he has one baby boy. He said we need ... (457 words)

Woman I'm sleeping with is becoming weird and clingy, how do I handle it?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, So I have a little dilemma. I've been sleeping with this woman I met. She's cool and everything and when we hang out we have a nice time, but she's becoming extraordinarily clingy. She texts things like "Do you miss me? What do you miss about me?" etc and the other ni... (213 words)

Since I said no living together without marriage he's backed off

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months, he is 39 and I am 27. We don't live together and he stays about an hour away from me, for the last 15 months I have been going to visit him every weekend, I go on saturday morning and ... (503 words)

I haven't told my boyfriend I'm pregnant yet, and now I'm back to checking his phone for texts! I need your help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ever possible to truly move on from finding out your other half has cheated on you? The reason I ask is because for the past ten months, since getting back with my boyfriend since finding out he had cheated on with a mutual friend, I have thought I had got over it. Howe... (388 words)

Dating a new guy: are these red flags or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for a long term relationship and have a question about the early warning signs in dating. I have recently met a guy, we have had three dates and he's handsome, intelligent and sweet. The dates are great, we talk a lot and he tells me how attractive I am ... (252 words)

Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did that and we made out a few ti... (177 words)

There's a guy I like and I think he likes me too. How should I approach him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay guy. There's this new guy at a restaurant I go to. He started looking at me from the first day he started to work. I noticed he looks at me very often and gives me a shy smile. I also showed interest. He shows interest whenever I look at him. I am not sure what he ... (164 words)

Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (first loves) we lived together i... (864 words)

Am I too pessimistic about relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I went out yesterday with some friends and I was looking around me. I kept seeing all sorts of couples hugging, holding hands, kissing, looking happy, etc. There were really a lot of them and I felt a bit sad and awkward. All this was kinda weird for someone who has been single ... (1467 words)

Do I wait for this girl to get out of this teenage phase if she does love me? Or do I force myself to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Never used one of these sites before but I am currently feeling rather lonely and upset about my current situation. I think I better try to explain the situation: Well, I have known this girl for a while, probably 2 years. Im 23 and she's 22. We used to ta... (759 words)

What is the deal with my husband and this strange woman?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age - I am a newlywed. 6 months married. I am starting to see some really off things about my husband and I want to get some advice or opinions from others. I love my husband, he has some wonderful qualities but I think I may have made a mistake in marrying him. A little backgroun... (711 words)

I just cant seem to make decent friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been attempting to look for decent friends these days to absolutely no avail. The people I choose are, for lack of a better term, flakes. Its always the same formula with me. I will become friendly with someone, we will share similar interests and when talk arises about ... (190 words)

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they will soon end that marriage... (97 words)

How do I get my old friend back? She has turned to God and her personality has changed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. So I have this friend. She was great in high school. Fun, friendly, happy to go out all the time and try new things. Well, she ended up with a few boyfriends (none which lasted very long and hurt her terribly) which made her go back to her church and devote hersel... (394 words)

Can you have an orgasm without the contractions? Or is it possible to experience a different sort of orgasm when you make yourself do it or your partner does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had two sexual partners. Being with the first guy was rather underwhelming, but I had a lot more chemistry with the second. He was pretty experienced, too. Everything he did felt amazing. What I genuinely don't understand is, every part of my body would react as if I wa... (140 words)

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We met online in 2009 and marr... (1006 words)

What is a sensible waiting period after a date and when should I accept that the guy is simply uninterested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a question to ask, as i am feeling slightly confused @ present. I finally got to meet my online date for the first time, this weekend just passed and we hit it off so well and spent more than 8 hrs together, doing all sorts of things around town. My onl... (441 words)

Nothing in common but he makes me laugh. How long should I let this continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Call me shallow but I've just started dating a guy who is stunningly good looking and I'm only into him because of his looks. Him and I have absolutely nothing in common....all I know is he makes me laugh like I've never laughed before and whenever we go out in public, he only ... (134 words)

Is this relationship OCD or am I out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am lost here. Every time I have a disagreement or see something I don't like in my boyfriend, I immediately go to the 'we're not right for each other' place and it's driving me a little crazy. I've been with him for years. I've broken up with him several times because of this ... (220 words)

Do women care about premature ejaculation from a bj?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I tend to have a problem with coming too quickly and so I expend a lot of effort trying to make sure I don't. Obviously this is an issue with vaginal sex, but what about with oral sex? I try not to orgasm too quickly when receiving oral, but does it matter? Are wo... (98 words)

Is this man a sleaze bucket or am I a prude?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently went on a first date with a guy in the public services blue uniform high up who I met online. He tried to kiss me intimately outside a pub in the car park which I found embarrassing and then text me later that he was going to be doing some DIY before bed (not the ... (155 words)

He is never there for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids, I have been in a relationship for three and a half years with a guy I met in high school. I am currently in my second year of college while he opted not to go to college. I have school and a part time job while he has been around unemployed. Lately with all of h... (216 words)

Has my relationship run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so I need some advice. Has my relationship ran its courae.? I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At the beginning we got along so great he gave me everything I wanted in a relationship he made me feel amazing! But now it's a ... (232 words)

The memories remain and it still hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ow do you forget someone you used to be in love with? We were on and off for nearly 3 years.We split up due to mutual agreement as we felt it wasn't working. I got my own place a few months later and he got in touch again and visited 3 times. We ended up being physical and I ... (203 words)