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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're really just friendly coworkers.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just curious about what others think. My question is, are relationships with coworkers always a bad idea? Basically I work with this guy at my campus job. We're both sophomores at the college, and we get along pretty well. In fact for me being the shy and nervous per... (370 words)

I did the most well known cliché of falling for my friends with benefits.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I did it. I did the most well known cliché of falling for my friends with benefits. I don't know what to do. All my friends are saying walk away, forget about it, told you so and the usual remarks. Of course I know they are all right but once your lost in the bubble of li... (522 words)

Another lecherous lecturer story.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i've some how developed a lot of strong feelings for my male lecturer. He's definitely hitting the late 30s even 40s and I'm 21. There's something about him I love, we've talked a lot on a personal level too, we just ... click. I guess that sounds a tad weird but I ... (280 words)

Perfect girl, why cant I love her like she deserves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

5 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, For the whole of last year I was fighting cancer... It was horrid and took all my resources to beat it, but I got there! When the news of remission came in I was overjoyed, but also had a cold hard slap of reality and realised that my fiancée at the time did not hav... (535 words)

I stupidly had sex with two different boys on the same day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so today I did something really stupid and I don't know why I did it but here goes: so in order to revise for my exams I invited a few friends around, it ended up just being two of my close guy friends (let's call them a +b) and a couple other people who do the same subjects ... (181 words)

Do people want their sexual fantasies to come true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating a wonderful guy. We got along fantastically and we were amazing together in bed. By far, the best sex I have had in my life. We connected on very intimate levels, and I was like a magnet to him. He is the nicest guy I have ever dated, very compassionate and ... (1034 words)

Threesome with a friend, should I do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend asked me to join her and a guy she is casually dating for a threesome. I am thinking about it because there are no feeling involved and maybe it could be a good idea to see what this is all about. Do you think I should do it? Would you girls do it when single and ... (86 words)

How best to support my grieving wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My wife's mum passed away 3 months ago and i'm not sure how to be of support to her. She was her carer and her day and night was her mum. She was getting better and then suddenly passed. 3 months on I feel she is still massively grieving and not sure how to dea... (283 words)

I've fallen hard for him and don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so there's this guy I really like who I spend a lot of time with cos we're in a lot of the same clubs together. We invite eachother to parties, walks, concerts and movies together, both as a group and one-on-one. I really like him and have done for a few months, ever since ... (216 words)

I'm uncomfortable with how he talks about a colleague

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of 2 years often flirts with his colleagues and say lewd comments about them to me which makes me feel in-secured and uncomfortable since most of them are very young girls around early 20s. When i tell him to stop he says even im talking to my office colleagues but h... (135 words)

It was as if I was with a zombie.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Teenage problem. I recently went on a first trip with my friend's daughter who is almost 14. My daughter is grown up and live in a different city. I went to visit her and took my friend' s daughter who I know from her birth. We have, or had very warm relationships. Until th... (534 words)

I want to use this meeting to get closure

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My question is next weekend I will meeting my ex to return his dvds. It’s been 3 months since our breakup and this will be the first time we’ll meet. I am dreading this meet up but another reason to meet up is to get closure. We were together for 4 months. How... (188 words)

I want him back even though he's behaving like a complete prat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Since my boyfriend left me 4 months ago I don't know who I am. I grew up with my mum my dad died when i was 4 (now 24) so we have always been quite close. My boyfriend of 4 years who I met at uni left me and has made me question myself completely. He blamed me for the... (591 words)

Is this a mind game, does she just want to be friends, what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid Well, I was dating a girl for about 4 months and I told her that I find her attractive in person and I really like her. We were talking a lot and having lots of fun together ! It was great until I told her.. Then suddenly, after two days of me telling her that ... (278 words)

You shouldn't hide anything in a relationship, right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, Me and my boyfriend been dating for like 2 weeks I know it's still short but he thinks it's disrespectful to look through his phone... I don't have a problem with him going through my phone but he claims he doesn't go through my messages he thinks that's disrespe... (79 words)

Have I ruined my reputation by going on a dating site? Did I need to defend myself?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (?) age 51-59 - Hello everyone I hope you won't be too hard on me. I may have ruined my reputation a little. My sister told me to join a free dating site to sort of distract myself from my boyfriend's absence. So I did and I tried it out even though I was hesitant about it. I put up some pho... (494 words)

Job interview included working for a full day, for no pay!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - This isnt a relationship question but im hoping someone can help. My niece who is 19 and currently an office temp wants to get in to hairdressing. She saw that a well known salon in our town was looking to hire trainees so she applied - sent her cv and got an interview. Th... (642 words)

I have a problem with my long distance relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

5 April 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I'll include the story of how this relationship came to be, just in case it helps. Last year in October a friend of mine added the most wonderful girl I've ever known into a Skype conference call. We immediately noticed things we had in common and we began to talk more and more... (627 words)

Friend/housemate problem, I don't know where to go from here.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, So my problem involves a fellow housemate and me. A few weeks ago one of my housemates gave out to me for his misinterpretation of an article that I was telling him about. My other housemate joined in as well and it felt like they were ganging ... (389 words)

We've talked for a while, should I ask her to hang out sometime?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

5 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupids, I am here to ask for reassurance again because this site is an awesome resource for relationship advices. Very long read I have written here, I wish I can write better. I am 21 yrs. old, never had a girlfriend up to a kiss. I am a complete newbie. I should s... (831 words)