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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't trust my husband because he gambles and lies

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i have been married for almost two years. I know we are new and young but I am worried that we have problems that I can't fix. When we were engaged he gambled away $500 of our savings behind my back then confessed. Then after one year of marriage he did it ... (234 words)

I have a thing for redheads so how do I ask my g/f to dye her hair red?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'll admit it, I've always had a thing for redheads. My current girlfriend (who's an awesome person) is a burnette but dyes her hair more of a lighter black. I think she would look great if she dyed it red, because she has a fair skin tone with freckles, it would probably ... (81 words)

After she moved away, we barely talk anymore because she's always too tired or too busy or talking to this guy! Do I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this girl now. Last year, she moved to another city with her family. She used to call and message me all the time. After 3months,she joined a college for her further studies. She became friends with a guy from her class. Since then, ... (338 words)

I really like this girl but all my friends hate her! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I realy like this girl but all my friends absolutly hate her. I want to keep my friends and i want to keep my girl what should i do and then to make it worse im to shy to ask her out in person and im not going to ask her out on the phone. i think she might be the one what do i ... (73 words)

He's become all clingy and weird due to his depression and I'm wondering if I should suggest we not speak during my holiday to think things through. Thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Please bear with me for a bit. I know it is long. The situation is very strange. The man in question is a friend of a friend. We met in March and he was not supposed to be anything but a fling, an one night stand even. I was fine with this. The sex was mindbl... (1116 words)

Is it appropriate or inappropriate for your sister to live with your soon-to-be ex husband?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Appropriate or inappropriate? My husband and I were having problems. My sister broke up with her boyfriend and requested to live in the house, I said no and gave her other options. My husband and I were on the verge of separation, I didn't think it was right to have her move ... (269 words)

Does chronic depression affect a man's erection and sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age - Could my sexual dysfunction caused by low grade , chronic, depression? I have a very damaged sexual function, and my life is deeply effected by it. My wife is thinking about living me, because she feels,Im not attracted to her anymore, and she is hurt. I can understand, ... (157 words)

My landlord wants to date me and is buying and fixing things in the apartment. It's scaring me, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've recently moved to a new city. I was pretty upset the first time I met my landlord, as my flatmates decided that me being the new girl, they could play a cruel trick. So he helped me out and sorted the situation. Complimented me in the process 'you're ... (206 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem like he has grown up or wants to make life commitments with me. Do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and in that time, I feel I have grown up a lot and he hasn't changed much at all. I am now 28, he is 27, and he is still showing no interest in wanting to talk about marriage/kids etc. When I met him we both said marriage and kid... (200 words)

Why does my friend go weeks without speaking to me? Should I stop talking to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my friend behave this way? Should I reply back to her? So my friend went on holiday and I asked her to get me some make up from there. Is cheaper where she went. I was on the phone to her the day before she left and was texting when she was at the airport and... (218 words)

Can I get an hpv virus and pass it off to my wife if I have never had sex with anyone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age - we were married in 75, and in 82 my wife had a rapid weight loss issue that prompted her to go to her dr. he found beginning stages of cancer on her cervix and had to remove them. she never mentioned how she got it but now we know about hpv. is this what she had? can i ... (138 words)

This girl keeps flirting with my boyfriend! What do I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This girl keeps flirting and talking about sexual things with my boyfriend and I honestly can't handle it anymore. I guess he just sees her as being friendly/funny but it really hurts me that she keeps doing it. I'm honestly scared that he'll become more interested in ... (76 words)

I care for him a lot but I think he still has feelings for his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and this guy have been talking for a while now, and we both now have feelings for each other and care about each other a lot (we aren't dating though). The reason I'm very scared about getting into a relationship with him is because of his ex. He was in a 2 year rela... (231 words)

I've already pitched in money for a holiday and now my girlfriend is treating me like crap. I don't think I want to be with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - About two months ago my girlfriend and her friends (her friends,not mine)decided to go on a vacation and they invited me. We calculated that it would be 500 dollars a person. Everyone pitched in money 2 months ago in order to ensure commitment and make sure no one would bail ... (194 words)

Is my ex trying to get back together or does he just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I left my boyfriend about a month ago. He didn't understand why and we got pretty bitter every time I tried to explain it. We didn't speak for three weeks. I didn't think we'd talk again. About a week ago, He then tried to contact me, I shot him down. Today we finally spoke. We ... (114 words)

A month ago he said he loves me, now I see a pic of him with someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - so i need some insight on what to do.. my ex boyfriend and i dated for almost 3 years..since we broke up we have been on and off..hooking up acting like a couple but not really a couple..i think he has commitment issues he keeps saying we dont work we are "different people" ... (213 words)

