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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Neither one of us is prepared to make the first move

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, There is a colleague at work to whom I have been attracted to but I have never showed any interest in him because he,s 7 years younger than me. We went together to a business trip and we had a really good time without any explicit flirting stuff. Three weeks ag... (212 words)

Can I be happy with a man who isn't funny?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m 31 years old and I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year. We both feel that communication and respect are most important in a relationship and have many shared interests. My boyfriend is an amazing listener. He’s kind and caring, treats family and friends well, and has ... (310 words)

Can we stay friends? We dated and were intimate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online 3 months ago, We have been dating off and on during that time period. We have been intimate and that has been a major problem during our "relationship" I have called it off several times because he didn't want to be exclusively dating. We have finall... (585 words)

How can I move on and forgive myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, how can you move on and forgive yourself for hurting the love of your life? How do you get over it? I unexpectedly met an amazing guy a little over a year ago, and we got together. Not to sound like a typical woman but he was the best boyfriend ever. He was eve... (282 words)

Boyfriend has celebrity crush and it makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a crush on a TV star, she has been in several movies he watched when he was a child and basically grew up with them. Everytime he sees her on TV he is sooo enthusastic, and goes 'aaaawwwww look, it's ******'. It's extremely annoying. Her new movie is coming o... (237 words)

How do I make things alright between us again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help with this guy I like, he has bipolar and I really don't know what to do. We've met a couple of times and I just fully fell for him. We hooked up and I could tell me liked me, the next day though this other guy he liked me and so he kissed me, I felt so guilty b... (166 words)

I only have 4 months to prepare for baby! What do I need?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive just found out im pregnant!! So excited. Somehow ive just also found out im 23 weeks 2 days....whoch is a mega shock!! Abyway im now on panic mode as to preparing as we only have around 4 months instead of the 9. Im looking for help...a complete list of everythingwe sho... (74 words)

I don't know if my husband will stay in the marriage if there is no swinging involved!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I got together 4 years ago. He was honest and said he was very sexual from the start. Our sex life was brilliant and after about six months we decided to try swinging, we didn't get off to the greatest start as the first guy was disastrous. We percirvered and ... (248 words)

How do I know if my feelings are genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I think a shy friend of mine likes me, based on all the teasing of our mutual friends. (I.e. my friends making references about me being his girl/boo, they've asked multiple times if I would ever go out with him and if I liked him, etc...) he doesnt talk to me much, I think he ... (155 words)

Should I leave this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I met 6 years ago. He lived in a different State and so we began a long distance relationship. After three months he moved across the country to be with me. Soon after I got pregnant. We really only had been dating for 5 months (3 of which were long ... (394 words)

Don't we all smell the same?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys.I've got a very weird question to ask..first off,I've been friends with this UK lady for 4yrs.cyber_friendship.we've shared a lot.she recently had a baby born.and she used to tell me she doesn't bath sometimes,they I'd ask y and she'd say she doesn't smell and that she ... (158 words)

I get sad when I think about her and what I may have missed with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - This story is very long and complicated, but im going try keeping it short. When i was 14 years old, my BEST FRIEND'S(family friend) sister Z, who is 2 years younger to me, started falling for me. Me being so young and naive knew it but didnt give it much attention. Ever since, ... (416 words)

She likes me but I don't know how NOT to mess this up, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - ok, here's something fairly simple: I found out a girl at school likes me, she doesn't know that I know (to my knowledge) and I sort of like her back. yet, I feel too shy to tell her, and want to ask her out on a date. A little sidenote or two: this is the first girl to say she ... (109 words)

Can a man control his arousal?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

1 April 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have decided to get married before sex. This is his decision. I am divorced on my mid thirties and he is on his mid twenties and saids to be a virgin. Well turns out he's religious aswell. When we kiss and fondle heavily , he supresses his eerections. ... (165 words)

He said we couldn't go on, but I'm getting mixed messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling so confused... I was in a relationship for the past two years. We had loads of problems, it was the kind of relationship people knew was not going to last, but we loved each other so much... However, our disagreements took their toll on us and we drifted apart. ... (360 words)

Insecure with my ugly body, will I ever get a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I've been an emotional eater and very lazy over the years and have really let myself go and stopped caring about my body. This is very pathetic I know, especially because I'm a young woman. I am so insecure about my body I don't think I will ever find love or find a ... (237 words)

What can I expect from my first appointment with the midwife? No scan yet but I confirmed I am pregnant. Not sure how many weeks yet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just found out I am pregnant...although I could be anywhere up to 24 weeks pregnant already. I would rather not go into detail about why I have only just found out now but a chat with a midwife over the phone confirmed that in my position this is very possible. Anyway... (177 words)

I like him but he's 11 years younger then me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So there's this guy I have been talking to and seeing for 8 months now. My mother says I should not date him or even think about it cause he's younger then me and that a relationship with him won't last. He say's he's interested in me, wants to be with me, and do anything to be ... (517 words)

He made one comment that upset me and now I'm not very attracted to him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

1 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How is it possible that last month I was very attracted to this guy, I thought he was this incredibly good looking person and I was really excited to out with him, i was like a little a teenage girl always checking my phone and feeling really happy when he texted. But then ... (241 words)