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Can you have an orgasm without the contractions? Or is it possible to experience a different sort of orgasm when you make yourself do it or your partner does?

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Question - (28 April 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've had two sexual partners. Being with the first guy was rather underwhelming, but I had a lot more chemistry with the second. He was pretty experienced, too.

Everything he did felt amazing. What I genuinely don't understand is, every part of my body would react as if I was having an orgasm (raised heart rate, faster breathing, legs shaking) except for where I feel it when I masturbate. Of course the guy thought I was coming every time we had sex, and I never said anything different because I wasn't faking any of those reactions.

So can you have an orgasm without the contractions? Or is it possible to experience a different sort of orgasm when you make yourself do it or your partner does? I'm so confused, please help! Thanks :)

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A male reader, wise-guy United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2014):

Hmmmmmmmmmm no idea lovely!

But if it feels right and you both enjoy it then maybe it's best not to over think the finer details of how your body reacts :)

Just go with the flow if you like it with this chap ... and be safe and sensible of course! :)

All the best.

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