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writes:Call me shallow but I've just started dating a guy who is stunningly good looking and I'm only into him because of his looks. Him and I have absolutely nothing in common....all I know is he makes me laugh like I've never laughed before and whenever we go out in public, he only has eyes for me. He's playful, hilarious, witty and charming. I love the way every single girl looks at him and I'm the one in his arms! It's an amazing feeling.I also know he's divorced, has 2 kids, has cheated on his ex wife and he's definitely not the kind of guy I usually go for. How long should I let this dating go on for? I'm having way too much fun with him to stop seeing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2014): Thanks anonymous reader but I don't want a relationship with him and I don't think he does either. As I said, we have nothing in common, hence the reason we both haven't considered starting a relationship!
We're both just having too much fun to call it quits.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 April 2014):
 ..Until he stops being the one who makes you laugh and becomes the one who makes you cry ? :)
I've got the feeling it could happen, if you are the Australian poster who posted on April 25 th about a guy with whom she has nothing in common. She is a quiet, moral, reserved type- he is your typical bad boy who drinks and takes ( ok, recreationally ) drugs. But that's not the probem, the problem is that this guy on line misrepresented himself as single and childless, - he lied.
He sounds quite a handful, so, beware. If you are the type that can just have some fun and enjoy the laughs in the here and now, with not many expectations, go ahead. If there's any possibility that you may become attached, even if not to him as a person ,just to the pleasure and the ego boost of dating arm trophy, ...you'll probably be in for a rude awakening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2014): You answered your own question. "How long should I let this dating go on for? I'm having way too much fun with him to stop seeing him."
When you stop staying in it for mostly shallow reasons, your situation is solved. Maybe you'll leave, or maybe you'll stop treating this relationship like it's just an ego boost for you and actually have a serious relationship with him.
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