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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he trying to scare me or does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm in a odd situation. I'm a college freshman and I go to a small private college (around 1,000 students). Anyway, for about 3 months now I've been seeing this same guy everywhere, even if I change up my schedule. I see him about 3 times a day or so. I can live with ... (256 words)

I've hardly seen him since November and all he says is that he is a bit busy at the moment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - im so confused right now,i met a guy on plenty of fish in 2010 and have got on well since then the first yr we only spoke on phone and never met since them we have obv met and he has moved on with us once may 2012 until aug 2012, then he moved but always spoke on phone or txt, ... (221 words)

How can I respond to his declaration of love when we're just friends....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused with this guy!? I've been working with this guy in the past 3 months. We get along very well and started chatting immediately. There is chemistry although recently when it's just the two of us it feels a bit nerve wracking and there's been a few awkward sile... (319 words)

Am I being horrible to ask him to get tested?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? Why won't he get tested? Am I overreacting? So I haven't being with a guy sexually for 3years now and I've been dating this guy for almost a year now and I want us to start a sexual relationship. He says he hasn't been with any woman for 3 years. ... (160 words)

I'm struggling to love my baby girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone help me with this but I honestly think I don't know how to love, I have a baby girl who is 15months, I take care of her as that is my human instincts to make sure she is ok andd has everything she needs, I have no problem doing all the practicle stuff ... (278 words)

Why would my boyfriend tell me he wants a baby when he doesn't even want to live with me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

4 April 2014 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me in January that he wants a baby. I was delighted and started eating a healthy diet and looking for a job in his area as I assumed we would of course be moving in together. I never discussed that stuff with him at the time though as I was still on depo pro... (325 words)

I've lost interest in my husband but I feel trapped because we've been together for so long

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 23 years and have 3 grown up children, so for the last 3 years I haven't had sex with my husband. I miss having sex yet I don't fancy my husband anymore. He has a low sex drive anyway and he has let himself go, putting on 3 stone extra in weight, not both... (123 words)

Am I expecting too much from men during times of crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year my brother committed suicide and my boyfriend of one year was so unsupportive and indifferent that we broke up. He wouldn't take any time off work and was just distant and uncommunicative. He said we all deal differently and I was too emotional. This year I met a ... (177 words)

Is my boyfriend pretending to be separated from his wife so they can collect additional benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend 3 years ago. He'd separated from his wife a year before we met but they weren't divorced yet. He'd managed to get his own council flat so I took that as proof that he was single. I now start to wonder if they are just pretending to be separated to claim more ... (610 words)

The love of my life just confessed to having cheated on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years confessed to cheating on me. I never thought he was capable of doing this because he claimed he loved me so much that he wanted to be with me until the day he died whether it was in a week or 65 years... I found out yesterday. He texted me saying h... (687 words)

Should I try to rekindle his and my friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! So, a while ago I met this guy on a chat site. We were both on there looking for friends, we were both in relationships when we met, and just wanted people to hang out with when we had some spare time. Time went by and we met in person, he was a really nice guy. And I co... (456 words)

I thought getting married would fix her insecurities, but she is still acting abnormal and crazy on a daily basis. Do I let her file for divorce or stay and try to work it out?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

4 April 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Its been a while agony aunts since I wrote in. Same or similar story, same girl. This time I really did it though. I went and married her on December 21st, 2013. Didn't take the advice, I tried, unplugged for a whopping 4 weeks, thought I was doing good. And one day we spoke, ... (812 words)

We don't save any money because he sends it all to his parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

4 April 2014 (F) age 41-50 - hii am married to man who is nice and treats me well.we been married 3 yrs..i am a student,my husband earns very gud money. we go for movies ,restaurents once in a week,a yearly vacation..i never asked him more than that..the problem is he never save money for ourselve... (150 words)

How do I end this relationship I regret getting into?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so, about 4 weeks ago I got into a relationship with this guy. We met on a dating website months after my messy breakup with my last boyfriend, and I wanted to move on. This guy was sweet, but I don't think that he and I have ANY chemistry. Obviously we have met in person, ... (238 words)

I have no idea whether she is just being nice to me or if she is really oblivious to my feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm been in love with this girl for close to 5 months now. We are friends but recently I grew to really like her (not sure why too). We are classmates at a local university. I decided to spend time with her. We exchanged messages almost daily both of Facebook and pho... (351 words)

I feel that nobody likes me, that I'm ugly, that I'm just not a cool person to be around

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like such a loser. I'm 21, going to graduate from college soon, I don't have many friends there unfortunately because I have drifted from a majority of the ones I made there; I've tried countless times to make new ones by joining clubs, applying for jobs that would al... (251 words)

How do I get people to back off on trying to set me up? And what do I say to men who approach me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

4 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you handle this if you're a lesbian who a) has not EVER acted on it at all and never plans to and b) is REALLY grossed out at the idea of doing anything with a male when your parents/friends/church is constantly pressuring you to date? In high school, I got away with not ... (731 words)