It's almost as if he doesn't care

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone! I was hoping someone would be able to put light into my situation.... Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 years (on and off) where we broke up for different reasons and then resolved our issues to give it another go. Well the past few weeks things have been circul... (368 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me for not having sex with him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and in college studying to be a registered nurse,recently I met a guy, he's very attractive and he asked me for my number, he texted me the same day asking me to come to his house.i told him no because it seems like he wanted sex right away. After a week of ... (201 words)

His friends are immature -- should I say anything about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 29 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person i have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of moving in next year after ... (390 words)

He cut me off and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, so I started seeing this guy.. he lives 3 doors down from me! We started chating about a month ago he put his number on a piece of paper and left it on my car so he made the first move! Seeing him everything fine! But all of the sudden he stopped talking to me for ... (267 words)

We had two dates and got on well, now what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been on 2 dates with a man we got on really well he got home and text me saying cant wait to see you again i replied that was 2 weeks ago i have only had 4 msgs from him last Friday he kissed me at the end of each date and seemed genuinely interested there is a ex ... (90 words)

Why do I like the idea of degrading sexual acts? And how could I possibly encourage Mr. Vanilla to participate in them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so in love with him; we've been together for two years and our romance is great, our sex isn't. I've never climaxed with any partner and I'm afraid I know why, I think I like the darker side of sex, though I've never tried it. The guy I'm with, he is so vanilla. I can't get ... (117 words)

Boyfriend is withholding affection after argument

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are both in our late 20's and we've been living together for 3 years. Four days ago we got into a pretty bad argument where I suggested a break up in the heat of the moment (not something I want at all) and he agreed to. I then took it back almost ... (763 words)

My questions are is it normal feeling like that because I just met him once?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - About three days ago I met this guy while I was on the beach. Suddenly I stated to stare at him he was very attractive , and at the same time he caught my eyes and I felt so weak my heart started to beat and I started to shake . we were just staring at each other, but the worst ... (152 words)

I still miss my ex whom I broke up with 3 years ago. Would it be so bad to contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating this guy 3 years ago and I still miss him, he has recently been coming to mind a lot more. i have even been dreaming about him and even feeling that warm happy feeling i used to get when i was with him. I don't know if I am crazy and maybe i should just forget him. ... (157 words)

We haven't meet yet. I want to tell him I like him but I'm nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I sent this guy a friend request on Facebook and he accepted me. A day after he accepted me he liked my photo and he messaged me saying that he wanted to say hello cause I am beautiful. We chatted for a little bit and he said he had to go out with his friends he offered ... (245 words)

How can I learn to open myself up to others and become more social?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Everyone, I'm just curious to know If anyone can help me. I have social issues. I'm a reserved person, not so much shy, but I find it extremely hard to communicate with people even when I really want to ? When I'm interested in a guy and he's talking to me, I cannot con... (137 words)

We're not together but we're jealous of each other. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a complicated relationship with this guy. We are not together, but we are somewhat talking I guess. We are close friends who have feelings for each other. We made a vow that we would always be open and honest with each other no matter the circumstance. About absolutely... (386 words)

Is she being friendly,interested or am I friend zoned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is this girl I realized I kind of have a thing for, but have not really done anything about it. We do work at the same place I found out that this is what she thinks of me. "Sometimes people touch you, and you want them in your life for a long time. Relation... (327 words)

Can I fancy a man without a 'crush?'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there. I apologise if I've contacted you before. I've been in touch with many, in the hope of finding someone who can relate to my problem. I'm a 42 year old woman. I can 'fancy' some (not many) men, and 'fancy' loads more women. I understand that it's the 'person' that ... (393 words)

How do I know when its safe to have sex with hpv?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age - How do I go about having sex with another women, I have found out I caught hpv from a women little over a year ago, amild case of it. But they say condoms don't help, you can get it from oral sex, they say it goes dorment any where from six months to two years , but their is ... (118 words)

I can't wait forever for him! Do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am really confused and need help deciding. I broke up with my bf. I had everything a girl could want but im scared of getting close to someone. Trust issues.-. But Im ready now and want to get back together. So foes he. But he's in a boys home and that means i can't talk ... (88 words)

I'm not sure if anyone wants to date me and its making me depressed. I'm worrying my friends are talking about me behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help but I'm not sure what my question is, I am sorry for the length of this but any help for my situation would be greatly appreciated . Okay to start with I hang out with a fairly large group of friends, a few girls and the rest guys, but with one of the girls we hav... (331 words)

He doesn't care about me anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently in America, which has a 7 hours of time difference between my country. I will be going back at the end of the summer. I just wanted to give that information, because my problem seems fairly simple. My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me anymore. I rem... (1179 words)

Should I fight for this love? How can this work if I'm moving though?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I do about this guy I have connected with? So I graduated college and it was a year since my first big breakup and I planned to go leave and teach in Honduras. Enter: Dave. Dave was this guy who I had been extremely attracted to since I first saw him; his appearance, ... (567 words)