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writes:Hi all,Please help meeeee!!!I'm heartbroken right now... Its been a month since I met this guy.Initially wasn't much interested in him.But after getting to know him better, I really started liking him a lot.I cant stay without talking with him for a day.But he will reply only if I initiate the talk or msg. He does take me outside and calls me outside to some places(decent places ofcourse) and he is so sweet to me.But I'm not sure whether this sweetness means that he also likes me.Whenever he talks with me, he talks so well but that doesnt mean he is interested in me. I jus wanna give up on him and move on with my life.I'm going through terrible pain everyday because of this confusion.Kindly help me out[:(]
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both of you ! But he introduced me to his siblings and we have have a very common interest and he only asks me
Out sometimes ! But still he never tries to
MSG me and I'm the one who tries to
Communicate ! Ya I have been hurt a lot in my past. When a find a person being sweet , I imagine and make things worse for myself. Dunno how to handle this [:(] I welcome more
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013): No, sweetness doesn't mean he is into you. You would see this in his eyes, unless he is an amazing actor. Just sweetness is not going to last long without him making a move if he likes you in romantic way. I am involved with an organization where 80% are guys, all ages. They all are very sweet with me. It doesn't mean they all want to date me. I am sure they all think I am pretty because I am, but they don't want to date me. One guy I went to conference with abroad, and he was very sweet with me but then at the end he confessed that he really ,likes, me. We somewhat dating right now, and I really like him, but he didn't last very long with his just sweetness. he is new at the company, and he only lasted about a week without saying anything. I saw it though in his eyes the first day that he is into me. So if this guy is just sweet with you for a long time now, forget it. The less expectations the better.
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reader, crazylady88  +, writes (25 July 2013):
Maybe he's a nice guy in general.. But never mistake sweetness for sweetness... Actions speak louder than words so if he likes you he will make sure you know it.. Maybe he doesn't wanna come on too strong & scare you off.. Maybe your thinkin too much into it because you've been hurt in the past? Just go with the flow & if its meant to be, it will happen :) good luck xx
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