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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm with an alcoholic who goes back and forth between his ex and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with a man who is an alcoholic and drinks liquor and beer everyday.He has for 5yrs. now been going back and forth between his ex-girl friend and me.He'll be at my house one month,then at her house the next month.He is nice to me when he is ... (102 words)

My neighbors are careless regarding security and have been consistently rude to me since I politely pointed this out to them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pretty irate at the moment. I have new neighbours who I can refer to as hypersensitive. When they first moved into my building, their visitors used to leave the main building door open and this posed a major security risk. I even witnessed their daughter leaving the door ... (472 words)

He always texts me first but I feel like he only writes to me because he's bored

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy I communicate with always texts me first, but doesn't want to know anything about me. after he texts me I am the one who ask how he is or questions about him. we don't have any sexual talk. and when I ask him why he talks to me, he gets defensive. I think he only talks ... (81 words)

Isnt it better to find someone that likes you just as you look rather than getting all buffed for them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have noticed that after a break up a lot of people say start the gym to boost confidence and better oneself etc. The thing is though that if you do go the gym and get a good body and attract loads of girls/guys are they not just attracted to you for your body would it not be ... (183 words)

It took me a long time to get over my last relationship and now I'm scared my time is running out and I'll end up alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been single for over two years.I am now 24 years old.I have this growing fear that I may end up spending the rest of my life alone.my last relationship ended badly,my heart was broken into piece.I had a hard time getting over that.I am ok now and want to start dating ... (151 words)

Is he rebounding or is he just crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend of two years and I have recently broke up. It's been a rocky relationship for quite a while but we love(d) each other very much and were one day planning to marry and have kids etc. We could not be without each other. Since we've broken up we have still calle... (1114 words)

Is it ok for me to send a fan letter to a singer I admire?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys :) Okay, so for a while I've become a huge fan of Josh Groban (a singer). Now, I've never been very talkative with my family e.t.c. about what I like and stuff, but I really want to write my first fan mail to him by post. He's from america so is this possible as I... (159 words)

How do I resolve my feelings about my sexuality? Should I wait until I have my first crush on a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) age 22-25 - I think im bi. Not completely positive, but i will see another girl sometimes and be totally turned on. Like girls my age. i KNOW i like boys though. but i dont know how to tell my parents or anything. its so wierd. I dont really know what im asking really. but i need help. d... (91 words)

Do I ask her for a kiss or just lean in and go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have been a couple for 1 week, and she is my first girlfriend. I've never kissed a girl, had sex, anything. I think I've gotten passed the fear/nervousness of having my first kiss, but my question is: do I ask her or do I just lean in and kiss her? ... (109 words)

I lost my best friend because I didn't want to date her. Now she has shut me out of her life and it really hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. My best friend has had feelings for me for a long time, we both knew it but we decided to not worry about the future when I would fall in love with someone else and "just enjoy today". She knew I didn't feel the same and said she was happy to just be friends... (689 words)

Why does my family have so much to say about my mom's well being when they don't lend a helping hand at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,I have wrote many times to you about my situations about my mom and sibling not wanting to help me with her so two weeks about she had a terrible accident and it landed her in the hospital now she is in a seniors home getting therapy to get her strong again.The ... (245 words)

I don't want to feel like I have to defend my boyfriend all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for a few months and have been friends for years. Within the past year I have experienced a deep depression and recently have felt better with my bf's support as well as time weekly with my therapist. There are times when my bf will ask of me t... (273 words)

Am I being clingy and obsessive ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - We love each other we agreed to take things slow and refrain from making things official as of right now. I think this is a great idea considering our situation but here is where the problem lies. He told me that whenever we are not in contact he feels like I could be... (194 words)

How can long distance relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I had two failed long distance relationships. One was within the country. Other one was with the a girl from US. Here, in our area, dating and having girlfriend is consider a taboo thing. I don't like arrange marriages . So most of the time, I turn to online dating site and... (98 words)

