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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After a night of passion he told me he isn't looking for a relationship but wants to continue meeting up for sex. I was embarrassed and hurt so I liead and said I wanted the same thing but I don't.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a night of passion with a regular in the bar where i work. He is very nice and i really liked him. Then i met him again twice more. Im so embarassed because he said to me this morning that he hopes i dont expect anyting from him as he doesnt want a girlfriend. I feel like ... (236 words)

My ex cheated on me and dumped me, he is now in a relationship and I am alone. How can I get over our break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend cheated on at Christmas time, lied about it, dumped me when I found out, still denied it afterwards but I have since found out that he is still with the girl he cheated on me with. I so angry that I was the one treated like crap but I'm alone and he's in a rel... (119 words)

Would it be an insult to get my wife an anniversary card after I cheated on her with a prostitute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I admitted to my wife just after Christmas that I'd cheated on her with a prostitute. I regret my behaviour very much and have no intention of ever repeating it. My wife is trying to forgive me and we're still together, but she doesn't wear her wedding ring anymore. She says ... (154 words)

I've met a new guy who I like and I led him to believe I was divorced. I'm actually married and my husband is threatening to take my children away from me if I try to divorce him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy recently that I am really into and he feels the same about me. This guy is long-distance and is divorced and has been for 9 years. When he asked me "are you married" I answered that I was for five years...kind of giving him the impression I wasn't anymore. The ... (417 words)

My boyfriend flirts shamelessly with other women but freaks out if he sees me with another man. Why do men flirt when they are in a happy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 3 years older than me we've been together for 4 years and lived together for 3 years. He's very sweet and always compliment me and tell me I'm beautiful. His problem is that he likes to flirt and I know its harmless but its getting on my nerves lately. One day ... (521 words)

I've been burned before and I'm worried it will happen again with this guy who lives in another country.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy a few months ago at a music event. He was the producer of the event, but I didn't know this until much later. I just saw him there and was immediately drawn to him. After the event was over I went up and introduced myself and had a chat with him. After that we ... (390 words)

I've always been there for my family but now that I need them, no one is there for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a tendency to always be there for people whether it was my family and friends I would go out of my way for them that was my way of showing I care. As expected though I did not realise until after that what you would do for others, others may not do the same for you. ... (407 words)

My husband's semen changed consistency. Does this mean he's cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has always had very thick, gloopy semen. He lost interest in sex a year ago. A full physical and blood workup proved him to be healthy. He started taking Cialis. We had sex 1 time since he began the Cialis , 1 month ago. His semen was downright runny. DOes this mean ... (58 words)

I am hurt that my boyfriend of 4 years is going on a 3-month music tour without consulting this with me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years is a music teacher, and I just found out he has agreed to go on a 3 month tour with his friend's band (their normal bassist can't do it) without thinking to discuss it with me. I am so hurt! Surely after 4 years this is something we would talk about... (198 words)

Dildo insertion is uncomfortable - I am a virgin. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Question: I have a vibrator/dildo (and I'm a virgin), and when I insert it, it doesn't feel good. It doesn't feel (really) bad, just kinda uncomfortable. Am I do something wrong? Any advice? [i use some lube]... (37 words)

When do you tell a woman you have had a vasectomy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - If a man has had a vasectomy, when is he obligated to tell the woman he is dating or interested in dating? What I am wondering is, if one decided to disclose this immediately, how would one bring this up on a first date? "So, what are your interests?" "Well, not kids!... (69 words)

Bible-thumping dad's bully antics are driving my family apart! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Aunts and Uncles, I have a “Bible thumping” father. While I love him and recognize his strengths (type A, making money, engineering things, taking challenges head on, networking), I have been chased down and pestered to believe in God on his terms, and this earns my ire. ... (711 words)

After two dates, he says he has no credit on his phone, do you think this is an excuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ive been on 2 dates with a man we got on really well i was starting to like him i haven't spoken to him for over a week a pointless conversation we had last time we spoke we were supposed to have a 3rd date which hasn't happened he says he has no credit on his phone do you ... (69 words)

