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My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man on the side. My husband and ... (945 words

Is it OK for married people to have opposite sex friends?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Simple question ; after you get married and settled down, is it okay to have friends of the opposite sex? Text them? Hang out with them? Strictly platonic that is.... (30 words

Why do guys tease women they find attractive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - What does this mean? This guy playfully teases me but he only does it in the presence of others, mainly men. Alone he's nice. I find some of it funny. He says stuff like it's raining outside it's your fault don't know why, he's obviously joking because he says it with a ... (152 words

I give them 110% but they still leave

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 51-59 - hi aunts and uncles, been a long time since i have been on here. i was left for a yonger woman, and thought it to be not right. i waited two years to get out and meet other guys, i finally met a guy who ended up being 18 years younger than me. we hit it off well. he had been ... (527 words

Over 30 and single - what did I do wrong?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - Every girl dreams of the happy family and nice man that they will one day marry. We are taught from an early age that the Princess always ends up with the Handsome Prince. The scatty girl in the Rom-Com always finds her true love. Your best friends all have husbands who would ... (431 words

His worry over bills is getting in the way of intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - OK, so here goes. I am a 32 yr old professional, husband's 29, we've been married for 2 years now. We're middle class, life is good (in terms of friendship, employment, money etc.), we earn enough to live on However, in the last few weeks the sexual side of our marriage... (291 words

My ex broke up with me, lashed out at me and left me bawling my eyes out, so why is it he's still trying to hurt/and or get a response from me?

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27 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - Ok, long story as short as possible. My ex and I were together for 4 years. Towards the end things got absolutely horrible. We couldn't be around one another without fighting. He became a totally changed person. His entire attitude about me and our relationship changed. Over ... (652 words

This guy cancelled 3 hours before a date because he met someone else when he had been the one to suggest the date!

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27 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy online a month ago and we went out on a first date and had an amazing time. Since then he had been texting me and sending pictures and flirting, then he asked to set up a second date. I agreed and we set it up, 3 hours before the date he sent me a text saying: "I ... (318 words

My boyfriend always wakes me up with the words 'I gotta to kick you out'!!

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27 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I have a question about how a boy friend normally wakes a girl up in the morning. This guy I have been seeing for several months now always wakes me up with the words 'I gotta to kick you out. It's not very romantic and an awful way to have to be woken up. I have told him it ... (215 words

I'm scared of my ex and feel extreme fear, panic, anxiety and pain yet I cant seem to get over her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

27 April 2014 (M age 41-50 - Don't know if this in the right place for this? Anyone who has been through something similar your advice would be gratefully appreciated. Sorry if I'm a bit candid. My ex is a psychiatrist. She was controlling, abusive, cheated on me. She psychologically messed me up so ... (478 words

Scared to tell my parents about my girlfriend!

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27 April 2014 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am an Indian male (23 y/o) who is in a long distance relationship with an Indian girl (from another state). We have known each other for nearly 6-7 years and our parents have met before. For the last few months I have been trying to tell me parents about us... (153 words

Can my boyfriend change his controlling, possessive ways?

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27 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - Is it possible for a person to change there controlling ways? Been together with my boyfriend for 4 years and he is everything I could wish for but the last 6 months he's become very controlling. I have started a new job which is very physical and I've lost a lot of ... (223 words

I went away for the night and he didn't say good night or good morning?

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27 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had a pretty big argument last week and basically he thinks we spend too much time together and he needs a bit of space. Even though we were getting along well yesterday and he said that I needn't bother - I booked into a hotel last night, I didn't text him... (131 words

When we try to have sex, he goes soft. Could he be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi, so I have a question about the sexuality of the guy that I am seeing. The guy that i am currently seeing is 20 and I am 19. Him and I have not been seeing each other very long, just about a month, but for the past two weekends we have been trying to have sex (the reason ... (388 words

Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering if you could help me. Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits? I have known him for almost two years though we got closer as friends at the beginning of last year. I fell in love with him but never showed it to him. After 3 months... (1397 words

His focus is not on me anymore. Is this the beginning of the end of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - I need to start by saying i feel like a stupid teenager for feeling the way i do bout the changes in my relationship. Like i'm being a whiney, clingy, insecure, jealous teeny-bopper. But, this is how I feel, so here goes. We've been together 10 months, living together about 7 ... (329 words

How do I handle this? My long term Bf cannot look me in the eye. He is also sleeping a lot. What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

27 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - I need some people to talk to please.. Ok now today my boyfriend wouldn't look at me all day. We been together half our life's i know something is wrong. But finding out what it is will be hard. He just keeps saying everything is fine nothing is wrong. Also he been unabl... (107 words

Sex/Intercourse with a partner versus Head/Fellatio with a partner? Why can't I orgasm from the latter and prefer Intercourse instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

27 April 2014 (M age 30-35 - So is something wrong with me that I can't seem to come from getting head? I've only ever gotten it from my girlfriend (she's my first) and I never come from it, I got close once but generally it doesn't feel as good as sex. Is this normal? I mean it kind of feels good b... (68 words

Am I a pan-romantic lesbian?

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27 April 2014 (? age 22-25 - Ok so. I really do like guys a lot. And I kinda thought I was pansexual but honestly no matter how much I do like guys I never ever ever want to have srx with a guy and have never been sexually attracted to a guy. I think I might be a pan romantic lesbian . Could someone help ... (64 words

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