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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want us to be together for ever -- am I gearing up for heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for some time, and even though we are only 15 I know I love him deeply. We have started thinking about a future together, and even though we are young I could see myself with this boy for the rest of my life. the stereotype that ... (144 words)

Anyone ever seen a chick magnet in his 50s?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I am just wondering if anyone else has seen such a thing. There is this guy at work, who is probably about mid 50's. Maybe more. He is more popular than any of us with all the many girls here, including those between 18 and 25. They all lust after him, preferring him even over ... (267 words)

Fell too hard too soon, took a break, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you ever feel like you get yourself into a situation and when you get out off it sometimes people draw you back in?? A few months ago one of my friends came over when my parents were on holiday. He was always just a friend, someone i never fancied or saw in that way at a... (626 words)

Help with a phobia?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a phobia which seems to be taking over my life. It sounds like a silly thing to be scared of but I have a phobia of crane flies/daddy long legs. During summer there is an approx. 6 week period when there are loads of them about. At this time, my bedroom window and door ... (329 words)

Did we miss important steps by having intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids! By the way, thankyou for taking the time to read and hopefully answer some of my questions! I will explain as best as I could. So, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 4 years and have been together for a month now. He's 23 and I'm 21. Last week we recen... (186 words)

Why do I feel like I'm abandoning my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am a caregiver for my mom I have four other siblings that really refuses to be apart of this situation with my mom.She is getting older she can't hold her body fluids like she use to so its and often clean up I have to do so my home won't smell.I want to prevent ... (224 words)

He hasn't introduced me to his parents, and they are here for only 2 more weeks!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and he has said he wants to marry me and even gave me a promise ring on Valentine's Day. We spend a lot of time together, and everything is good. I have yet to meet his parents, however, since they live in another country.... (361 words)

I was with him for 13 years, once a week, how do I accept it's over now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a man for 13 years. He is 50 and I am 42. He has never invited me out and neither have I met his family or friends. We use to talk on the phone regularly at nights and on weekends. We are intimate once every week from we met until now. We both live ... (155 words)

He shuts me out when things get rough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend a little over a year and i care about him deeply, but he's a very proud and prideful person. He refuses any form of help or admitting he needs anyone in his life besides himself and his 3 year old daughter. Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong ... (161 words)

How do I start regularly dating a man I've only sporadically dated before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 28 and he's 38. We'd been in touch sporadically over the past five years and went on a date yesterday. It's not our first date ever, but before this we've mostly either been on coffee dates or hung out with other people, so dinner and a movie felt like an upgrade. And I ... (499 words)

In love with two different guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, this is going to be pretty long, so I just want to thank anyone who actually takes the time to read this and give advice. Let's do each other a favor and try to keep negative comments to a minimum. Basically, I'm in love with two different guys. We will ca... (851 words)

She is the only one who turns me on -- is this a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm not too sure if this is a problem or not. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years. We had a 2 month break at one stage. To the point, my girlfriend is the only girl that turns me on... It's strange,, I look at a pretty girl on the street and I fin... (172 words)

We've been together a week and now he wants to have sex! I don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been with my boyfriend for a week now, he is asking me for sex ,we are both 14, i dont know what to do can you help me? x ... (31 words)

I finally told my girlfriend about all the concerns I've been holding back. Was I an idiot? Should I have just kept my mouth shut and carried on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My Long-term GF Leah and I have split up, at least for a while. We've been together just over 7 years now, had a couple of bumps down the road, but nothing we couldn't overcome. I met her in college the opposite side of the country where I'm from, and after a few years of try... (646 words)

How old were you when you kissed someone?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - just asking, how old where you when you kissed somebody or anybody?????... (12 words)

How do I distinguish the losers from the keepers? And how do I tell a keeper I want to wait before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have relationship problems, how do i trust a guy when i have been hurt by the ones i thought i could trust? Every guy i am suposed to be friends with decide they want in my pants or want to be in a relationship. I dont flirt with guys, I just love to have fun and i dont know ... (228 words)

How do I tactfully find out why she didn't invite my longterm boyfriend to her wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends from school is getting married, and though she's spent most of the last 2 years overseas, we are still relatively close friends. I was so excited when she asked me and my best friend to be bridesmaids! When the invitation came to her engagement party... (243 words)

