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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can't orgasm, sex is painful -- is the problem in my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Im going to get right to the point. Ive never had an orgasm. I cant masturbate. Tried before, and it doesnt feel good at all, and I feel awkward doing it. It has to be pitch dark for me to try, otherwise I feel like someone is watching me even though I live alone. Ive tried ... (452 words)

My boyfriend is completely broken up by the loss of his brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend had a 7 year old brother whom he was extremely close to (the child's father wasn't in his life) about a week ago the boy died from heart problems. Since then, my boyfriend has hardly said a word and hasn't eaten anything and sits on the couch and doesn't ... (100 words)

We broke up but he won't go n/c

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in the middle of a break up from the man who made my life loads better and wanted to marry me. We loved each other so much but things took its toll on us and Ive gone through something that a person never should which traumatised me, I dont really want to say what happened ... (279 words)

For the men who use porn, why don't you think of your girlfriend when masturbating?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if this has been asked before but here goes those men who use porn when they have a girlfriend, why don't you think of your girlfriend when masturbating? Surely you find them the most attractive so what's it all about, we need this settling.... (48 words)

Is the Personal Trainer Guy Interested in Me or just Grooming Me for a Sale?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this sounds like a really cheesy cliché question that hundreds of women have asked many times but I'm more confused by my potential personal trainer. After going in to speak to one three days ago and asking about what the sessions involve/prices etc. I was expectin... (401 words)

What can I do about an incredibly sloppy kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - What to do about an incredibly sloppy kisser? He opens his mouth way too wide in soft lip kisses and instead of sucking on my lower lip he kind of sucks on my chin? In neck kisses and ear kisses he just licks my ear/neck? Way too much licking and tongue. It means there are ... (90 words)

I really want to make plans to see him again, but I feel like he should get in touch with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm 31 years old and recently met a guy who is 37 through an organization for which we both volunteer. We made plans to meet outside of the organization last weekend. I went into it thinking that it was just two people hanging out, but things quickly got very flirty ... (357 words)

Unsupportive with my social anxiety, I feel so alone in his aversion to understanding me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles: I moved in with my long term (4 yrs) boyfriend in June. Things are pretty good up until recently. I moved from a different state and have yet to find work. I am a bit of an introvert, so this job search has been really a challenge for me. It really i... (422 words)

What shall I say to make the break-up less harsh?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't like my boyfriend anymore.? He never compliments me or says I look attractive/beautiful or tells me how he feels about me, he makes me feel fat because he flirts with other girls. He doesn't want a sexual relationship yet which makes me think he doesn't find me ... (151 words)

Do you think it's possible for me and him to stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, so, here's my situation. I am 19, my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. We were close friends, I mean, we attended at the same school for 8 years, I know him since when we were 3. After 5 years of not seeing each other, one day he came back int... (373 words)

My best friend is slowly becoming someone I can't stand to be around...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So my best friend (and honestly like the best friend I've ever had) is straight up just conceited, like all he talks about is how good looking he is and always brags to me about how many girls find him attractive, and pretty much is just becoming a cynical asshole... How do I ... (70 words)

Am I not over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend sometimes brings up exes in conversation and this stirs up old feelings for my ex who I got over last year after a year and a half - is that normal? I strted going out with my girlfriend a few months after i got over her. Does it mean that I dont love her? I find ... (67 words)

I need him to love me like he used to! Do I give him more time and space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So here's the thing, i've broke up with my ex for 2 months and a little, and just a 2 weeks back, he finally agreed to get back with me because he still loves me. We went out and watched a movie, we held hands during the movie, but when i wanted to kiss him, he wouldn't... (361 words)

Do we just need perseverance to be able to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 24 year old male who had been in a long term relationship for three years and then ended it fairly recently. I am now seeing someone else who is 23 and a virgin. I've had sex with a few girls before but never with someone who was a virgin. Last night we tried to have... (162 words)

Do you think if you are on the fence about having kids then you shouldn't have them?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31. When I think of my future as a childless person I feel an immense feeling of relief and excitement. But, I like kids. The thought of having one with me 24/7 makes me feel heavy and closed in. I am also well aware that parenting NEVER ends. In fact from what I can see ... (119 words)

I feel like there's a wall between us and he doesn't meet my emotional needs. Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years.. we spend a lot of time together yet I feel like there's a wall between us he doesn't meet my emotional needs and I feel like he doesn't care to put in the effort to keep me.. I know we have been together for a while but ... (117 words)

How to be a more positive person, especially after a lifetime of judgement, and being so negative as a result?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some tips on being a more positive person? Esp after a life of mostly not being accepted, as am quieter, and being alone, and Im the nice person, being the person usually trying to be friendly and interested in others but... others are not interested in me.... (279 words)

How to win a mind game( push/pull game) at work place?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am wondering if someone could tell me how to win a mind game ( push/ pull game) a coworker guy is playing on me? Is there really any way to win this game as a girl. Thanks for all the help. ... (44 words)

Is it okay to keep in-touch and have sex with your ex on the odd occasion without thinking too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

12 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I will try and make this short. My ex boyfriend dumped me 3 months ago but has phoned me regularly (once a week). We caught up a couple of weeks ago, he cooked me a lovely lunch and we had sex, I was at his place for about 4 hours,I feel ok about this well thought I d... (293 words)