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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I believe the things he tells me when he's sober or when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We were once best friends but we have decided to take our relationship a little further. (we're not officially together though). He likes to go drinking with his friends but he's not a heavy drinker; he doesn't drink until ... (215 words)

Is it ok to have a crush on my 20-year-old karate sensei?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I go to a karate club in my town 2 days a week with a Sensei who is now,quite literally my best friend. I am the sort of person who doesnt really have friends apart from a few and I trust people a lot once I get to know them. Anyway so I have grown to trus... (276 words)

Update on alcoholic partner who can't choose between me and his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age - Mod's note: this is the original post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-with-an-alcoholic-who-goes-back-and.html This is the person who has the alcoholic mate who goes back and forth between me and his ex. All the answers were very helpful,I think I already knew the ans... (206 words)

My fiancé is still in touch with his ex and I'm concerned about his feelings for her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I know snooping etc and everything is not a good thing and I guess I wouldn't normally but the opportunity arose as my other half left his email open and I couldn't help it......my fiance had dogs with his ex wife and as far I knew they still communicate about the dogs etc ... (317 words)

I only want to date men, so why am I becoming addicted to lesbian porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem I am 100% straight I know this because I date only guys and I am attracted to only guys, yeah everyone dreams of a model body and I am rather insecure sometimes. But my issue is I am worth lesbian porn quite alot recently and getting rather addicted to it ... (101 words)

My husband's friend verbally attacked me and my husband believes him over me even though there were witnesses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,I am 24 years old and I now its 3 years to my marriage and there was always problem my husband spent more time with friends thn me.....but I managed as I love him so much,but now one of my husband's friend his name is suraj and he is married and had 2 kids..verbally ... (163 words)

My boyfriend was meeting his ex behind my back and I'm finding it very hard to trust him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I really want to work things out with my boyfriend but I don't know if I can trust him. We've been together two years, we met when I was finishing with someone else and he waited almost a year to actually be with me, during which time he had plenty of opportunity to have a r... (248 words)

Dirty talk and sexy photos with another man - should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bf for past 4 yrs. its a long distance relationship. I also had a good friend with whom I could share all my probs and all my opinions..but never loved him any near to my bf. Recently he broke up with his gf. Just to comfort him I said.i.like him and no.need.to beat ... (245 words)

My future in-laws refuse to help my fiancé but do everything for his irresponsible brother who has just got his new girlfriend pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a situation...well maybe not really a situation of my own, but I feel it affects my fiance and I enough that I'm not sure how to respond to it. MY fiance's brother just found out his girlfriend of 2 1/2 months is pregnant. Neither has a decent job, they're both hab... (599 words)

After losing my virginity to an escort I am left wondering if sex is overrated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

27 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I just wanted to confess that I had just lost my virginity to an escort. She came to my place and had arranged a 1 hour session. To my surprise, I didn't couldn't stay fully erect all the time. I thought I would finish very quickly because it was my first time. I ... (193 words)

Need Advice to get my best male friend back!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, I'm confused and hurt! I'm a 29 year old female with two kids that just now file for a divorce, before our divorce I always call my childhood friend (married man now) for advice cause he's always good at that, he's the type of friend you can count on in the past... (947 words)

How can I improve my attitude towards dumping guys too quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just need you all to read dis and help me wit a reasonable solution. I am a young pretty girl in my twenties,bt i have never had a stable and lasting relationsip ever since i started dating. Am always getting piss off easily and always end a relationship on my own. I w... (207 words)

Is is wrong to have sex with my ex husband's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So me my now ex husband and our best Male friend and his now ex wife,have all been friends for many years. me and my ex husband were married for 5 years and my friend and his wife where married for 7 years.. my birthday recently passed and my husband came to bed about 2 am and ... (404 words)

His new girlfriend news has set me back a bit.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I haven't been on here for a while as I've been doing so well, but today I feel a bit unsettled because I've just found out that my ex has a new girlfriend. I'm not going to contact him or anything like that, and I wish him well, but I just wanted to ask f... (426 words)

I fall in love and then disaster happens. How do I keep believing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) age 41-50 - I really need some advice. I am going through a major shipwreck and I don't know how to handle it. The situation in particular while sucking all the same is not what would break a person. It is the history around it. My life has been dogged by constant tragedy and heartbre... (550 words)

Whichever answer I give is the wrong answer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Whenever I meet American girl on dating site and we get along well, I get confused when she asks me would like to travel to US? If I say yes, they suspect me approaching her for getting to US. When I answer no, then they thing I don't want to meet them in real. When I ask them ... (118 words)

If I say yes to his marriage proposal will he later change his mind about me having girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm hoping I can get some real life experience answers here. The situation is I'm bisexual. I've been dating a Guy for 2 years and I love him deeply. He's none since the day we met that I'm bi and he's never had a problem with me dating a woman the entire we've been dating. ... (178 words)

My trust issues are ruining everything how can I put this right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles! Please can you help me. I'll start with a bit of past background, I'm one of this that's always been unlucky in love, and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. My childrens father cheated numerous times, and subsequent partners have either done the same... (410 words)

2 dates and no spark. 3rd date coming up, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here's the deal. I've been on 3 dates with the same guy. It's been a while since I've gotten to date number 3 with any guy, really, and we're quickly moving into uncharted territory for me. We have a lot of things in common. We like a lot of the same shows, we have a... (258 words)

Is there any hope in getting out of the friendzone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, this guy and I have known each other for 3.5 years. I'm 23 he's 21. I'm his second oldest friend because he has Avoidant Personality Disorder. We recently had a big fight and had to work it out. We got everything all worked out and over the course of the summer him ... (572 words)

I ruined my boyfriend's friendship without meaning to, how can I fix the situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all. As background:My boyfriend has always been concerned of whom I talk to. To the point where he feels my male friends or males that try to talk to me are all trying to get me into bed according to him. This triggered me drawing myself further from the friendships,... (620 words)

He doesn't want a relationship but I do. Should I end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, advice desperately needed! Firstly before everyone says it I know I am an idiot for getting myself into this situation but I've fallen for a guy who doesn't want a relationship. We have been 'seeing each other' for about 5 months now - by that I mean meeting up and ... (211 words)

What are men's opinions on girls who watch porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

27 July 2013 (?) age 41-50 - what are men's opinions on girls who watch porn? Should we keep it to ourselves and lie to our bf/husband or fess up?... (23 words)

I want him to be more passionate, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

27 July 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for two months. We just had sex for the first time last weekend. The problem is he is very shy and pretty conservative and I wish he would come out of his shell. I can be sexually aggressive sometimes and I like it when a man talks ... (107 words)

How strange is it to feel relatively normal so soon after leaving a bad relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I left an abusive relationship about a month ago. In retrospect, I wonder why I put up with the screaming and cursing, the threats of violence, the baseless accusations of cheating, and the infliction of pain and discomfort (e.g., puckering up as if she wanted a kiss and using ... (446 words)

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

27 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a year now, but from the begi... (373 words)