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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why did he reject me and how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Colleague at work- who we've been up and down for a year . Recently he is back to flirtign and we get on like a house on fire. I have tried to move on which he knows about!! He over hears me talking to a friend saying how i still like this man etc. friends advice is ask hi... (239 words)

Are these the signs of a friend or a man who is interested in more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - A man acts in the following ways with me: Always pays most attention to me in a group situation to the point where if we are all sitting and lingering after a discussion and some people leave and others stay but then I stand up to go, he will immediately stand up to leav... (569 words)

Is it possible to immediately go from being in a long-term relationship to being just friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to immediately go from being in a long term relationship to being just friends? This guy who is interested in me tells me that he is over his ex with whom he's been living with for several years. They've just broken up a month ago and he says he is over her. ... (108 words)

Did my B/f enjoy the anal play?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. Keep it simple. I've been with my boyfriend just over four years. We've always had a good sex life but never really experimented with anal play. This was due to a previous experience I had when I lost my virginity with a different partner. He decided one day ... (403 words)

Should I tell a girl I like her even though she has a boyfriend now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have liked this girl for over a year almost 2. I am 25 she's in her 30's. We have got along well, she has always given me those "looks" she always laughs when she's talking to me and can be touchy. Thing is I wasn't sure as she's kinda flirty with most and I was going through ... (259 words)

I like this guy but I'm worried he's heard something negative about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

- I met this guy I really like at the gym. I add him on facebook and he messages me his number. We text for a couple of days and he said that he was out in town on saturday night and if i was out to go and meet him for a drink. I didnt contact him sat night because I was with my ... (244 words)

Is my FWB falling for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a fwb relationship for almost two months now.he generally emails me throughout the day to see how I am doing or just random talk through emails. I really connect with this man and am catching feelings. If he wasn't feeling the same would he even bother to email ... (85 words)

My friends are getting married and starting families while I'm still chasing casual sex and other cheap thrills.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

8 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - A really good friend of mine just announced to me about a couple of days ago that he's getting married. Obviously, I'm really happy for him but strangely enough, there's also another part of me that feels a little nostalgic and wistful. I remember feeling the exact same way ... (202 words)

Why didn't he ask me out on a second date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I went on a blind date the other week.(we both know what each other looks like) He was very excited about meeting me-so he drove 2 hours to my town so we could go out to dinner. I let him pick me up at my house ..we went to eat and the conversation never stopped. We both talked ... (411 words)

It's been two years -- will I bleed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - It's going to sound odd and I am going to try and phrase it in not too much gruesome detail, the only time I have ever had sex was with my ex boyfriend, I bled a little when we first did it, it's almost 2 years ago that we broke up and I haven't had a boyfriend since and I'm ... (132 words)

How do I re-enter the dating world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, this question's something a bit different, but still relationships-focused, here goes. I'm 28, been single for 6 years now, last relationship was in March 2008 (it was a 2 1/2 year long one), so you can see just how long ago that was. It ended due to distance - the g... (336 words)

I'm confused about my boyfriend and his gay friend and the facebook friends list!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What is going on with my boyfriend?. He recently added a gay man that he knows. They haven't been in touch for a long time. This man was going to have an operation to become a woman (I'm not sure if he has had it). My boyfriend told me that his friend tried to kiss him once ( ... (388 words)

I look so long at the photos all I see are the flaws, is this one of those OCD issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship problem, but more of one that I can't figure out if it's an issue mentally or if it's something other people experience and is normal... I've noticed over the last few months that I'm starting to really grow negative dislike towards my photos the mo... (316 words)

He seems to have a 'type' and I'm not it, should I be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok quick question that needs some honest answers .... If a woman is with a man and he is often commenting in women he thinks are attractive and every single one of those seem like a similar type which happens to be nothing like her ... Does she have any need to be concerned F... (185 words)

How can I move on? Still having trouble getting over my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was with a younger guy (12 years diff) for a year. It ended messy and we no longer keep in contact. My problem is I can't get over him and still love him so very much. I feel constant pain and hurt and would just do anything to talk or see him again. I havn't contacte... (117 words)

Why is he pushing me to drink alcohol? Is there something weird about his actions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been seeing this guy for a little while now and we met at the club, and i was drinking a little and just being fun. ( no sexual stuff involved.) After that I've noticed that everytime we go out, and alcohol is present he pushes me to drink. For example, yesterda... (128 words)

Would it be better to take anything I can get or is being conscious of compatibility a good thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (?) age 30-35 - In high school, I was an overweight awkward boy who had no chance of getting with any girl. At the end of junior year I slimmed down a lot, changed my style, started working out to this day and I keep going with it. I had a girlfriend for a bit over a year into college but ... (356 words)

I really like him -- what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I really like this boy. He looks at me a lot and we talk sometimes. He has a gf but they never talk. He knows I like him. But what should I do.... (35 words)

This incident made me question whether our core values are in sync

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

8 April 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel very disappointed in my girlfriend of almost 4 years yesterday, but I don't think she understands the core issue (or maybe it's not an issue). We are 29 and 28. We were in a car driving to a birthday event about an hour away with my girlfriend and my gf's sister. I w... (462 words)

I don't want anyone but medical staff in the room during delivery!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to be on my own when i give birth in july...i would like my husband anf family waiting but for my own personal reasons i dont want amyone in the room with me (obviousley apart from any midwives or doctors) but i know my husband really wants to be in the room with me. How ... (68 words)

How to get our sex life back to the 'honeymoon' phase? And how do I deal with the issue of this old friend of his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll just get to the point....I've been married to my husband close to 7 years...lately he hasn't been wanting to be that intimate with me. Idk if he's stressed, or just doesn't find me attractive anymore. I've tried spicing things up a bit...nothing...I trying to little ... (493 words)

I refused to take sides in their argument!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3877 days ago

8 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid my friend's boyfriend has been reporting her to me...the first time he told me she travelled and stopped calling/texting him and even when he calls ,she either doesnt pick up or wen she does, she's very rude to him; then eventually she told him she would be the one ... (635 words)

Should I go ahead and make my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3857 days ago

8 April 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I've been spending a lot of time within the last week with a friend of my best friends - as a group and also the other night together just talking. We've been messaging a fair amount and I think I'm starting to really like her as more than a friend. (Though I'm not ... (192 words)