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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class mates' if asked were I go.... (146 words)

Am I deluding myself? Should I make a move on this aged 40s guy who I think flirts with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i want to know if this man has a thing for me or i am deluding myself? I know a man professionally and don't see him often but when i do he is always looking at my chest, flirting with and more importantly always going above and beyond when i ask for help. I saw him on t... (192 words)

I'm confused. He makes deep long eye contact with me but flirts with lots of girls. He has my number but doesn't call or text. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So here is a guy in my class who used to teasing my in a playf way but he doesn't anymore, he uses to sits close to me in the class and also he used to make a short eye contact when I'm in the halls and he's with his friends. I heared he has a crush on someone else, but right ... (191 words)

Wonderful second weekend date with my ex and now he seems distant! My heart hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex dumped me last year around thanksgiving and it crushed me. We just went on a second weekend date in a beautiful hotel and went to a concert. Then the next day we started our day in the hot tub drinking mimosa's. We continued to drink and walked all over the city that day ... (149 words)

I have reconnected with her, and though I do not exactly see her as a replacement for my girlfriend, I can't keep her off my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

24 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - i met this girl some time back before i met my current girlfriend. she liked me and made it obvious to me. i liked her too. however i did not want to rush into telling her how i feel about her too early. i met her through my younger brother so i consulted him about her. my ... (523 words)

Have you ever found hard physical evidence of an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had to go to a branch office to concur with people, because the branch office was closing down. It was a day trip. When he got home from work at his normal time he changed into a t-shirt, I noticed 3 long scratches on his left bicep. On his right arm and lower th... (325 words)

I don't want to play this no contact game with him anymore, I'm too old for it. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for 3 years, we r currently in LDR as he has some job assignments outside country. We used to talk atleast once a day even if its for 10 mts Long story short, for past few months he is not calling me when I do, most of the time he cuts h... (209 words)

I'm feeling jealous and angry towards my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21, i have been dating a girl for almost a year now. We love each other and we love to be around each other.she is very social, goes to the bar a lot with her friends amongst other activities. But lately I find myelf frustrated and lonely. I don't get ivited to go out ... (157 words)

My life is a mess! How do I tell my parents that I've failed my degree and won't be graduating after all?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I've been following this website for a few years and always been impressed by the advice given so thought I would give it a go. Please don't judge me in my problems, I need help. So nearly 4 years ago, I was in a relationship, my first proper relationship, wi... (374 words)

I'm done, I want him out, how do I end this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I want to end my relationship with my partner. We have a baby of 10 months and he is drinking again. Binge drinkng, this is day 7 and he has wee'd the bed twice this week. I have weighed up the pro's and con's and the only pro I have is that I think he is gorg... (154 words)

I imagined having a boyfriend would be a nice experience, but I find myself alone, fighting to be by the side of a person who is thinking about someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Today is my boyfriend's birthday, we've been together for one month and a half (we were friends before becoming a couple). I baked a cake, bought candles, made a card, bought tons of presents, I just want to make him happy. First thing he said about his birthday: "you kn... (443 words)

My husband is having an affair. Am I stupid for staying with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I discovered when I was 8 months pregnant that my husband of 10 years was cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover in a text message and was assured by both that it would not continue. I had several times where I caught him texting her but her assured me that they had not ... (184 words)

I feel like I can't compete with the girl that my B/f kissed and it's torn my self esteem apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend kissed another girl on a night out a few months ago. We were having problems at the time. I was suspicious and checked his phone and then I text the girl and asked her (very nicely) what happened and if she wouldn't mind not getting in touch with him again as we ... (311 words)

Why would his comment about weight bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been getting closer to a man online for several months and we are about to meet in person . He knows I am overweight and somewhat worried about him being attracted to me but he had assured me that he feel attracted to me and he too struggles with his weight so he ... (167 words)

Is he just going to come up with a lame excuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - He hasn't contacted me for a week, and now he has tried to call me again!. What is his game?. I recently posted on here about a guy I met. I said that we had been meeting up with each other for a week, but I told him that I didn't want to date him, as I still wasn't over m... (162 words)

We are both virgins in a LDR together. How should I initiate touching her chest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship with an amazing woman for over 2 years. We are both virgins, and I just wondered how I should go about touching her chest? Should I ask her first or just go ahead and try? I really have no idea what I should do. I should probably... (127 words)

I'm gay, but my family are worried about possible abuse I might get. Any advice? Should I try to ease their concerns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (?) age 26-29 - I quickly want to point out that this is not a complaint about my family, I completely understand what they're saying and why, but just wanted to hear some other views on the matter. I am gay, it's no secret, I've always known and my friends are all cool with that so no ... (286 words)

He was almost perfect for me. If I should forget him, then how?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 1 year and I still think about him every day! I met a guy that was almost perfect for me. You know what I mean by "perfect". Like you are the star of a drama/romantic comedy series and he's the guy that all of the show's viewers keep eagerly waiting for you to final... (863 words)

No clear discussion of commitment, so is it OK to talk to others?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So I recently met a guy from out of state, and it has been going well but we have only seen each other a few times. The first time we met, we had dinner and a great time, just cuddled and no sex. A month later we meet again and spend a few days together where we have a great ... (147 words)

Does my colleague have bad intentions? He's definitely a bad boy and my engagement nearly ended because of him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm engaged. I became friends with a fellow colleague. He's definitely a bad boy and I've been trying my hardest to stop all connection with him. At first it was harmless I thought and we would just spend short breaks together because we have a lot in common. I became friends ... (350 words)