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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He rarely calls me and only texts me now and then.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone I'm in a relationship with a lovely guy. We are both in our late forties and have been dating for 8 months. When we are together, it is perfect. We laugh all the time, hug, kiss,share the same interests and have great sex. He is very affectionate and says he is... (170 words)

My wife is emotionally abusive and I don't love her anymore. How do I tell her I want a separation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, and thanks for considering my question. My wife and I have been married for 5 years, and have a 2 year old daughter. We've been through some trying times, but my wife has always been very financially supportive as the main breadwinner of teh family. However, she's ... (206 words)

Are girls okay with a guy experimenting a lot with his looks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I moved to Ireland 4 months back to be with my wife . I'm 33, she is 30. I'm still holding Pakistani nationality and soon will be Ireland citizen thanks to my wife. I always like experimenting with my look: One month I will have French Cut beard and next month everything will ... (179 words)

Should I be the one to bring up sex first in our relationship, or should he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It about 3 months i started dating my bf and he has never raised an issue on sex but i want us to talk about sex so that i can tell him my opinion on sex in a relationship and know his opinion to,should i be the one to bring up the topic or shud i wait for him to do so?... (62 words)

My girlfriend in my LDR is barely speaking to me anymore. Should I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this girl now. Last year, she moved to another city with her family. She used to call and message me all the time. After 3months,she joined a college for her further studies. She became friends with a guy from her class. Since then, ... (229 words)

Does my bi friend have hidden feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Cupids, I’m looking for some sensible advice. First off, I’m gay and my friend is bi (he hates the label). He’s one of my best friends but I’ve also come to realise that he has become very attentive and emotional around me. He didn’t see me for a month and he told me he re... (335 words)

My husband decided he's really done. Anyone who has been in the situation please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really down. I need some advice or helpful words from someone who has been through this before. I posted on here the other day that I'm going through a separation. I'm having a hard time with it. For a lot of reasons I have to stay in the same house with my husband ... (563 words)

His ex wife still lives with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriends ex wife is still living in the house.she pays no rent and does not contribute to purchasing groceries or paying housing expenses. she is always using his money on her personal entertainment. Instead of being grateful she is always bitching. My boyfriend says this... (113 words)

I need some more advice with dating please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Thank you for answering my question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-become-better-at-dating.html I can't really leave my voluntary job, as I have too many projects on the go, been there since 2007, and I enjoy it. As for the advice about organized hiking, ... (472 words)

How to deal with this in front of the kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my husband for 20 years (we were both VERY young), and married for 14 years. He is a police officer and I recently found out that he is cheating on me with a female paramedic. The divorce is in process - but how do I remain civil and not create a scene in ... (130 words)

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was looking for a link in the search history of our computer and I noticed that my boyf had looked in the 'sent' folder followed by the 'draft' folder then the 'trash' folders - he has two. Should this give me cause to believe he's trying to hide messages hes sending from ... (113 words)

I need to get unbored of my realtionship please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I feel like I am being bored in my relationship. We have been going out for almost 6 months, and I'm starting to slowly not like her anymore. I used to love her so much, then I went on vacation for 5 days and now I dont like her as much. I dont know what happened, but for some ... (174 words)

Why didn't he give me his number?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Just wondering if anyone has any idea why he didn't ask for my number. In a quite busy night life area, I was with a friend and gave this very cute guy signals of interest. He came over and we chatted for about 10 minutes. As I enjoyed both his looks and personality, I o... (175 words)

Would it be such a bad idea to call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We where having too many fights, he couldn't see a problem, so I left. It was bitter. After three weeks on no contact, he called me. I missed it and text him asking what he wanted. He said to know how I was, I told him good and said nothing else. He tried calling me again ... (212 words)

How should I handle events when my future step daughter has her first child

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age - I am engaged and not married yet. My fiance has two adult children from a previous marriage. They aren't in contact with him too much, forgetting him on Father's Day, Christmas and his birthday. No cards(sometimes there is a card), phone calls or gifts which I can tell hurts ... (369 words)

What is the right order for me to approach my attraction to this woman, as I do have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for around 3yrs now, he's my first bf and I love him a lot. Since a few weeks, though, I think I've been falling more and more in love with a girl who's a few years older than I am (around 10yrs I think) and I need some advice on what to do now. My bf and... (373 words)

I feel a stab of pain because all my firsts wont be his firsts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This might sounds a trivial problem or I might sound ridiculously jealous to some people but I could really do with honest advice from people on how to deal with my feelings. Im in my first relationship with someone that already has a child from a previous relationsh... (603 words)

I am too scared by previous relationships to say "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I suffered too much being too much emotionally involved in my previous relationship . In simple words, I was too romantic and my ex girl friends and then wife walked over me. Now I have met this this American girl in Dubai and whom I liked but I don't show my emotions at all. ... (131 words)

Will I get played by the HUGE player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this guy for 4 years, we met through my ex because they are childhood friends, He continuously made an effort to converse with me and finally I talked back and we became close, Like best friends . tHey lived in a different state. To make a long story short, my ... (589 words)

Sex has got rough since we have got closer. Why is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Your views would be much appreciated. My bf and I have had a pretty turbulent relationship over the last two years. I was ready to leave a few months back,and since then, his behaviour had changed towards me in a good way. He now treats me with respect,and is making ... (134 words)

I'm modest and reserved but seem to attract guys who only want sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I seem to be attracting the wrong type of men and I have no Idea why ? I wonder if Im doing something wrong ? I have never been the type of woman to expose her body, I dress pretty classy, I wear clothes that accentuate my curbs, and may show a peak of cleavage but never in... (260 words)

My boyfriend told me he already sees the end and when he's ready he will leave me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been officially dating since mid may, but have been talking as friends for about 10 months prior to that. He's a great guy that i enjoy talking and spending time with. I've Always had a 'thing' for him, and when we were just talking as friends, he seemed ... (689 words)

I want his girlfriend to know he's been cheating on her with me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been talking/hooking up with this guy and he has a girlfriend of a few years... I don't want to change my situation with him yet but I do want her to know what he's doing. She seems like a really good (virginal) girl... How could I do this without incriminating myself? ... (70 words)

My husband never listens to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't think my husband really listens to me. Ever since we've been married, all my mother in law can do is talk about my husband's brother's wife. They are just two brothers but all she does is talk about the other daughter in law. CONSTANTLY. I can't stand it. I do... (206 words)

If you have cheated before, are you not worthy of any future relationships? Are cheaters really 'red flags'?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) age - I have read so many questions and responses on DC. The most common response or feedback is IF HE OR SHE HAS CHEATED ON HIS/HER GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND OR WIFE/HUSBAND BEFORE, YOU SHOULD NOT BE WITH HIM/HER BECAUSE HE/SHE WOULD DO THE SAME TO YOU! So, it looks like if you have... (328 words)

How can I find someone who will treat me right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - iv been with this guy for a year now an when we got together it was just out of fun but then i got preagnt 5months later then lost it 2 weeks after anyway we havent been getting along for a while an it seems like he doesnt even want to be with me anymore an when i ask him if ... (130 words)