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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm so frustrated it drains me and leaves me tongue tied

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we've hit quite a bump in the road. In the beginning and for the first few years of our relationship, I always made the effort. I think I did it too much to the point where I spoon fed him everything from advice to what to say i... (350 words)

At what age did you really start to enjoy life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I turned 21 over the summer. I am single with no kids. I am a full-time college student and I will be graduating next year with a degree in accounting. I live at my parent's house, and I work part-time. I have never really felt so low and depressed in my life until now. I ... (300 words)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He seemed to like me the way I was... (613 words)

We break up, make up and then he wants to break up again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok my bf of about a year and I have been going thru things. First off he really tried to break up with me ON our 1 year anniversary OVER THE PHONE I could not help but cry and plead for him (which I know was all based on instant emotions). We decided to see each other that day ... (444 words)

I don't have any luck with men what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

25 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I have been so bummed lately and it's because I haven't had a date in years. I am divorced and tried online dating, and it is not working for me. No matter what I do I can't get a date. I have been told that I am very attractive and I am not overweight. Most of the guys I c... (234 words)

Eeny, meeny, miney mo..which boy do I pick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There are 4 guys that are interested in me and I'm interested in each one, but cannot make a decision between them. Each have a particular quality that makes them unique; there's the affectionate/sweet/emotional one (that's dated some of my friends already!), the c... (102 words)

Should I ask my b/f why he hasn't said I love you to me yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I am very happy, but need some advice. He hasn't told me loves me, though in more ways than 1, I do feel loved. Should I bring up the fact that he hasn't said this yet? Also, for the sake of his career, he may have to move ... (147 words)

Considered cheating?? Deserve another chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - First and foremost, I please ask you not to judge. I am totally aware snooping is unacceptable, however, when one feels that something is going on... there is sometimes no other option. And please bear with me, the conversation/timeline of events is lengthy. Below are the ... (1487 words)

He says he loves me, is it just a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Aunts. I never felt what love is. I have no experience at all. Growing up, people used to make fun of me, say real mean things to me, laughing, taking advantage of my innocent look. I grew up knowing that im ugly, fat, shy and not the best person. Guys that liked me were ... (195 words)

We decided to take a break and now he's not coming back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 5 months and I broke up on the 15th. He moved back to his city which is 45 minutes away. Awe broke up do to fighting a lot . We decided that we would try to work on things but not be together right yet. He moved back because he said it would give us time to ... (438 words)

Is my personal view on sex & relationships so mean or hurtful to others that they have ridicule & ostracize me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long, my apologies. Hello everyone. I'm almost 21 years old college student who has been alone mostly all of her life. I have never had a boyfriend or never been kissed. Yes, I am still a virgin. I am not an affectionate female. My space is mine, therefore I know com... (1119 words)

The relationship has been going down hill for the last year ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years was not nice to me for the past 1 year, he behavior towards me is deteriorating as each day goes by. I am not sure whether all relationships goes sour as days goes by or its just me. He never picks up when i call, goes on days without even ... (182 words)

Should I stay or should I go? I could start over...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 39 year old mom of 2 who is in my 2nd marriage. I divorced my kids' father because he has a narcissistic personality disorder. He spent money wildly on basically fake businesses deluding himself deeply into thinking he was a gifted entrepreneur who would one day end up ... (1392 words)

Would love your opinion on what you think rational, logical men are like in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Would love your opinion on what you think rational, logical men are like in love? I'm very sensitive and emotional, whereas my partner is rational and logical. He said to me: with it not intending to be an arrogant sounding thing, that the greatest compliment he can give... (358 words)

I don't think I trust my LDR boyfriend and now that he knows I went through his messages he doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I am currently in a semi LDR seing other weekend/alternative weekends due to work commitments for last 1.6 yes. Whilst we love one anothers lots I'm not sure I trust my BF. A while a go i found some flirty messages (some sexual but bantery) between him and his work... (322 words)

Should I just be with this man not matter what even though he wants to be a female?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I saw this site on the interent so thought i would message in as i dont really know who i can talk to and i am starting to wonder if it is me with a problem, rather than others. I am really worrying about my future now but i dont seem to have any answers. Basically the rela... (887 words)

After 2.5 years with me does he still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Does he still have feelings for his ex My partner has been with me go 2 and a half years. Before me he was with somebody else for 7 years and had 2 children with her. I found out after he was with me that he left her and the children for me although he told me he had split ... (276 words)

Is my partner using sex or lack of it as some sort of control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 2 years hardly ever wants sex with me. When we first got together he wanted it 2-3 times a day which I was fine with as it was good. Now it's more like 2 times a week and its always the same. I've suggested different things - but he refused to try. It's his ... (311 words)

Am I just too sensitive about comments made about my age/looks vs my husband's looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - People make all kind of remarks about my age. I am in my 40s, I know I look good for my age. My husband is 8 years older than me and has a beard. May be he is looking a bit much older than me, but not to the point that it's possible to imagine he is my father. For the past... (303 words)

Why is my husband so demanding at home but a pushover at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my husband so demanding at home but a pushover at work? He says things like "when I get home from work I want my dinner and a drink on the table" and "make sure this house is clean when I get home" we have 2 children and I'm heavily pregnant with our third yet he doesn... (360 words)

