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Archived questions from: 12 April, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm wondering if I need to just be blunt, ask him his salary and then maybe nip it in the bud if it is too little money. Should I be honest?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in my early thirties, I have to think about starting a family. I barely make any money and would maybe prefer being a full time mom. I went out on one date with a sweet guy that seems interested. He told me his job.... I think he makes very little money... I mean if we had ... (125 words)

I want a relationship and she's happy with the way things are now, I'm not sure what to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

12 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I was hoping to get some advice on what I should do in this situation I'm in. Quite honestly it's not one I've been in before so not sure what to do. I've been seeing this girl for a little while now. I'm a young professional and she is a student. We went out around 5 tim... (409 words)

Is it just human nature to be never thankful ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I was wondering why sometimes in our lives when are having a normal life ; stable relationship and everything going on nicely ; we still think of our few crushes we had in our lives which makes us question that maybe this is something I don't want to have in my life but l... (142 words)

I feel out of place.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have problems with the changes that happen in your life as you get older? When I was younger I was pretty happy in life. In middle and high school I had some close friends and eventually had a first long term boyfriend. Well now that I'm 19 and an adult, th... (196 words)

How real are those 'hook up tonight' websites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was tempted to lie about my age when I was posting this question because anyone as experienced as I am have must leaned these lessons by now but I have not. When my marriage dissolved I had been with him from the time I was 14 until i was 27. I'm afraid this has made me ... (194 words)

I can't contact my Long Distance Boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i haven't heard from my Long Distance boyfriend in almost 3weeks and he has cancer. and well my phone broke and i don't know how he's doing. I'm worried and well he's in the hospital right now and well he says that his nurses take away his phone. Do you think he's ... (58 words)

Should I text to see if he is interested, or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy at work earlier this year and whenever he came in to the office we would talk and flirt. Finally after two months he asked me out. I gave him my # and it took him over a week to text me. We arranged to go out that weekend. It was fun and he kissed me at the end of ... (297 words)

I feel so safe when around him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3901 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this sexual tension? There's this older guy at work,and when I'm around him I feel nice, like floaty but I don't think dirty thoughts, when he's there, I just feel peaceful and happy. When he's gone I feel sadness. I want him to show more affection towards me. I th... (114 words)

How do I deal with a guy that never has any money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3905 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started seeing this guy and he never has $ to take me anywhere. It's not that I need someone to pay stuff for me because I have a job and can buy my own stuff. But he doesn't even have money to pay for himself. Already two times we have gone out, I've had to pay. ... (121 words)

I stay with him out of pity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to split up with my boyfriend of four years. Our relationship hasn't been great for all this time because he expects me to do everything. I work long hours and he expects me to come home and clean, walk our dog and cook his meal. He doesn't work but will not take our dog ... (416 words)

There is tension at work but I can't quit!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3905 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hii i work for two guys in a restuarant and sometime back one of them asked me if i can sleep with him and i said no..so from that day he has been treating me so bad and showing me an attitude so the other one seems so mature so i talked to him about it and he told me to ... (114 words)

I don't like sleeping over.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles. My sister has recommended this site to me because she's been on before. I really hope you can help me :) I am a 28 year old woman and I'm having an issue with the fact I hate staying at my boyfriend's house. I have never liked sharing a room with friend... (276 words)

A difference in values and attitudes about money. Was I right to be honest about my feelings re his attitude to money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (of 4.5 years) and I were talking today about the fact I'm doing a postgrad at uni as well as working full time. He said he doesn't understand why, because it's not going to increase the amount of money I earn, and I told him I enjoy it plus it will hopefully a... (386 words)

If he feels he can't be with me, then why did he tell me he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. Feelings just happen, and have for me been like this for quite some time. I have a crush for a man but he is married. I kept my feelings to myself. I guess he also feels the same. We have always been professional. Recently while he was talking to me, he confessed tha... (162 words)

I'm completely confused as to where I actually stand now, and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend (ex boyfriend, i dont know what to call him) have been together for a year and two months, well we had. We were friends for four years before getting together. Through our relationship when it first began, it came out that he had messaged a mutual friend ... (766 words)

Do I confront him or ignore him when he makes these snide comments?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dearcupid, ive just stopped seeing a guy that i never should have seen in the first place. I was very lonely and his company made me feel good. The relationship started off great but it ended. I kno i am better off witout him. He had a lot of baggage and complications. The ... (299 words)

Loud sex noises at boyfriend's house and now I'm afraid to leave the bedroom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Cringe!!!!! Went out with my boyfriend last night for my birthday and had a few too many drinks. Were staying at his parents for awhile. Came home and had two lengthy sex sessions that involved a little bit of (amateur) BDSM (rope leather and LOUD spanking) No idea exactly how ... (81 words)

The guy doesn't seem to know what he wants and I'm not into playing games. Should I just forget it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , I need some honest advice . Dated a guy for three months ( he was waiting on his divorce to be finalised ) . He then sends by text the old line " It's not you , it's me ...I am not ready for any kind of relationship " . I felt annoyed it was by text , but felt philosop... (134 words)

I left this woman to go back to my ex but I've never stopped thinking of her. Should I contact her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

12 April 2014 (M)

age - Hello, well about two years ago i met someone, it lasted about three months, she treated me fantastic, but then my ex poped back into the picture, she treated me really bad , even hit me but I was in love with her, so i dumped the new one, went back to the one who treated me so ... (128 words)

I've caught LDR boyfriend lying. Should I just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for 6 months and the entire relationship has been long distance. I met him through friends last year while on vacation in his state and we talked for months online before I flew there to spend a week with him. For the most part he seems like a gre... (659 words)

Longing, Lust and Loneliness is Stopping Me from Creating a Happy Future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3900 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm not sure if I need any advice, maybe I do. I think I just need to talk. I'm feeling overwhelmingly sad, lonely and desperate. I'm in a difficult situation in my life at the moment it's turned my brain to mush. I'm a 24 y/o gay women and I've been in a... (1122 words)

6 months pregnant and my dog has started waking me up every few hours! Why is she doing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

12 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This isnt a relationship question but i would like some advice if anyone can give it to me. My problem is my dog....shes 3 years old so not a puppy and we have had her for almost 2 years..so she is very settled in the house. No routines have changed and she has always been a v... (179 words)