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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is what I'm doing such a bad thing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long term relationship but I still speak to an ex without my partners knowledge. Is this really that wrong? I know having my cake and eating it will probably spring to mind but it's really not like that. My boyfriend is a great guy and we have a sound relation... (299 words)

I've been seeing him for 2 weeks, what are his intentions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy for only 2 weeks and I'm unsure as to what his intentions are. Basically ever since the very 1st day he has bee super into me, always texting, always ringing, multiple times a day, and always 1st thing in the morning and last thing before bed. He's always ... (743 words)

What sexuality am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this isn't a major problem but I just wondered. I have always wondered about my sexuality, and when I was 15 I was pretty sure I was bisexual, but since then its kinda changed as I presumed that was just a stage. ... (459 words)

I am barely treading water in this relationship, holding on by a thread!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I just found out the other day that my girlfriend of over a year and a half has lost all her passion for the relationship and has been miserable lately and doesn't know how or if we can fix it. My constant worrying of where she's at or what she's doing all the time took a toll ... (284 words)

How do I keep the communication alive and not become just a FWB?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So I've been seeing this guy for a little under 2 months that i met on a dating site. It was really awesome at first, he would text me everyday and it would never cease. Our first and second dates were really awesome too. We had a great time and we first kissed on our s... (234 words)

My life has been shattered. Where do I go from here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Where I begin I have no idea? Some of you my find this unbelievable, but I assure you what I am about to tell you is true. Before 2008 my life was really good. I had a great job. Had at the time what I thought was an amazing woman. I had just taken her to New York and p... (393 words)

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, Apologies for the length of this question, but I'm trying to figure out what to do about a tricky situation. 3 years ago I fell in love with an old friend, and we started a long-distance relationship. I was 18 at the time, but was sure that we'd be together forever... (1050 words)

They've asked me to join them for a threesome, any one have experience in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I have two friends who are friends with benefits, they've been sleeping together for years and recently approached me and asked if I would join them for a threesome. I really want to try it but the only thing that bothers me is that fact they've already been together ... (73 words)

His brother died recently but hes angry at me all of a sudden

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys and gals! Hopefully theres someone out there who can help give me an insight into a problem I have. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and it started off brilliantly. He initiated contact with me and we communicated for a few days, he was very sweet and lovely... (696 words)

On and off for a few years, will it ever get serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years now. He's a great guy, he obviously has commitment issues. Do you guys ever hear or see an on and off relationship become solid? Or am I seriously wasting my time? Maybe it's the naïve girl in me that thinks we really have ... (76 words)

I think he is cheating and that makes me not want to see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I need some honest opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are now in a long distant relationship due to work. Normally we would see each other every other weekend but it so happened that we haven't seen each other for almost two weeks this time. However, he came to visit me ... (142 words)

He doesn't know I have access to his emails ....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I have had a volatile 2 year relationship with my bf for around 3 years. In the last few months I have felt stronger and been going out again with friends, standing up to him and generally getting over it. He has responded by being more attentive and in the last ... (455 words)

What next? I don't want her to lose interest!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

21 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I signed up for eHarmony recently. It's been a long time since I've really dated anyone, and I've had absolutely zero luck finding anyone in the real world. Most of my "matches" are either girls way too far away or a bit too old for me (into their 40s and such). I've had ... (200 words)

I messed up big time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i need advice. My ex bf passed away this year. our relationship was not healthy he was violent and i was co-dependant. I attended his funeral and have visited his family just to see how they are etc. I still have feelings for my ex there was a lot of unresolved... (263 words)

I'm not sure we can get over these differences!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always dated guys my age or slightly older however I've been seeing this guy (for 7 months) who is 4 years younger than me. I'm 27, he's 23. We get on really well but he does a few things which I'm not sure about. For example we went out to eat at a restaurant and ... (438 words)

Family or boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i choose my family or boyfriend. Ill keep it very short my boyfriend is beyond amazing he loves me like hell i adore him and he supports me no matter what and will never ever leave me or my family that considers me as a girl less than my brothers and i have no rights ... (178 words)

This intense attraction is causing distraction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3867 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy I know just asked me to join his band. I was extremely excited by the offer and went for it. Because we have common friends, band kids (he) and choir kids (I) attend many of the same events, and I'v been going to school with him for almost four years now, I g... (266 words)

My girlfriend is a selfish bitch but I love her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - my gf is a selfish bitch but I still really love her. Ive argued with her a few times over whatwe have said to each other and lately she saidsomething to me and I always have to put up with it but as soon as I say the same thing backshe hates me? I just feel like im the only... (107 words)

I may have already sealed my fate .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3867 days ago

21 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really looking for some guidance and advice, and I hope there is someone here who can give me some, even just a little. I may have already sealed my fate in this scenario but I am not one to give up, especially when its something that I am passionate about. Here the ... (803 words)

He wont ever let me have an opinion.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to death he means every thing to me. Today we got in to a hugh argument. It was over some thing so small. I gave my opinion and he got so mad said I was stupid and called me other names so I stood up and told him i was done and I was leaving then he said I ... (197 words)