Are there any natural ways I can make my period any lighter for tonight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I recently had to move back into our parents' house for a few months until September. We've planned a night away tonight seeing as we haven't been able to get any private time the past few weeks, but I woke up this morning and I have my period. I've checked ... (100 words)

He seems interested in me and I'd be happy to have a platonicc relationship but I'm attached

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A senior from my school recently started talking to me on facebook. He's really good-looking, the tall,dark, handsome mould actually. We were talking for about two days when he asked me out. I'm actually fine if things between us were platonic, but after he found out I was ... (128 words)

I feel like I'm falling for my best friend but I'm worried about pushing him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel like i am seriously falling for my best friend. this is very confusing to me, though not really because i guess it kind of makes sense. we seem to be perfect for one another but i think we are both afraid to make any initial steps into doing anything completely serious ... (401 words)

I met a guy on Facebook, we spoke and he seemed really interested, now he seems to have gone cold

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy in Facebook two weeks ago. I sent him a friend request and he accepted me. he sent me a message after he accepted my request." Hello I just want to say hi you are beautiful" and I responded to him saying hi and we kept chatting. after we chatted for almost an hour ... (380 words)

I'd like to get married one day but since my stepsister died from HIV I have been terrified of men and dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I would like to get married again but I am afraid of all the diseases out there. My stepsister was a nice person with two kids and when she came up to visit she seemed really happy and was going back to school. She stayed not to far from my dad's house so I got to see her ... (304 words)

My girlfriend got angry with me and wants to break up because I didn't accompany her in to Starbucks, I'm considering giving her what she wants

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Story: We have being dating for just 3 years. We are both each other's first gf and bf. I am 28. She's 27. We are both Asians. I went to my gf's place to pick her and her sister up to attend their parents' event about 1.5 hrs away. They wanted to go to the bank first then ... (752 words)

Things used to be great but I'm seeing another side of him and I'm starting to feel like I can't trust him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 years old, and have been in a relationship with my 23 year old boyfriend for 2 years. We don't live together. Things started off great in the beginning, but the honeymoon phase is over and I'm beginning to see the not-so-great side of him. A lot I can deal with, but ... (761 words)

I dreamt about kissing another man and now I feel guilty

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months now,and just last night both of us had a bad dream he was telling me his,and I was reluctant to tell mine,but he made me.. I dreamt that I made out with another guy(a guy we both know,not to well but we know... (146 words)

What is the problem with me dating two or three ladies at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

29 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to know from fellow Cupid reader As a man is there any problem when I get married to two or three wife, what about dating two or three ladies is there any problem. Please help, I need to understand this better ... (54 words)

My husband and I are trying to rebuild the trust in our relationship but we have totally conflicting work schedules

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are working through some trust issues. With that said, we basically are trying to rebuild the foundation that our relationship is made on, because we both love each other very much and are not willing to walk away from something truly amazing that we once had ... (156 words)

I like this guy and would like to date him but he lives far away and I'm afraid I'll blow it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I like this guy but he lives far away. He said that he would date me if he lived closer to me. I asked him if he would visit me and he said yes. He asked me the same and I said yes. We seem to both like music and we had a good conversation. He has been consistent with his ... (235 words)

My boyfriend has a squirting fixation and makes me feel inadequate because I can't do it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry to be vulgar, but I am experiencing a bit of tension in my relationship because I am not meeting my partner's expectations. I am his first, and he has a "squirting" fixation... before we got together, he actually did not know it was possible for a woman to have an orgas... (200 words)

My new girlfriend is very attractive and it makes me feel insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 24 year old guy seeing a girl of the same age. I fairly recently got out of a 3 year relationship which didn't work and am now seeing this new girl. This is going to sound like a strange issue but here goes... She is really good looking! I don't consider myself t... (201 words)

How can I have a relationship when she is still in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm going through a situation and I'm trying to get some opinions. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now. My problem is that he's still friends with his ex, and they continue to talk online... (241 words)

What is nervous porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm in a six month relationship with a great guywho I recently saw has masses of nervous porn deleted from his pc in his recycle bin. He's 45 and I'm just wondering what this is? I haven't restored these files. Im worried because I have a teen daughter and I know he is ... (143 words)