He didn't tell me at first that he had kids even though I specified I didn't want to date someone with kids. Now what?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I met my boyfriend online over a month ago. I specifically said I don't want someone with kids. I was seeing him for about 2 weeks when we decided to make it official then he told me he has 2 kids. I let it go because at the time I thought I would be ok with it but the ... (172 words)

I think about sex too much with younger good looking men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I have been divorced for some years now and I have never thought about sex so much. Last year I had major surgery and I think that played a part in how I feel now. When I joined a dating site I got guys telling me how sexy I am and I even had phone sex with a few of them, and ... (283 words)

I've found out my crush has a girlfriend and I need advice on getting over him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - So my crush that I've had for awhile, I think he has a girlfriend . I found out a couple days ago over social media . I was heartbroken . I'm still trying to get over it . Now I wanna make sure that I don't like him anymore after this . I don't wanna feel miserable anymore . So ... (78 words)

My boyfriend is addicted to sports news and it's driving me insane

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. My bf is addicted to sports news. When he wakes up in the morning he has to watch and read sports news on tv, he listens to more than 5 radio stations consecutively just to hear sports news which is more or less repeatitive anyway. During the day he's constantly browsing ... (117 words)

Do guys when they are stressed push people away who care about them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys when they are stressed push people away who care about them? What is going on with me is this guy and I have been talking a lot about relationships, the future, our goals, work and mainly everything. We been getting super close that way. One night, we ended up hooking ... (235 words)

After a month boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't think I'm ready yet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i have known my boyfriend for a month now he wants to have sex in a way i do too but then i realize im not ready. What should i do?... (32 words)

Why does my boyfriend have trouble keeping his erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I are having sex, he has trouble maintaining his erection. The other day, he went soft while I was on top. So I decided to give him oral, and he had no problem getting hard again and then reaching climax. This has been a problem pretty o... (201 words)

I cheated with my ex. How do I make it up to my b/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend yesterday with one of my ex. I love my current boyfriend and i couldn't get away with it. I know it sounds bitchy and i know cheating is voluntary and all that shit, but i truely feel guilty and regretted. I wanna make up to him and minimise the ... (79 words)

He told me she was only a friend then later admits that he had sex with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a boy via social network some 9 months ago, we became friend,then he proposed me, though at first i was negative,we met and i started liking or loving him..he told me about his past relationships including that one with one of his junior, about whom he told that the girl ... (524 words)

Am I a lesbian if I watch lesbian porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) age 51-59 - i have been married for 20 years now. i find that i now like to masturbate watching lesbian porn. i especially like seeing another woman licking another woman's pantiei. when my husband and i watch lesbian porn together I want him to give me oral sex while watching. i ... (105 words)

Its been 4 years now since we've had sex and I'm feeling tempted to go elsewhere

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a monogamous relationship for 9 years. As time has gone on, my partners sex drive has tapered off, and now is none existent. I have tried talking to him about it, he went to the doctor, I have tried making romantic getaways, and a GREAT many other things. I love ... (105 words)

How can I make a long distance relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my now boyfriend online about 4 years ago and we have talked pretty consistently. Going back through our earlier messages, he told me multiple times that he liked me but only recently have I shared my feelings with him too. The catch? He's in a totally different countr... (182 words)

My boyfriend's friends are too needy! It bothers me that we cant do things as a couple

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 28 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person I have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of moving in next year after ... (917 words)

After everything do we still have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a relationship with my guy for the last 5 years. for the most part sadly, it has been an LDR. since 2012, we have been arguing and fighting over petty issues because of communication gap .... but this is true that we have been madly inlove . it is typical of my BF... (623 words)

I feel like I'm too unsociable to ever meet a girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

26 July 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - I feel like I'm to unsocial to ever find someone I like(as in to go out with). I never really been that interested in dating but also when I get the opportunity to go out and meet girls my own age I make excuses to not go, for example, it was my best friends birthday and he had ... (197 words)