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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Woman I'm sleeping with is becoming weird and clingy, how do I handle it?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, So I have a little dilemma. I've been sleeping with this woman I met. She's cool and everything and when we hang out we have a nice time, but she's becoming extraordinarily clingy. She texts things like "Do you miss me? What do you miss about me?" etc and the other ni... (213 words)

Since I said no living together without marriage he's backed off

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months, he is 39 and I am 27. We don't live together and he stays about an hour away from me, for the last 15 months I have been going to visit him every weekend, I go on saturday morning and ... (503 words)

I haven't told my boyfriend I'm pregnant yet, and now I'm back to checking his phone for texts! I need your help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it ever possible to truly move on from finding out your other half has cheated on you? The reason I ask is because for the past ten months, since getting back with my boyfriend since finding out he had cheated on with a mutual friend, I have thought I had got over it. Howe... (388 words)

Dating a new guy: are these red flags or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for a long term relationship and have a question about the early warning signs in dating. I have recently met a guy, we have had three dates and he's handsome, intelligent and sweet. The dates are great, we talk a lot and he tells me how attractive I am ... (252 words)

Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did that and we made out a few ti... (177 words)

There's a guy I like and I think he likes me too. How should I approach him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a gay guy. There's this new guy at a restaurant I go to. He started looking at me from the first day he started to work. I noticed he looks at me very often and gives me a shy smile. I also showed interest. He shows interest whenever I look at him. I am not sure what he ... (164 words)

Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (first loves) we lived together i... (864 words)

Am I too pessimistic about relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I went out yesterday with some friends and I was looking around me. I kept seeing all sorts of couples hugging, holding hands, kissing, looking happy, etc. There were really a lot of them and I felt a bit sad and awkward. All this was kinda weird for someone who has been single ... (1467 words)

Do I wait for this girl to get out of this teenage phase if she does love me? Or do I force myself to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Never used one of these sites before but I am currently feeling rather lonely and upset about my current situation. I think I better try to explain the situation: Well, I have known this girl for a while, probably 2 years. Im 23 and she's 22. We used to ta... (759 words)

What is the deal with my husband and this strange woman?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age - I am a newlywed. 6 months married. I am starting to see some really off things about my husband and I want to get some advice or opinions from others. I love my husband, he has some wonderful qualities but I think I may have made a mistake in marrying him. A little backgroun... (711 words)

I just cant seem to make decent friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been attempting to look for decent friends these days to absolutely no avail. The people I choose are, for lack of a better term, flakes. Its always the same formula with me. I will become friendly with someone, we will share similar interests and when talk arises about ... (190 words)

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they will soon end that marriage... (97 words)

How do I get my old friend back? She has turned to God and her personality has changed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. So I have this friend. She was great in high school. Fun, friendly, happy to go out all the time and try new things. Well, she ended up with a few boyfriends (none which lasted very long and hurt her terribly) which made her go back to her church and devote hersel... (394 words)

Can you have an orgasm without the contractions? Or is it possible to experience a different sort of orgasm when you make yourself do it or your partner does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had two sexual partners. Being with the first guy was rather underwhelming, but I had a lot more chemistry with the second. He was pretty experienced, too. Everything he did felt amazing. What I genuinely don't understand is, every part of my body would react as if I wa... (140 words)

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We met online in 2009 and marr... (1006 words)

What is a sensible waiting period after a date and when should I accept that the guy is simply uninterested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a question to ask, as i am feeling slightly confused @ present. I finally got to meet my online date for the first time, this weekend just passed and we hit it off so well and spent more than 8 hrs together, doing all sorts of things around town. My onl... (441 words)

Nothing in common but he makes me laugh. How long should I let this continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Call me shallow but I've just started dating a guy who is stunningly good looking and I'm only into him because of his looks. Him and I have absolutely nothing in common....all I know is he makes me laugh like I've never laughed before and whenever we go out in public, he only ... (134 words)

Is this relationship OCD or am I out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am lost here. Every time I have a disagreement or see something I don't like in my boyfriend, I immediately go to the 'we're not right for each other' place and it's driving me a little crazy. I've been with him for years. I've broken up with him several times because of this ... (220 words)

Do women care about premature ejaculation from a bj?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

28 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I tend to have a problem with coming too quickly and so I expend a lot of effort trying to make sure I don't. Obviously this is an issue with vaginal sex, but what about with oral sex? I try not to orgasm too quickly when receiving oral, but does it matter? Are wo... (98 words)

Is this man a sleaze bucket or am I a prude?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently went on a first date with a guy in the public services blue uniform high up who I met online. He tried to kiss me intimately outside a pub in the car park which I found embarrassing and then text me later that he was going to be doing some DIY before bed (not the ... (155 words)

He is never there for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids, I have been in a relationship for three and a half years with a guy I met in high school. I am currently in my second year of college while he opted not to go to college. I have school and a part time job while he has been around unemployed. Lately with all of h... (216 words)

Has my relationship run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3891 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so I need some advice. Has my relationship ran its courae.? I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At the beginning we got along so great he gave me everything I wanted in a relationship he made me feel amazing! But now it's a ... (232 words)

The memories remain and it still hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ow do you forget someone you used to be in love with? We were on and off for nearly 3 years.We split up due to mutual agreement as we felt it wasn't working. I got my own place a few months later and he got in touch again and visited 3 times. We ended up being physical and I ... (203 words)