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writes:Dear Cupid. I have five siblings I am the second oldest girl my mom had three girls,two boys.For some apparent reason the youngest girl and I just never could meet eye to eye even when we were kids I was older and she was the baby. I truly hated her I wished my mom and dad never made her.Now we are adults its just out of hand I don't understand why we can't get along arguing back and fourth.Sometimes I wish harm to her now that my mom is sick we aren't talking to one other she's upset because my mom has gave me rights over her she had a fit.Also I over heard her talking about my mom under her clothes on the phone to her boyfriend I think it's down right wrong.Now that my mom is sick she can't hold her bowel so she makes mistakes but it's awful to talk down on your mom like that.I really think its because myself and my two brothers got to have our father in our lives she didn't because mom and dad went their own way be fore she was born and she acts like its my fault.I really want to learn how to break these grudges against people because it very unhealthy I have hated a person for over ten years and I can't say right today what broke the chain.I am very tired of people doing things to me and then when I come back I am wrong for my grudge! Help:( Reply to this Question
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reader, LivingWithBadDecisions  +, writes (18 March 2013):
 iamheretohelpyou it right. theres a lot of problems in my family but it was even worse when my uncle died and his brother suddenly regretted never making up for all the sh1t they put each other through... dont be like that...
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (18 March 2013):
 HI
Firstly is your mum suffering with irritable bowel syndrome? because there are lots of things now that can help with this......as sometimes Dr's get it wrong.
You will get past this with your sister, your both at an age were being stuborn comes naturally lol...but you ARE the older sister so you may have to bite the bullet here and make the first move. If she refuses to make ammends with you then just leave her be for a while, she will come around. I hope your mother gets better soon .
Mandy x
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