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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does pulling back form a man make him realise how much he wants/doesnt want you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - iv a friend that iv known for years, and we had a drunken kiss a few months ago and since then he has been texting me every day. The problem is he has a gf. nothing physical has happened with us since we kissed. He said before he would leave gf and then he didn't. I get th... (312 words)

He broke up with me to "better himself" but said he still cares - why and what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently, I met a guy at school. We met in early April and traded emails back and forth. They were short but we averaged nearly 200 emails a week and would email from before classes started each day until one of us went to bed. We didn't discuss previous relationships but I ... (1246 words)

Never had a relationship -- tips for what guys like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm about to get into a relationship with a guy I've liked for about 9 months now, I've known him for a few years but last Christmas we exchanged numbers and since then we've been hanging out a lot. I've never had a boyfriend and I've never done anything with a boy, ... (130 words)

What makes someone like my husband so immature and extreme in his reactions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) age 41-50 - Why is my husband so selfish? He was the oldest of 8 kids but I swear he acts like an only child sometimes; someone who never learned how to compromise, or share things, or accept another person's ideas and viewpoints. Case in point; we bought some plants for our garden but ... (183 words)

Has anyone suffered anxiety attacks and over came them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there anybody that suffers with anxiety attacks and if so how did you over come them? I don't know why I started getting them although I think it could be related to a male friend of mine who keeps texting me and showing interest the last few months and then pulling awa... (243 words)

The guy I'm dating sleeps all the time! Should I keep seeing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started talking to this guy about 3 weeks ago. He lives about 4 hours away from me so he came to visit me for the weekend. And i have seen he sleep all the time. Every time we sit down for any reason he just goes to sleep. Even when we talking about very serious ... (87 words)

How do I get my clingy, overbearing and unwilling-to-change-that boyfriend to calm down while I'm visiting my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I am wondering what you guys would consider normal boundaries and communication frequency in a relationship. Me and my boyfriend live together near our college, but I came back home for a couple of weeks to visit my family. He hates it but he had no choice, now he ... (503 words)

Should I take a risk and go abroad to see him, even though he is involved with someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had strong feelings for this since I was a teenager...he moved abroad and we kept in contact..he stated that he felt the same way as well...sometimes in my heart I feel like we are soul mates...but another part of me is scared that it is infatuation...should I still take ... (75 words)

I don't know whether to follow my head or my heart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone Hope you can all help me as I don't know whether to follow my head or my heart. Firstly, I have been with my fella for 2 years and he has a wonderful personality, very caring, warm and just a lovely bloke. We get along brilliantly and I really love hi... (818 words)

Every single man that I meet that I may have a thing with leaves me before anything can happen!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'll try and keep it to the point! I'm 25 and my problem is this - every single man that I meet that I may have a thing with leaves me before anything can happen! It's so frustrating! I'm not needy, everyone says I'm attractive, funny and laidback. I find it easy ... (173 words)

Does this message mean I'm dumped? Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my bf have been arguing ALOT and we had a huge row because he has no time too see me this morning he said 'Right now I am screaming at my phone because I can't put into text what I want to say in retaliation and so it doesn't ruin your day, I am sparing you this and you ... (189 words)

Do dumpers always remember the bad memories after they break up with someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry, my story is a bit long. My ex of three years dumped me for no reason five months ago. He then had no contact after we split up. I'm still suffering from the pain and always wonder where went wrong. We were so in love and talked about marriage. We constantly fought before ... (293 words)

He broke up saying hes not ready for a relationship but I don't want things to end this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been together for almost 5 months. And last weds he told me that he thinks he's not ready for a relationship and he can't keep lying to me or hurt me (he lied to me once and he always feels guilty about it) I know he's a good guy and this is not an excuse for him to see ... (652 words)

Girlfriend knew she had STD and still had unprotected sex with me. I found out from seeing her medication!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

7 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I found out about a week ago that my live in GF has an STD. She did not tell me, I found out. I found medication that she's taking, that she never told me about. I did confront her. Naturally a fight ensued, and the house is tense now. My question is this: Do I stay with... (179 words)

Is it over because he just doesn't seem to have time to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So, I am in a relationship with a guy since 7 months. He's an old friend of mine, I mean, we know each other since when we were kids, and one day we met again and we fell in love. The first months I can't say that everything was perfect, but we got along really ... (291 words)

Is he really busy or should I just say forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so ive been seeing this guy casually who about 5 months ago broke up with his fiancé for cheating. His bestfriend told me he really liked me which is how we ended up casually dating and Everything was going fine, i hung out with his friends,we went out on dates, i even met ... (244 words)

After first time sex that I thought we both enjoyed, the next morning he tells me my behind smells!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I started seeing this guy and we dig each other. The other night we had sex for the first time and everything was going well.... we had amazing sexual chemistry and couldn't keep out hands off each other. Throughout the night he kept telling me that it's been a long time ... (228 words)

Why is this woman dabbling in my personal business? I don't believe she really cares about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4182 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I got offered a job in another city. I was unable to make it to the face to face interview due to financial reasons at the time. The company then offered to do a phone interview. Usually what follows is a second interview, however they offered me the job. There's this w... (290 words)

Do men ever fantasize about someone who is less attractive than their partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Am curious about some thing. I've been told men are never truly satisfied with who they got at home, and are forever fantasizing about being with other women. What I wonder is do they ever fantasize about women who are less attractive than their Partner? Or is it only women... (61 words)