Am I just reading too much into things because I want my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. We have met up 3 times an... (236 words)

How do I open myself up to others and be more social?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

25 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hello I have some social issues. I'm reserved person and I it find hard to talk with people, even with people in my age. When I was in primary school (age 7-14), I was too shy. I've always felt diffrent from others, like I don't deserve to be treated in same way.And then in ... (231 words)

He sends texts that he'd like to cheat but then doesn't follow through. I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, wonder if anyone has any thoughts on this. A guy started texting me in May after having done some work at my home. The texts became intimate quite quickly. A few evenings of sexy texts during May then he saiid he couldn't come to house to do further work because his... (557 words)

He says he can't marry me because of his parents but we are intimate. Should I stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I don't know from where do I start. I'm in a very difficult condition to be understood by anyone. My story has started one year back when I kissed him for the first time. It's not that I haven't kissed any guy before him but with him something was different. I had an ... (348 words)

Girlfriend didn't like quote I put on facebook and it is causing problems between us

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Four days back, I posted my quote on my facebook wall which reads like this "Honesty is a luxury that we can't afford all the time.". Many friends of mine liked it and commented on it.When my girlfriend saw that message and she met me later, she was pissed off saying why it's ... (153 words)

I can't get over a guy I have been speaking to online

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

25 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I had been talking to a younger guy on a dating site and he is the most gorgeous guy I have ever seen. He said I was very beautiful in my profile and we had a few chats. He has called me hun from the beginning and it made me feel nice. I am 47 and he is 25. Lately he hasn't ... (374 words)

Does his sweetness mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Please help meeeee!!!I'm heartbroken right now... Its been a month since I met this guy.Initially wasn't much interested in him.But after getting to know him better, I really started liking him a lot.I cant stay without talking with him for a day.But he will reply on... (133 words)

What is fair to expect from a wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my wife for almost 21 years and there are many things about her that endear her to me. However, of late I am finding it harder and harder to remain with her. That's not because of what she or has not done in some sense, but because my expectations are ... (527 words)

How to reassure him hes the one ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've met this guy years ago and he's all I ever wanted but I was dating his friend at the time, Me and his friend broke up and Now I really want to be with him and he is the guy of my dreams, and he's says that I'm the girl of his dreams and because of that he knows something ... (167 words)

Scared of what goes bump in the night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A few nights ago I started to have more trouble then usually trying tosleep. I feel as though someone is watching me or I think of demons and ghost and my mine starts to race and I think of ppossession and my heart rate spikes a little. And this only happens at night. I can't ... (143 words)

Girlfriend lost weight, changed, left me and started going for meat heads like her trainer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm 26 and I began dating this girl (22) I met from a friend in undergrad and we immediately hit it off, however the night we met, we slept together. I immediately thought the worst because but eventually we began hanging out more and more then I started to like ... (377 words)

Why is it that girls who have poor self-esteem sometimes deliberately sabotage a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is about situations I've been in, but it's generic enough that it applies to a lot of situations. Why is it that girls who have poor self-esteem sometimes deliberately sabotage a relationship or do things "on purpose" to make you hate or dislike them, or at wors... (695 words)

I don't want to pay off boyfriends debts. How do I teach him to be more responsible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - He's 21, and i'm 20. We've been together for 10 months now, and we're serious and in love. However, we're having money issues that are putting a strain on our relationship.. He has ADHD (not taking meds), is very irresponsible, and LOVES to spend money on unnecessary thin... (283 words)

I think I need to leave this troubled marriage of abuse and lies

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi readers, I am in need of some advice and hopefully I can get it through those of you who are or have been in a similar situation as me. I am 22, and I am newly married for about three months now. We are in a love marriage and he is 29. We had a great wedding and we re... (1256 words)

How do I stop myself from being angry when my fiance rejects my sexual advances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I stop myself from being angry when my fiance rejects my sexual advances? I am a very attractive woman in my mid 20s, my fiance (who is six years older than I) and I have been together for two years. He regularly rejects my sexual advances. It upsets me because I kno... (105 words)

MY girlfriend lied to me, we broke up and now everything is a mess

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

25 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi in need of help I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years. 10 days ago I had found out she had been lying to me. She had been going out with another guy and hiding it from me. It started out one day when I logged into Facebook and found her best fri... (524 words)

Is my Ex sleeping with his family that's why he can't be in a real relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid , I love my ex with all that I am made of but we went our own ways do to a lot of cheating ,fighting,and arguring.But there is one thing that I am very puzzled about I don't want to think like this but I believe his entire family believes in going to bed with each ... (167 words)

He said he'd be proud to be with me and then has ignored me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello .. I wondered if you'd mind giving your opinions ? I'm a mum in thoughts.. I am in my thirties , single mother with good career house etc . I left my ex because he cheated even though I was deeply in love .. Met a man who I was with for six years - who turned me into an ... (149 words)

I keep having fantasies about my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having fantises about my ex and all the time. Help?... (12 words)

Is my LDR b/f seeing a girl behind on my back who he's befriended from facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So Im in a long distance situation with my boyfriend/ex. We're together but not. It's hard to explain. Anyway, I'm a pretty jealous person and noticed that he befriended a girl on Facebook who lives out of state about 2 months ago. She befriended his brother a month later after ... (174 words)