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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I only the one who only gets chances with extremely unattractive people or people with strangeness?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I only the one who only gets chances with extremely unattractive people or people with strangeness? This has probably been asked before, I don't get it anyone I like doesn't like me back or they've done something unforgivable, yet unattractive people seem to hang around a... (98 words)

Did my suggesting a daytime date put him off the idea? Should I cancel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - After chatting online a guy asked to meet for dinner. I was happy to and we had a nice evening. We paid half each I had no problem with that. He since suggested I go to his for an eve meal. I feel this is too soon as he is an hour away to drive so he might expect me to stay. I ... (151 words)

Long to do list before 29 will set me back in my love life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm doing my first year of uni. I've always been a little lost as to what I wanna to EXACTLY, so I've decided to just do everything. That way I'll experience all that I want then have no regrets. My interests are education, the arts, psychology, travelling and helping others ... (228 words)

As I haven't heard from my boyfriend in over a month, does that mean I'm single?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been about 4 or 5 weeks since I've spoken or even remotely heard from my boyfriend. About this time last month he asked me to pay his phone bill. I politely declined because I thought it was too early in the relationship to be asking to pay one another's bills (we only ... (100 words)

I just don't trust my husband, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Married 13 yrs.he is only guy I ever dated.he is a good provider and a good father.I found he cheated on me while I was pregnant with our 2nd child. He hired escort service in 2010.but i found out after 2 yrs through his email in 2012. We fought, cried and then he convinced me ... (204 words)

How am I misreading people so much all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have had too many social problems my whole life especially with women and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Mostly I'm being friend-zoned or else I'm being led on or just teased or something. I mean, I even had this one woman I worked with who seemed really nice and ... (521 words)

I'm frustrated over being single for so long!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - It's going to be 4 years soon that I am single. Sure, I've met people and "dated" (very very briefly) a few guys but haven't been able to find a guy to actually have a decent relationship with in all this time. I enjoyed being single (primarily for the first 2 years after my ex ... (290 words)

Where is the line between dating someone and being in a relationship with them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel dumb asking this, as if the answer should be obvious, but where exactly is the line between dating someone and being in a relationship with them? I've been seeing a guy for about a month now, though we met at the end of last year and you could say we became friends. ... (191 words)

My question is do all lecturers give students a recommended book that they don't use or follow themselves and expect more from the student?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm in my final year of college and completing my report from my big project. I sent in a draft of my intro the last day and got feedback from my supervisor yesterday telling me that it was crap. I knew it wasn't great but I didn't realise it was that terrible... (230 words)

Should I move to where she is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me give a quick backstory: I have a best friend I’ve know since the end of high school, close to 4 years now. We dated briefly at the time, but due to some irrationality on my part and some communication problems, it ended over a slight bit of time. By the time colleg... (297 words)

She's so close to her ex that I don't know what to make of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone. So, I am 25 years old and I recently met a new girl. We have really hit it off super well and although we have only been seeing eachother for three months we are already feeling quite close. I am crazy about her and almost everything about the relationship is ... (352 words)

Why do guys not commit to the girl they were with, but with the next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that every guy I have dated, is now in a serious relationship, or engaged? But while they were with me, they did not take me serious at all. I was a good girlfriend, I prob could have i?mproved in some stuff. But above that why do guys do that, why aren't they ready ... (67 words)

I'm worried that I won't be enough for him and I panic every time I put on a little weight!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an ex-chubby girl who's a major nerd and kinda antisocial. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. At the beginning I thought he adored me and i felt really confident and comfortable with myself. I'd also just lost weight, which helped. A few months later i found out ... (248 words)

Has any woman here suffered from PMS and been able to 'manage' it without taking anti-depressants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Has any woman here suffered from PMS and been able to 'manage' it without taking anti-depressants? I start to feel extremely weak and depressed about 5-7 days before my period. Often I feel nausea and for about 5 days before my sleep pattern is very bad, I just can't sleep... (509 words)

I found out my boyfriend has been talking to another girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so i've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and we live together. back in February we was fighting a lot. It was every single day all day. it got to the point where we really hated each other. In march we fought a lot as well we went maybe 2 weeks ... (408 words)

My family and friends seem to be ignoring me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My family and friends never seem to want to stay in touch with me and I don't know why. This has been going on for a long time. Over the past week or so I've messaged on facebook or texted/called several of my friends and family members, and they either ignore me, don't say ... (145 words)

Was there any need for him to send this message to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello friends. I have been dating a guy from past 10 months. Our relationship was quite good but we had some problem because of his ex. I think he is still in love with his ex. He still have her photographs and messages and still saves some memory from her. I think that is ... (280 words)

Should I move to his state?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I went to visit my best friend in other state. We have been friends for 8 years. Last year until now, he has been asking me to move to the state he is in to be with. He says he love me and we are trying to take our friendship to the next level. We really are the same ... (135 words)

My parents are not as excited as I am. Their reaction has dampened my sense of achievement. Are Internships in Italy easy to get?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

2 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Are internships easy to get? I applied for one in Italy and a few days after having the interview I got a call saying I've got it. However, my parents and a few my friends weren't as excited about it as I was, they just simply said it's great I have been offered it and a... (262 words)

What do people think? I'm 21 and he's my 40 year old lecturer. I'm falling for him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

2 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i've some how developed a lot of strong feelings for my male lecturer. He's definitely hitting the 40's and I'm 21. There's something about him I love, we've talked a lot on a personal level too, we just ... click. I've pretty much finished Uni now, just have a fe... (222 words)