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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I ejaculate immediately after penetration, am I a virgin? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - i dont know if i should say i broke my virginity or not because each time i try to hav sex i ejaculate the moment i put on a condom. I started having sex 3 months ago and in most cases i ejaculate immediatly after penetration.am scared to make love to anyone cause each time ... (90 words)

His family give me stares that make me feel shy and scared at the same time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4188 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i need as much as help i can get. My boyfriend and i have been going low for sometime now. If i would talk about my own effort in this relationship, i'll say my effort has not been much. He complains about me a lot, he tells me to my face that i've not been puttin any effort. ... (227 words)

Was his mother texting me an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F) age 30-35 - Today I received a text message from my exes mother. Alas it is a holiday so I am tempted to brush it off as coincidence or a mass text. However, my ex and I broke up last Halloween and never did I receive any mass texts on Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Easter...you get ... (196 words)

Should I say something to my ex who is stringing me along, or should I just move on even though I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4188 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering what to do about an ex who is stringing me along: The relationship was 2 years ago and lasted only 2 months. He seemed very serious and asked me early on about being exclusive. When we met and dated I was living 3 hours away from him (I had been planning to move... (759 words)

Lost my virginity months ago and still bleed every time I have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i had just lost my virginity on valentines and everytime we have had sex i have bleed im worried and dont know what to do ... (25 words)

How do I feel good about myself and show b/f a good time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just looking for some advice, I came out of a very turbulent relationship a few months ago and have been texting a guy and met up with him a good few times in the last month, I do like him and would like to continue seeing him, but I have absolutely no confidence in myself in ... (187 words)

Ladies: Is it more difficult to have orgasm if you've been drinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Well, hello, all, it's time to turn the tables :) My question is simple; have any of you ladies noticed that if you drink regularly (1 drink a day for a week or more), orgasm takes longer and is more difficult to attain? I usually don't have an issue with it, but the l... (266 words)

B/f had said he'd know within a year if he wanted to marry. Its been 10 months, should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend mentioned at the start of our relationship that after being with a girl for a year, he would know whether or not he would want to marry that person. His last two girlfriends lasted about a year and his first serious girlfriend lasted four years ( she was four years ... (257 words)

My girlfriend dumped my because I wouldn't add her as a friend on Facebook.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girlfriend dumped me because I wouldn't add her as my friend on Facebook. I don't understand what everyone's obsession over Facebook is. I like to keep my private life private. I think she is just too jealous. I don't feel I should have to add her. I mean she was my ... (97 words)

My inlaws take advantage of my husband and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I feel my inlaws take advantage of my husband and it irritates me so much. For example.he pays fees for his sister who is in university. She disrespects him. If he asks to see receipts for the payments , she will scream and says its because you dont want to ... (192 words)

Does she like me or is she trying to push me away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, okay so here's my problem. One night at a work night out me and a co worker started kissing. We were kissing for quite a while and multiple times. Other girls I work with told me she fancied me but I don't know of this is because she was drunk. So I spoke to her on faceb... (180 words)

Am so confused , I think there is this connection between I and my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My heart has never felt so soft like this before in a long time , The last time i felt like this was 5 months back when my ex broke up with me. last month she has been trying to get in touch with me, but i refused to reply all her mails. I also didn't sent her a birthday text ... (180 words)

I'm in love with a married woman. Her husband knows and she broke it off saying she can't live with the lies!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age - well were to start really, Actually I am rather a pathetic person and very weak I think. In January this year I met a very beautiful woman on a site for language exchange we got talking I knew she was married but unhappy. he is from Ukraine and I live in Uk so I went to see ... (368 words)

How do you ask to have an open relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - What is the best way to go about asking your boyfriend to allow the relationship to become an open relatonship?... (20 words)

My disabled partner is not able to satisfy my sexually and its causing problems of frustration and trust. Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancee is disabled and cannot make love as often as I'd like to. His back pain severely restricts what he can do and how often. I have a very high sex drive so I find this a real challenge. I am ok to deal with it day by day while sober but the last few times I have drank ... (276 words)

My best friend chose a girl over me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Whether or not you will answer or not, idk but I am currrently in the same situation, (different of course but sameish) We were best friends for a.long while. Things all changed when he got a gf. I mean, I have had one before, just remember that. We used to hang out A LOT. ... (226 words)

Should I let him stay in the motel with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm dating this guy for 2 months now..I'm going to visit his city next week,and I'l be staying in a hotel and I think he would stay with me..but I don't know if we should stay together!obviously we wouldn't have sex its way too soon BUT should I tell him he should go at ni... (73 words)

I'm struggling to let go of my ex, she is my reason for living. I really need some advice pls?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Would you allow your ex to move on to a new partner when you love them so much? They were everything and your entire reason for being here. 3 years I've tried everything to win her back. I've only ever loved her, I will only ever love her. The mother to my sons and my litt... (165 words)

Bleeding after unprotected sex means ???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 18, just moved to florida, and started seeing this guy. Weve been together for awhile, and we have been having sex, without a condom. Tonight after I got home I noticed blood when I went to the bathroom. Im scared of what this could have been from. Also during when we were ... (81 words)

BF has lost interest in sex and blames it on the fact that I am leaving. Please advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, It's been a long long time since I've used this page! But I thought this would be a useful and important time to use it. I'm currently in a relationship and it's very complicated. A lot of people say I should just get out but it's easier said than done. I currentl... (286 words)

I am confused about my sexuality and find myself attracted to FTM trans men. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4170 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is is that I am attracted to FTM trans men? Does this make me gay? The older I get, the more I find myself checking out masculine lesbians and FTM trans men. I thought if a person was gay they would know by about age 16 or 17. I am 22, and these feelings of mine have ... (256 words)

Could it be puppy love, curiosity, or something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I have a problem. I have this best friend, she is only a year younger than me and we have been friends for a while now, I'm always staying over at her house and hanging out with her. My friends has a brother who is a year older than me and we are also pretty good... (395 words)

I want to see improvement in every area in my life but don't know where to start.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

4 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - lately im so depressed, i dont know what to do i have a job but only week two days a week, i have tryed getting more hours but there they dont have any, due to this im waking up and just doing nothing all day. i do drive but my car is broken and due to working so lit... (204 words)