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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I am very happy, but need some advice. He hasn't told me loves me, though in more ways than 1, I do feel loved. Should I bring up the fact that he hasn't said this yet? Also, for the sake of his career, he may have to move in a year. I asked him "if you move, do you still see us together?", to which he responded: "I don't know, I can't predict how things will be in a years time". I appreciate an honest answer without empty promises, but should I be concerned about his response? He's taken me to meet his family twice and I know most of his friends. We stay in contact through text every day normally too.I am worried he's not serious about me, should I be?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 July 2013):
 I dated a girl for six years, and never heard her speak "I love you"... or anything like that.... I got concerned, so began to pull back from her, and found that NOTHING CHANGED....she didn't recognize any pull-back.... and kept on, in life, as if there was nothing new or different....
I went on with her for yet another year.... and then realized that SHE DIDN'T LOVE ME!!!!! It wasn't simply a matter of SAYING so.... it was that it wasn't in her reportoire of how she felt about people....
So... I told her that we needed to go our separate ways. We did so.... and I found a lovely lady to spend time with... and SHE seems to love me (says so!).... whilest ex- is still trying to find out why she can't find a guy who will treat her as nicely as I did (darn fool that I was!)...
I think that, if a person doesn't tell you that they love you... then you need to believe them and seek out someone who WILL - or, MIGHT - love you... IF you think that that is an important part of a relationship...
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013): This is all most identical to my situation have faith it took my boyfriend 15 months to say them words, now he tells me every day and yes it was worth the wait as I know he means it truly as will your BF. X
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