She keeps bringing up my ex-girlfriends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for just under a year now. We have a really great relationship. We laugh, have fun together and a great sex life. I find her really attractive too, I love her and I can see myself spending my life with her. Our only real problem that we ... (470 words)

Swinging gone terribly wrong, am I stupid for staying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 41 year old married woman for 16 years. I got my husband into swinging then I began an longtime affair for over 10 years. I do not want to swing anymore. I just recently stopped my affair within the last year, my husband is still a swinger and has multiple women he's ... (260 words)

My ex kissed me, he's married and I'm dating someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i need major advice! my ex/daughters father and i have been broken up for a year. He's is married and has a new baby. i have been dating this guy for 5 months. I am very happy with my boyfriend now i wouldnt trade him for anything. last night my ex came over to drop ou... (313 words)

How do I talk about the future with him without freaking him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 24 years old and I'm in a relationship with this guy for over 2 months,things are going great between us.. At one point when he asked about the future 'I told him its way too soon' and now probably he feels the same.. But I don't know why lately I feel like havin... (107 words)

could it be that I've always had a thing there but didn't realize it until he WAS in uniform?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What is it about a man in uniform that drives a woman crazy? My best friend (who I've never looked at sexually) enlisted in the USAF in the middle of senior year of high school; he went into basic two days after graduation two months ago. He's always been a chubby guy but very ... (238 words)

I'm married and friend now wants to have sex. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am actually from Pakistan but now living in Australia with my husband and 4 years old son.My husband works and I am a housewife.We r really a happy small family.Here I met with a guy when I first came.I lost my way and my husband was not with me.The guy then helped me.From ... (218 words)

Is my friend possibly gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - First - I'll say that I'm gay myself, and I'm not just asking to be a douchebag. I'm very attracted to my friend. Second - there will be a TL;DR (Too long; didn't read) version available at the bottom. Although, I'm in desperate need of some opinions from people who read ... (761 words)

Why do they keep talking about her to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (M) - Why does my ex-girlfriend family keep bringing this girl up in conversations whenever I see them? If I talk to the mother or father it’s always "have you seen her" or they try to tell me the things she’s doing which I don’t care about. The aunt who I see once a year maybe on my ... (121 words)

Should I believe he doesn't really want to be with her? Or should I accept that he lied to my face and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My last year in college I met this guy who is only a year younger than me but 2 years behind me academically because of where his birthday falls. He and I got along well and were always friendly when we saw each other but didn't hang out. I just graduated college this pas... (543 words)

I'm scared my boyfriend will leave me for someone with a bigger dick

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

9 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a boyfriend (I'm gay) and we've been dating for a good while now and are very committed to each other. When we have sex normally both of us get off and we kind feed off each other's energies. We constantly tell each other how much we love one another and things are ... (138 words)

Guy acting hot then cold? Does he like me more than just as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have a guy friend. I'm 18, he's 21. We've been aware of eachother's existence since we were both 13? But we didn't start becoming friends until I was about 16 nearly 17. We are quite good friends now. Me and him sometimes go do work together and we go off in his van, ... (212 words)

Deep Throat a Very Thick Dick..can it be done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend with a very thick dick. I want to be able to deep throat him but I haven't been able to. I know the secret to it is relaxing my throat but he's so thick its almost impossible for me. Are there any tips where it'll be possible for me to do this for him? ... (58 words)

Should I relax and give it a little longer to see if he files for divorce since we haven't been dating that long? or should I be ready to run as fast as I can?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here is the issue, I have only been with my boyfriend since Jan. So not that long but we were pretty good friends for a year prior to starting a relationship... Thing is I knew in the beginning that he was separated from his wife, that she was in a diff state yada, yada... (222 words)

Is it normal for a guy to keep a booty call around for 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so 2 years ago I moved back home and decided to try out the internet dating deal. I met a few nice guys but nothing really went anywhere, except with one guy, sort of. We met a month or so after talking and seemed to hit it off. We always had a good time together and I ... (406 words)

Me, the socially anxious goof accidentally sends friend request… do I contact him and explain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

9 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is probably going to sound like the dorkiest thing ever, but I need some help. I started college last fall and it was a real struggle for me to leave home and adjust. There were a lot of things that went wrong my first few weeks at school and one of them was this gu... (387 words)