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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know she's straight and I should just give up, but I can't. Should I just give up being her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a bisexual 15 year old and I'm unsure on what to do right now. I've liked this girl (who's 16) for over 3 years now. Last year in October I told her that I liked her. This girl happens to be straight and I told her that I was bisexual after around 2 years knowing her. ... (384 words)

Should I tell him or wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend and I have know each other for two months now and have been together for one. We are perfect together. I know his the one. I wanted to tell him that I love him. I'm a little scared not because he doesn't feel that same I know he does, it's just I don't ... (88 words)

He knows I have a terrible relationship with my husband so why has he suddenly gone cold on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a horrible relationship for too long but don't want to leave because of my son. When he had finished his gcses in July then I WILL be leaving. My boyfriend is controlling, abusive and has mistreated me for many years. 6 months ago I became friends with a m... (339 words)

I love her and want to be with her, but she's stressing me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

22 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Basically I'm in a situation and need some advice from someone outside it. My best friends think I should end it but I'm not sure. I met my girlfriend 12 months ago at work and instantly fell for her, we were soon dating and then she got let go at work due to cuts. We've ... (324 words)

What do his signals mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Im really confused with the signals this guy has been giving me and I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on the subject. So last September I started college,and met a guy lets just call him X.X and I started to hang out a lot in college and he was ... (290 words)

Four children, a husband who lost my trust, why am I never in the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

22 April 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, I have been with my husband for 8 years. I have four kids and my youngest is ours together. She is six now. In the last year my husband has done some shady things to me to lose my trust. Not physicslly cheating but other things. Im working on trusting him. Ove... (117 words)

How do I get happy with becoming a hermit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

22 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 year old male, and I never dated. My biological mother died at age 3, so I never had the proper nurturing to be ok. Socializing is hard for me since I am autistic, and because of my social awkwardness (avoiding eye contact, etc) no girl even wants to hang out with me ... (629 words)

Keep thinking about my boyfriends ex irrationally. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Having some trouble with my boyfriends ex. I am 22, he is my first serious boyfriend, and consequently the first guy I felt comfortable enough sleeping with. we've been together about half a year, but for some weird reason I cannot stop thinking about his ex. ... (344 words)

My landlord's staring makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need a mans point of view on this, my landlord always flirts with me, and i noticed him staring at my chest more than my face when he speaks to make, i now put on jumpers to make sure i don't encourage him, but he still does it, just there i was walking home and he was ... (116 words)

My granny is still in business with my ex, who dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it alright? My boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago, it wasn't mutual, he wanted out and I was devastated. We met when we were 19 (now 24) and lived together for 4 years in a place owned by my grandparents. He broke up with me in a very cruel way, he just left, monda... (708 words)

I'm a shy, quiet person and wonder what volunteer or other opportunities I should explore?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am on Jobseeker's Allowance, which are benefits that we have here in the UK. I get these benefits from the jobcentre. I have been told my advisor at the jobcentre that I have to do some voluntary work soon. She said that I can choose where to work. I'm not sure what to do. I ... (269 words)

Are these feeling of attraction normal chemistry and I should forget them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Agony Aunts/Uncles, Wonder if anyone can give me some good advice? I've been with my boyfriend for 2.5/3 years, with a rocky middle part inc. a 3 month break up. (Due to lack of maturity on his part and he's worked hard to piece us back together. Now It's fab and all v... (578 words)

Met a girl I like but am a virgin and want to tell her but don't want to seem pathetic or clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - For various reasons (a mix of bad luck, bad timing and my own commitment issues) I've never have had a girlfriend. Sure I've been on dates but it's never gone anywhere because either I'm not interested or I struggle to pursue something I am interested in. Anyway, despite ... (451 words)

The sex isn't doing it for me and I'm waiting for him to open up about his feelings. Where to go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone... I've been dating a guy for 3 months now, I'm 25 and he's 29. He's really sweet, kind, caring and good fun to be around, however the sex is just not doing it for me. During my two previous relationships, we've both initiated sex with one another but they al... (295 words)

How can I be not so obsessive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi this seems like a really weird question but I need to know what to do. I'm a 15 year old girl and I really like a boyband (not going to say who but it is NOT one direction). The thing is its sorta taking over my life. I listen to their music all the time, I have got a lot ... (143 words)

My wife's turning into a slob

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

22 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My wife's tidying habits leave a lot to be desired. We've been married 10 yrs and previously I let it go to young kids and caring for her mum. But now her mum is no longer here and the kids are at school full time. Examples are finishing a pack of biscuits and lea... (235 words)

Living with sister is hurting our relationship! Please advise!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I talk to my sister? My sister and I are more than 10 years apart in age. She's in her 40's and I'm close to my 30's. Both of us are single and never been married. We've been roommates for years, and it's only since this past year that I find myself growing i... (1428 words)

My cheating ex husband is moving on and I am stuck in poverty with the kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there guys, i really need help. I filed separation from my ex on account of cheating and abusive behaviour about 18 months ago. 2 children remain with me. When they went for a visit to their dad I have come to understand that he's sharing the flat with a woman who I believe ... (146 words)

A few guys on dating site have been insulting to me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (?) age 51-59 - I am currently on a dating site and I have talked to some of the guys on there and they are very nice and respectful. I like the compliments I get on my looks they tell me I am beautiful. I try to be honest about what I am looking for and they understand. But lately ... (303 words)

Would it bother you to learn that your bf/gf had smoked weed in the past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hi Everyone! Quick question here: When I was dating my ex-bf I told him that I had smoked weed with some friends a few times before we started dating (I was 21 at the time and had smoked a total of 7 times in my life) and he FREAKED out, and said, "I can't believe you w... (190 words)

Does "friend's with benefits" want more from me or am I fooling myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Some background: I have been seeing a 39 year old man for over a year, we both come from very different social backgrounds, he has never lived overseas. I come from Sweden originally, have lived in various countries and am still dealing with culture shock. Our interactions are ... (399 words)

Sex isn't what I thought it would be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

22 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've recently lost my virginity to my lovely boyfriend, and we have sex when we can but we both have house mates which makes the situation slightly awkward! He made my first time great, and although it was still uncomfortable, he was very sweet and loving. I've had sex 4 ti... (230 words)