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writes:I've been talking to this guy for about 5 months now and i'm beginning to really like him, we flirt every time we see each other, he has a great personality and he's been coming round every other weekend, and we would end up kissing and cuddling. However, my friend introduced me to her friend on a night out and he is also a really nice guy. He came to my party at the weekend and everyone said we looked cute together, i should also add that we have been speaking also but not as much flirting. I ended up kissing him after the party and he's been texting me since, however the other guy hasn't text me all weekend. I know this may sound bad, but i like both of them and i don't know which guy i like more. How do you tell if someone makes a good boyfriend or not? Who do i choose?
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (28 May 2013):
 " how do i tell if someone makes a good boyfriend or not? who do i choose?" it takes more than just kissing, flirting,texting,and looking cute together. it takes not being selfish, thinking of the the other more than self. it takes a good character " kindness, thoughtfulness, humbleness , ect..." slow down, and look for good traits in a guy. you can draw the right guy by being the right girl. work on your own flaws, everyone has flaws. no- one is perfect. slow down is not choosing a guy behind door one, or door two. it sounds like you have invested five months with a guy, but if something, or someone better comes along you are ready maybe to dump him. one question what if a guy would do you like that that how would it feel? slow down and think about this. no one can tell you who to pick, or who to be with.the main thing is be true to the one you are with. i hope this helps.
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (28 May 2013):
 Date the two of them for a while and the answer will come to you. Many things could happen. One of them may lose interest or find someone else, or may do something that does not appeal to you. As long as you are not committed to either of them, date them as long as you want until you make a decision. Eventually you will favour one over the other, and everything will fall into place. Just make sure that if they ask you if you are seeing someone else, be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2013): I know the feeling well, and I'm glad its not just me who has these dilemmas!
Well I suppose you know the other guy (the 5 months one) better, do you think he's after a relationship or otherwise? How about the new guy you just met - what's he looking for? And most of all - what are YOU looking for in a relationship?
If you're wanting to find out, why don't you suggest meeting up or chat and then you find out more about each one? As in on a friendly basis as opposed to dates (we're not gonna go into 2 timing here!). From there I suppose you can make your mind up, good luck!
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