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writes:So Im in a long distance situation with my boyfriend/ex. We're together but not. It's hard to explain. Anyway, I'm a pretty jealous person and noticed that he befriended a girl on Facebook who lives out of state about 2 months ago. She befriended his brother a month later after that. She doesnt have a lot of friends on Facebook and she isnt friends with anyone else in the same state as my guy. I'm starting to read into this because I find it odd. The thing is that my guy sends me a goodnight text and tells me he loves me most nights out of the week. We talk on the phone 1-2x a week too. Is it possible that he is seeing this girl? Do you think I'm just being paranoid or do you think he could be dating her on the side and not telling me? FYI: He knows I would not be okay with an open relationship, so do you think he would waste my time and string me along?
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reader, Caftin  +, writes (26 July 2013):
 Usually if I ever get a gut feeling with my boyfriend, I go with it and fins out as much as I possibly can.
Then I look at all the facts and be realistic about it :)
Looking at what you have put, she could have just been a random adder and the fact that she added his brother as well suggests she's either just become a friend or she's moved on from your bf (as in, moved on from trying to get his attention) and went for the brother instead.
Have you spoke to your bf about it?
Hope it works out for you!
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