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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend is a virgin, has performance anxiety that makes me feel undesired.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17, nearly 18 and I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. I was not a virgin when I first started dating him - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend - but my current boyfriend is still a virgin. At the beginning of our relationship we discussed this, ... (757 words)

Friends misunderstand me because I am quiet and shy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. I really don't want to sound like a teenage drama queen...but I feel like nobody really likes me and that a lot of people get the wrong impression of me, and that I also never click well with people, and it's really upsetting to me. I'm an 18 year old female... (290 words)

What is the truth about libido? My man has been impotent since his 40s.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age - The curiosity is killing me, but I cant find the rght answer anywhere. I keep hearing about man , who goes impotent and age 40, and than the doctors, and people are saying , oh it happens all the time, and its just natural aging. Yet, I keep hearing ( like here, and many ... (144 words)

I feel like I am too ugly to deserve a guy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 24 years old, female. I'm having HUGE self confidence issues. I've never felt pretty or beautiful. Never. In high school I never had any luck with guys. Now, I do get some attention. Some people tell me I'm pretty, some even tell me I'm hot. But I look in the mirror, or w... (411 words)

Are there any guys who don't prefer "beautiful" women?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Are there any men out there who don't prefer traditionally beautiful women? I ask because there don't seem to be. I've met plenty of men who SAY they don't like those women, and say they prefer a natural look over fake, but still secretly look at them to masturbate. Then... (398 words)

Do all women play the chase game?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

1 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Do all girls/women play the hot or cold game, or indeed like the Chase? I feel its cropped up a few times where I've had a girl interested, giving hints then they go cold? I must admit I don't strike when the irons hot so I'm missing chances but still is it always l... (101 words)

I suffer from premature ejaculation and my girlfriend is not sexually satisfied!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend only orgasms from penetration. Thats a huge problem for me because i am small in size and i have premature ejaculation. She can nver orgasm from oral sex. I tried many different things and even went online looking for new techniques but it just doesnt work. Its ... (104 words)

My girlfriend won't admit that she is not sexually satisfied with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok this might be hard to understand but bear with me. So me and my girlfriend are sexually active and what i thought was amazing. Untill a couple months ago i just found out that she isnt orgasm. I asked her if she was and she said no and it just shot me down. We talked ... (516 words)

My boyfriend won't move on from the mistake I made by texting my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey gd ppl...well i have been with my bf for a year n a couple of months. We recently had a problem with me texting my ex which is my cousin so he fought n had this thing of not trusting me anymore he keeps on telling me that if i wanna leave him and go back to ma cousin and i ... (107 words)

My friend thinks I'm spoiling my husband.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My friend Debbie moved an hour and a half away a few years ago so we don't get to see each other as often as we use to. Debbie wants me to come and spent a weekend with her but my husband feels like why i cant just go and return home the same day.Debbie says ... (115 words)

I can't have a relationship with him but I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I know this may sound crazy, but it is true. 2 years ago I had a problem, and I needed help. He was the only one to help, he's so decent, clever and gentleman. I noticed him staring at me sometimes, so I tried to make it brief talking to him. He insisted to visit him... (267 words)

I'm worried I'm just my bpyfriend's rebound girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend (around 10 years older) for more than 2 years now. He has had a history of lying about his past with his ex of 7 years, who he said he broke up with almost 7 years ago (which was a lie), ranging from stupid things like what college she went to to ... (474 words)

I absolutely hate the degree that I'm doing and cant even get myself to finish it but what will my parents say?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I know this isn't the usual kind of question but i've been on this site before and always been impressed with the advice and guidance given so i thought i'd try it out. I've spent the past 3 years doing a degree that i shouldn't have been doing. I went for Psyc... (492 words)

My partner is obsessed with affairs and with pretty young girls.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - My partner seems obsessed about watching television programmes all about having affairs, or men getting one over on women. If it was just a couple of times a week it wouldn't be an issue, but its every night. Our SKY is full of recorded films all with the adultery theme, a... (475 words)

He's a liar and a hedonist but I love him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Is there any hope for us? I love my fiance so much, he is my best friend and we laugh together so much and when things are good, I have never known so much happiness. But...he has been a womaniser all his life. He was married for 26 years and cheated and lied to his fami... (983 words)

I can't say no to sex and being labelled by my friends. Please help me, I keep getting hurt over and over!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a lot of guy problems, so ill explain where it all came from. Im 17 years old. I lost my virginity at 14. To a 19 year old, it was forced and I was Hammered. I had never even made out with a guy before him. Then i waited nearly a year before i did it again, but that ... (367 words)

My uncle has cancer and I'm having panic attacks. Please help me this is a lot to deal with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My Uncle has cancer, how are we all going to get through this?. I live with my Grandparents and my Uncle. My Uncle was diagnosed with cancer a month ago. He has had a few tests, and he will get the results tomorrow. The doctor wants to see him and the family tomorrow. I'm so ... (423 words)

I want him to hold my hand or something, but I'm too awkward and need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (?) age 22-25 - Hey, so this guy is moving soon in one month, and we like each other. i want him to make a move or like kiss me or something. but we are both socially awkward dorks. how can i get him to at least hold my hand without either of us freaking. im desperate, as i only have a month ... (71 words)

I messed up my relationship by going back to the past. How can I fix this? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! I am 23 years old woman and I come from a traditional family background. Four years back i was dating a guy who was sweet and really loved me lots ,well I too started to like him and we dated for two and half years.I was totally committed to him but I was unhappy with ... (427 words)

Advice on how to proceed with a friend who is trying to demonize me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in University, I had 2 very close girlfriends and we used to do everything together. Now its 10 years on; I moved away to another country and left the other 2 behind. We have remained in contact but more-so the other 2 because they live closer together and see each other ... (406 words)

My lack of trust is causing problems in our relationship. Any advice on how to deal with this pls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so my boyfriend and i have been dating 5 months. We have been fighting for the past 2 days. We started fighting yesterday because he wouldn't go with me to a friends birthday party with me. He says it makes him mad because i never go to his friends house or wanna ... (401 words)

I want to get liposuction but have no idea where to start. Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm considering liposuction but I don't know where to begin. I'm 5'5 and pear shaped. I'm very slender on top but quite large on the bottom. I want to get liposuction to remove the extra fat on my thighs/bottom for a nicer proportion. Dieting only causes me to slim down on top ... (122 words)

How do I learn to make passionate love to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm new to this, I'm divorced and in my 30's and completely in love with my girlfriend! This is my first and hopefully only same sex relationship. She's younger then I but way more experienced. I want to make love to her as passionately as she does me but I don't know how :( ... (84 words)

My friends tell me to move on because he's an idiot, but I kinda like him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this guy both like each other and have been speaking for about 6-7 months. Last night we went out with our friends to a few clubs and he turned up quite drunk, we shared a kiss and that was that, until my friend came outside to see where I was to tell me he had just ... (167 words)