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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My exboyfriend said he doesn't want a relationship with me because he said we were different people. I accepted it and later after two months he contacted me and said he wanted to see me. the break up was on september and he contacted me on november. I was so in love with him but he was hard to understand be cause we had an age difference . he was 38 and i was 20. I wanted things to work out but it didint. He again came in december 2010 and which was a month later after seeing each other. He told me he loved me to death but I was not happy at all. because he tried to control me and he didn't had a trust on me. after talking to each other on december he told me when i leave from your city whcih was two hours away i will call your mom and tell her that we are togethr again. he left on friday and two days has passed which i didn't hear from him. he later said it wont work because he said i don't understand him. after that i told him if we can talk and he said he would come out. he came in may which was three months after march and we talk and he had sex with me and after talking for hours he will think about it and tell me if we are going to be together or not. after a week later he told me there is no us any more and i found out in august he was getting married and the stupidest thing was that he was still coming to see me when he was engaged. and the way i found out was because the invitation was in our house from his fianceys family. after he got married two months after his marriage he tried to contact me via email and he said alot of stupid things. he was threatening me saying alot of things. he said i was talking to other people about him . i decided to not say anything and ignored him the whole time. he did that for almost two month and i didn't responded. when it got to the point i was really mad because he kept saying alot of stup how stupid and selfish i am and he told me that i found the love of his life. i decided to block him instead and after a few days he sent me another email using his name and lastname and i blocked him again. and in the email because i didn't responded to his emails he told me that he love me and he missed me which he was joking i can tell from his writing. i want to know what is his problem? i have already moved on don't he love his wife? he also told me that i will forever be by myself . please help me and let me know
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2013): He doesnt know what he wants really .. He wants you, he doesn't want You . The only clear thing here is he doesn't want you moving on . He wants you hanging on.. Waiting.. Crying... Pondering.. To hell with that, he missed the boat.. Your already sailed and looking for more golden shore to park your vessel . Delete him altogether . Phone the police if he continues to harass you.. Do not blink this man is trouble . Tell your mum and dad if you were my daughter I would want to know. There are some weirdos out there.. If you ever see him make sure you get to a area with lots if people init then get a cab to your patents house .. Tell his folks . He can not harass you without thinking that his actions won't get a reaction if he keeps pushing.. Ignoring him this far is good honey, but if he finds other ways to get in contact then you go to the police.. Be safe honey rather than sorry x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2013): I think you are being used. What kind of thing is this that he is trying to pull? Drop and delete him from your life right away. What the ----?
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