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I am not sure if its worth investing the time or not ....

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25 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I ended a two year relationship within the last six months. I feel like I've finally accepted what our relationship was and why it didn't work and feel like I'm able to move on. About two months ago, I met someone and we had the time of our lives. I couldn'... (377 words

He says he is unhappy and doesn't want to be with me either.

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25 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and let me just say this has been the hardest relationship I have ever been in! We've had some rough patches in our relationship we both suck at relationships! There's some months when we fight non stop and some months when we ... (219 words

Is he not interested or does he want me to take the lead?

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25 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy online and after a couple weeks of messaging each other we exchanged phone numbers. He text me that same day and has every day since. This was almost a month ago. Sometimes the texting lasts all day and other times its not as long. I saw this as a sign that he's ... (120 words

Friend is now with a guy, but will he develop feelings for me again if I pursue our friendship?

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25 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - Short question not really important but I'd like some opinions on it. I have had this friend of mine for about 4 or so years now. We met in middleschool and he always had a heart of gold, and when I got to Highschool he told me he had a crush on m... (535 words

I don't want to go through a break up, but ...

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25 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm getting kind of bored with my bf of more than four years. We really don't have anything in common and it's so hard for me to find something to say to him or have a conversation with him. So I keep to myself and it's making me resent him a little. He doesn't take interest in ... (372 words

How can I tell my ex that he gave me an STI without freaking him out or sounding like I'm blaming him?

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25 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I found out today that I have an STI. It's common and treatable and hopefully not a huge deal, but I'm still pretty mortified. I had negative test results before I got together with my ex, and I also had a negative test about 6 weeks after we started having sex (just to be ... (279 words

Love or sex? What do you do when they aren't a package deal?

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25 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - I need suggestions/opinions please! I am 24, my husband is 32. We have been married about a year and a half, together for 5. He has always had a large collection of porn and used it frequently and I was fine with that. My dilemma is this: for many months now, our sex life has ... (322 words

We lost the passion and I need to rekindle the spark…

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25 April 2014 (M age 30-35 - My Fiancé and I are currently getting back in the groove of becoming a normal couple again after we had a huge fallout, One of the things that happened is that she lost all of the excitement and passion.. And even though we are slowly bonding again and getting along, ... (184 words

Dating just 3 weeks, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. Am I right to ask?

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25 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy whomImet online for about 3 weeks now and I'm finding that as we're getting to know each other, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. I'm a fairly private, reserved woman and I'm pretty conservative. I ... (284 words

If I break up, I'll hurt! If I stay, I'll lack trust! What do I choose?

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25 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. Four months into our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with F. I confronted him, we fought, he begged for forgiveness and I stayed with him. A year later I found out that he cheated me on with four other women. We ... (534 words

What's a girl to do? My parents will never accept him!

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25 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - Next week I am finished with University for the Summer, and due to my poor health I have to move in with my parents for the summer, and I met this really amazing man. We have been talking for a few months and started getting kind of serious about a week and a half ago. He ... (268 words

I want to make this relationship work!

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25 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys I've been in a relationship for 4 years now with my boyfriend. He is not really great as a bf but then i love him to bits and we have a bond that will keep us together forever. he's mean to me at times and cares more about his own feelings than mine. We had a maj... (544 words

New guy I'm seeing admits to having herpes, should I continue seeing him?!

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25 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - Let me start off with giving you some background information; I just got out of a three year relationship (like early this month!) with my first boyfriend. he confessed to cheating on me 1 time 6 months ago, we broke up. I recently got tested and I'm clean. the break up was ... (586 words

Is it awful for me to wish my mother was nicer to me? And bad to wish my father would leave her?

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25 April 2014 (F age 22-25 - I live with my mum and dad and two brothers. My mother has never been the loving type toward me. One of my brothers is older than me and my other brother is younger than me and when we were younger they both used to team up against me when we'd get in trouble. My mum started ... (409 words

Too Good to be true? Yet he can be VERY controlling. To the point that he scares me sometimes. What to do?

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25 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I would like some level-headed unbiased advice on this please. My boyfriend is so good in so many ways but a few traits let him down and I don't know whether these should be deal breakers. We've been together 2 years. I have two children from another relationship and he ... (556 words

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

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25 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at all. Like I was basicall... (523 words

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